filling out the contact form on many websites?

Do you prefer emails or phone calls?

I know for myself I prefer first contact by email so I can get references and a introduction of yourself rather than a cold call and trying to get all the info needed

Lets us know what you think

thank you
hugs and kisses
Terri

Everyone enjoy the weekend and be safe, I'm headed to Laughlin on Sunday for some fun and relaxation

I still like first contact by email with some one I haven’t seen before. This way I can give her the info she needs and tell her a little about myself. If she doesn’t like what she see’s then I get no reply. And that’s fine with me because I just move along.

But for repeat visits I like to call her that saves a lot of time for a same day appointment.

By the way what are you doing tonight Terri?

It just works for me. It seems whenever I start with a phone call it goes into vm. And I don't like to leave a vm, so I usually email, and the lady can reply whenever she wants. With smart phones like blackberries, droids and Iphones responses are usually very timely. As far as contact forms, I really don't like them at all.
My email will include all the info that most ladies ask for on a contact form.

I skip providers who use webforms. Including ladies I would actually like to see.

I like to send an email initially, if a provider uses it. Then followup with a phone call.


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I will answer this two ways....

I have no problem on the website forms and I can email the info you woud need but....

I work in a career that has no email capabilities during the day, and we work 12 hour straight shifts with not much time to pull up email via the mobile (we do not even get lunch breaks)

so for me cell phone calls work better.

That is why I have to email a provider a week ahead of time to set something up so she can check the email and Date-Check and P411. Might take me that long to check any email away from work if she responds via email

My preference is via phone, as the voice and how she responds is key to my overall enjoyment. My last SO and I got involved for a number of reasons, but one of them was the Lauren Bacall- like quality of her voice.

Details and further info are great via email, but give me the human touch -- isn't that what this business is all about?

Despite the separate thread opened by our own Phoenix celebrity porn princess "trinitypet," in which she attempts to put hobbyists at ease about contact forms, the fact is that they are off-putting.  Some are downright unnecessarily intrusive.  We don't like them and we never will.  In context for this website, they make us the "sub" and the provider the "dom".  That may work fine in bed for some, but when it comes to divulging personal information, no amount of assurance will mitigate hobbyists' concerns.  Some hobbyists still shudder when recalling Desert Divas' computer printouts.

A requirement for a contact form is inferred to be an inflexible gatekeeper imposed by the provider.  They deter many hobbyists from proceeding, so will inhibit encounters without an initial contact having even been made.  Providers, barriers are bad for business.  With a shrug and a sigh, the prospective client will most likely just move on to what are seen as friendlier waters.  And you never even knew he was there.

On the other hand, we must acknowledge that the provider is at far greater legitimate risk than the client, since her exposure is multiplied by the number of clients whom she sees.  The question is how she may best be assured of a safe encounter every time, without deterring hobbyists.

When screening is clearly required by a provider, my preference is email.  Email also provides the provider more insight about the prospective client than does his filling out lines on a template.  The provider can still stipulate the desired information, but if the hobbyist (whether intentionally or accidentally) omits an item, the provider may still be able to make a favorable decision on the basis of the rest of the email.  If not, it's a simple matter to have a further clarifying message exchange, or handle it by phone.  If the prospect is reluctant to unveil himself to the extent requested, then he has a decision to make.  But, he remains in control of the preliminaries, rather than simply being asked to give it all up as specified on a pre-existing, impersonal form.
 
Otherwise, and especially since many encounters are desired on a same-day basis, I find phone calls most practical.  (Of course, many providers don't even provide an email address.)  A phone call also provides an additional sense to both parties of the nature of the individual on the other end, something not available with email.  For hobbyists, that further confirms (or flags) whether this is even a good path, particularly by taking a cue from whether voicemail is promptly returned.

Those providers who are overrun by prospects knocking on their doors may of course call their own shots, including use of contact forms and other practices with impunity:  they can't and won't see everyone, anyway.  Otherwise, in my opinion, they are best avoided.  Convenient or not, in my opinion they are bad for business, especially one that is all about personal service.

Hi Miss Terri,

Hope things are going well for you and you have a great time in Laughlin. My sister lives in Fort Mohave so she if real close.  A fun place and some good bargain's.



To answer your question, email, it just seems more personable then a damn old form and it  does give you a feel for how on writes. I'm not talking about spelling and such but a persons demeanor.



Because I had been on the forum for some time (not real long but awhile) and posted enough that my first provider (I no references at the time) and was only asking about how to handle that situation.



Due to how I always posted with respect she offered to see me as she felt comfortable with me from the forum.  Bless her.



Hope you have a great time and win Big,



Regards,

Bordello

three different ways to respond

1- the forms are good for you as they provide te info you desire in order to feel safe
2- email though can allow both parties to talk and be themselves
3- but phone is good as in my career I do not have access to a computer during the day but do my cell. Would no want anyone emailing and thinking I am ignoring them

Contact I prefer gently with my hands, then softly with our lips and tongue, and after that I get so immersed in you I lose track.




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Goofy……Wink

Hi, Beautiful, miss you.

NO FORMS!! I will do a yes/no for a Domme who wants to clarify interests, but that's it. I know TER reviews cover a lot of details, but how would a lady feel about getting a form before meeting on EXACTLY what her services cover, her real name, address, etc.  NO WAY !!

E-mail for sure

I like to be able to drop an email for first contact. It puts me a bit more at ease then the cold call. We all know the reason behind the call but being a bit shy I feel like I can get a read on the girl by the vibe of the emails and go from there.

E-mail is my preferred method for almost everything.  I have been emailing a provider that I plan on seeing soon, the other day she sent me an e-mail stating that she was excited to meet me later in the week.  It really made me feel great and got my motor running, even if it is a business thing it still means a lot to me.  Those stupid little emails (all non descriptive and not mentioning anything specific) are a gem.

I am also wary of the forms that ask for real name and such.  Not something I am comfortable giving out.  The phone call is also important, a girl with good phone skills will get me going any day.