Many woman cannot 'bear' to be romantic or date big guys. Some are fine with it.
How do you feel about about having big guys as clients? Do you prefer not to have them as clients?
Do you experience problems being with someone 300+lbs? Should a big guy mention this before you scheduling with you the first time?
Thank you for your candid answers!

Velvet, I agree with you over and over... why is that? lol

XOXOXO
C

I'm not above begging.
My question is serious. I'm using a alias for personal reason, with that being said, I do hope more of the providers that read this might put their thoughts down.
Thanks

4XL,

Alex and I had to really talk this through.  We are both very fit people, not only were we blessed with some great genes, but we also invest a huge portion of our lives into staying fit.

This past week - we visited the gym 4 times (and spent a minimum of 1hour and 20 minutes each visit), further, we hiked twice, and each hike we spend a minimum of 90 minutes.

All together its 8+ HOURS of time spent. Why? well, health is our #1 goal, fitness is second, followed by how it makes us feel and lastly we enjoy the benefits of how it makes us look.

Now, for the clients we MOST enjoy, we would have to say people who you can tell are putting forth an effort into taking care of themselves. This is not to say we would EXPECT them to be in the gym 8 hours a week, few people have the drive to do what Alex and I do.  

Of course we will be delighted to meet clients who say have a few extra pounds to lose - don't be silly.  We understand that spending time with a couple like us  is part of the adventure, part of the fantasy and we absolutely enjoy creating adventures that are to be remembered.

After-all, that is why we do this. so we don't care much if you are fit or have a few extra pounds to lose.

However, in the case of someone who is severely obese...  We would turn down the appointment.

I hate to admit this, and I feel terrible to say so, but I must be totally honest. I just don't think I could get to the same level of enthusiasm - which is to say the experience would be missing something for all of us.

(making it something more "mediocre" and not the "once-in-a-lifetime" experience we strive for in our reviews.)

I am speaking strictly as to what is merely a preference, in no way am i implying that people who are obese are bad.  Alex and I love what we do - and when you are with us, we want that to be overwhelmingly obvious - THAT my gentlemen friends is what you are paying for.

xxoo

Christine & Alex

I'm a large fellow myself, partly from a football injury in college and partly from medications taken for cancer treatment last year, so I'm sympathetic to the issue.  


I tend to steer away from those ladies, however well reviewed and however gorgeous, who make a point in their ads to tell of their addiction to fitness.  There have been one or two ladies, as well, that have encouraged me to come see them but I have found out from their other posts or in some other way that they prefer "fit" men.  It just doesn't pay to book those ladies, because they are not going to be enthusiastic about seeing you, even if you are pristine and smell like an American beauty rose.


There's just no sense setting one's self up for disappointment--life's too short and there are too many very lovely ladies out there who don't have that particular hangup.  


JMHO and my experience.

Sorry to hear about the treatment, I hope you recover in the best of health Dickus!

As to the discussion at hand..
In the end I really think it boils down to just coming in with the right attitude, having a great time, be respectful of one another, good hygiene on both ends, FIT/FAT cuts both ways!
Isa xoxo

Don't feel terrible about expressing such a well-spoken opinion.

Oh please get over yourself.  No one asked you about your routine, here is a guy with a problem and you are talking about yourself.

...is always upbeat.  You are truly a treat to be around!

I'm so skinny, I only have one side. I think it's the right side, but I'm not sure.

Isabella has such a great outlook.  There is a true skill and art form to being a courtesan and not every hobbyist is looking for the same experience.  A wonderful welcoming, accepting character is the most important piece of clothing to wear.  Be very honest with yourself about your desires and look for the woman that can most closely meet your expectations.  If a woman states she prefers good looking gentlemen, don't disappoint yourself by booking an appointment.

I know it is more difficult for the men...but go with your gut when your reading over the profiles.  I like to chat on the phone to get a better feel for your fantasy engagement.  I even like to meet for a beverage before hand to ensure I'm going to be able to deliver an exciting encounter.  If I don't feel I fit the bill, I'll thank you for meeting me and make a few recommendations.  I'm not willing to take a man's money, if I'm not going to meet his expectations.

I personally don't put any thought into looks.  It's an honor that you have even chosen to contact me with so many beautiful women to choose from in this world.  

This is your fantasy, your entertainment, your time and your money.  Enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Warmly,
Reagan

I'll see anyone as long as he is nice, clean and has decent references. Personality goes a long way with me.

Hugs,
Ciara

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with setting up what ever you guys do to get the envelope (wink) that's a start knowing that your serious

But in the end we all need love and kindness you show that and it will all come back to you 20 fold.

All your answers here were honest so hope you are too...lots of love your way
xooxo
Terri

Larry,

Very sorry if the 3 short paragraphs that offered some insight and perhaps a point of reference for my opinion was offensive to you.

I could have been like lots of others who simply would not post an "opposing" opinion. I struggled with being so transparent in sharing something that is not necessarily so "accepting".

After all, I was raised, "if you have nothing nice to say - then do say it at all".  However, my heart goes out to Mr. 4XL and felt that if I could craft a gentle, reasonable response, it might not come across so harsh, and offer him some insight.

Apparently I failed in your eyes - please accept my apologies.

xxoo

Christine & Alex

You did just what you intended to. I was not offended by your response & I gained some helpful insight I was looking for. Thank you.

There are some very wonderful and gracious ladies out there. I do hope to have the pleasure of your company someday.

By the way, in case anyone is interested, I have decided that if I call to request time with a lady I will simple ask up front if she is comfortable spending time with an extra large guy. If she prefers not to, no harm done. Actually, in that case, it will save up both an experience that would be less than we'd hoped for.

I've had awesome experiences with super thin guys and awesome experiences with REALLY big guys. My first review on another board was from one of my Tn regulars who was a really large guy and we always had a blast. I am large and have been MUCH larger so I have a good idea of obstacles (and pleasures!) a big belly can entail. I am also super flexible and have a good sense of humour so it makes finding a way much more likely and enjoyable than a girl who may get huffy or impatient if you can't just fall into line.Experience counts in this area for sure.Plus... I've given and gotten some AMAZING sensual belly rubs. GRRRRRR.

Simone