When is it time to break off or cut back spending time with a gal? Do you know if when the time together doesn't bring the same excitement anymore or you're not getting the same excitement out of the experience anymore? Or when she gets into to much of a routine when you're together? The only thing is the extra's she allows would be hard to find or expect from another gal.

she's just not that into you...

Perhaps a little variety to spice things up? See a few others and her as well maybe. Then you get variety AND the extras when you see her.

Just a thought.

i wouldnt get into long drawn out explanations about why you've cut back. just pick some semi plausible reason and then do what you want

You may think about it for a while (or quite a while).  But it will be readily apparent to you when the time really comes.  Believe me, been there done that...

There are some pretty easy excuses to give.  You might have noticed the entire economy is collapsing.  I'm sure she would  buy that you simply can't afford it.
As far as that goes, for me at least, one of the reasons to be with a Provider is that I don't have to tell her who I want to see or explain anything to her.  Much as I always like to fantasize she's my girlfriend or that I am special to her, we all know that's simply not true.  
Perhaps it's different in your case, and you two do have something that is closer to a committed relationship.  If that's the case, I think it's only fair that you tell her that you would simply like to try other Providers for a while.  I feel sure you're not her only client, so it's hard to expect her to feel slighted if she's not your only Provider.
Just my thoughts.

It would appear that you have yet to meet Ciara, one session with her and you will come to realize that she sets the standard for the term GFE. Best of luck. xbanker

if you allow it to happen. It can happen with the ladies here as well as it can at home. You can see other ladies, and/or have differing experiences with the same lady. My preference would be both.

Nuff Said!

Couldn't agree with you more..
It's not only the 1 person, it takes both to create a fun experience over a long period of time as any relationship, you mention she's been in a routine, Have you been in one also?
Have you tried to go places together, learn something new with one another, new positions/games, new conversations, if you come with the attitude as if it was the first time meeting one another it might just come with a new twist to things!
Isa xoxo

I know you're right Isa, it does take two to tango. I guess I should at least bring it up with her before I schedule another get together and see what she's willing to do.

Try a nice dinner and/or a show, as long as it's something different. Ask her what she likes to do. Take her bowling for Crissakes, anything. You may be in for some very nice surprises.

One of my favorites in Phoenix is the Compass Restaurant.

a glance, a wry smile, a soft unexpected kiss, a whisper of desire, a well placed drop of wine, new angle. Issa knows her GFE too

Amen Brother

Life's to short, You can see her, or whomever!
I was just throwing out a way to keep a long term friendship going without losing it's luster(wink)!
If that's what you wanted in the end...
Only you know what you want, and can bring your own happiness!

The thread got sort of off track with "recommendations" for other ladies, (Well meant I am sure and it happens all the time) when you simply asked a question regarding your situation.

I hope that some of the answers offered in true concern for your situation were helpful though.

Role Play?  It is fun and you can create whatever fantasy you like with her.

By the way, I wasn't even going to post except I always feel it's polite when someone gives me a compliment.

But, to answer your question, try role playing. Dressing up in the part, even with an accent if she can do one, and living out another fantasy might spice things up. I think anything can become common after awhile, no matter how great it is. Communication is key and experimenting is great!

Hugs,
Ciara

When I posted my "off track" post, I only meant WHAT I WROTE... That the person who started the thread was able to get some help by the responding posts to the thread.

Seems it DID get off track, and I offended someone by my post. That was the last thing I wanted to have happen.

If anyone else is offended, please accept my apology.

Cheyenna

I have been very lucky to this subject in hand.  Yes it is hard at times to seperate factual from fiction. But I must say, when seeing a provider that turns into more you must understand that we expect the same always. Unless there are really true feelings. I have dealt with a hobbyist for the past couple years, and yes it has been a little difficult especially when you think or make you feel like your the one. But as as a provider I only ask for respect. See who indulges your taste buds but be clean and honest through it all out. Don't sell me a bed of strawberries to find out you have stems. Be real and I will in return be the same. Yes a hobbyist is like a cook they want different spices in their kitchen And I am fine with that , the more the merry ya.
I also can relate to that special someone, as I deal with it on a every day basis. The key to having a provider and keeping her on top is consistency and I must say if that falls off the charts then you are consider one of the rest. Just another JHON. Do not take me wrong I have fought within myself to keep my John/ baby/ sugar daddy but it has been worth it all through out. He is awesome and will remain in my life forever. But getting back to subject in had , sometimes difficult situations are hard to handle and we as hobbyist or providers know when to throw the towel in. Listen to you heart and believe me when I say it will stir you in the right direction. For there is only you and you only that knows within what is right for you Experience provider here. My 2 cents.

To keep things new, exciting, fresh, and blow your socks off and still be very comfortable together..I'm sure there are plenty of beautiful wonderful providers in the Phoenix area that you could sink into and that are willing to try..maybe it's the time to look elsewhere.
Jay