If a "boyfriend" lives in the same house as the provider, pays no rent or expenses, advises provider on money management, dictates what days and hours the provider works, OKs who the provider sees, calls the provider when the clients time is up, and is bought a car by the provider how does that differ from a pimp?

You may be right. If so please ignore this post.

The word "dictates"  is what makes me think oppressive pimp.  A "boyfriend" should have NOTHING to do with a provider's business.  I had Simon but with him there was a reversal of roles.  I was the bread winner and he took care of the homestead. He cooked, cleaned, and took care of household affairs while I was on the road. When he lost a really important job, I gave him the job as my booking agent but he still took care of the homestead and I gave him payment to make sure my appointments were safe. I would not ever allow him to dictate my hours.  He could only not book me with someone he didn't feel was safe.

Your situation sounds reasonable and thanks for your imput

I believe we have a pimp.  But isn't the "pimp" supposed to be the one who pays the rent?

Maybe a new category---Leech lol

I'm making the assumption that you care for this girl but you are indeed opening a can of worms. If the boyfriend/pimp is that controlling he may also be dangerous and the girl may not appreciate you getting involved.

Move on, before some one gets hurt

A shitty boyfriend and an average pimp.  
 

Hooker is also only a label, with a LOT of negative connotation packed into it.

I believe you when you say you have only spent time with hookers, but not a quality provider who has the ability to hook her man whenever & wherever it suits her needs it is the Art of seduction some companions have multiple skills not only in the bedroom.  Try to treat yourself 1 day to true hooker.  lol Save your pennies you make never want to go back...

Controlling issues, sponges off her, and doesn't bring much to table.  Walks like one, talks like one, acts like one...Does he have a big purple hat?
But like the others point out:  Do you want to get in the middle of this nightmare?  If you threaten his meal ticket, what can happen to you and your friend?   Things are nutty enough out there, so why ask for more risk or danger to yourself

hi Queen of all,

"I'll keep that in mind" he says as if I would see him. I'd rather handcuff him and stuff him in my trunk. Thanks for the nice PM Arizbob. I'll keep my eye out for you

Thanks for your concern but I am not in any risk or danger