So I went to visit one of my favorites yesterday.  She is a huge flake most of the time because she is extremely hard to get something set up with, is usually 15-20min late, and I think she is a tweaker.  But, I have seen her about 8 times over the last year or so and have always really enjoyed the time with her.

When I arrived she looked good, the appartment smelled strongly of weed (I think since I have only done it a couple times).  Went back to her room and she said she had a surprise for me and lifted up some fake handcuffs.  She gave me a kiss and then said to get comfortable and that she had to use the restroom and freshen up (which she has never done).  Scenes of me being hauled away and booked by police flashed through my head.  I told her to wait because I couldn't stay since she was already 25min late from the start of our appointment.  She tried to get me to stay, but I told her I just couldn't stay and was getting a weird vibe today.  I then peaked in her closet and looked behind the door and some guy was trying to pull himself further behind the door.  I made a b-line for the door and out to my car and drove away.  I am not sure if this was an attempted sting or if I was going to get beaten and robbed.  Tried to texted her to get her to tell me which but she gave me at least three different stories including being taped coming into her appartment to pay for it and also played like it was a chick behind the door as a surprise for me.  She also stated that if I wrote anything on the review sites or facebook about it "there will be problems".  I know what I saw, it wasn't a chick it was a guy in plain clothes wearing shorts.  

Anyway, I have been freaking since...I keep playing scenes of the cops tracking me down at work and hauling me away in front of co-workers or a group of thugs breaking into my house at night...

Which do you think it was and what should I do?

Thanks for the heads up.

Does it really matter which it was?  The bottom line is that you know what to do: NEVER call or see her again.  EVER.  You got lucky this time.  Don't push it.  Been there, done that, not going back.

just post her name here

Yeah, never going back...

Worst part is she has like 20 decent reviews on TER.

I doubt it was any type of a sting at all.  Sounds more like you were probably going to be robbed. I don't think cops would be toking up before busting some people.  

You already suspect her of being a "tweaker".  That was probably her bf in the closet and wanted to get a quick buck from you rather than.....

I would suspect that there won't be cops tracking you down nor thugs breaking into your house.  She is probably way more freaked out about it than you are since she gave you 3 different stories and is threatening you with "problems" if you post anything about it.

I would leave a review on TER....its only fair to other hobbyist that they should know what happened to stay away from her. Some other guy that ends up in your shoes may not be so lucky with the spidy instincts you had.

thank you Terri...you are looking very sexy these days too....if guys stick to providers like your caliber , they won't have any issues.

She has like 20 decent reviews on TER too...I want to post a review, but already have one for her and not sure if it would get updated.  I also don't want to post any names or direct links to her just in case she is serious about there being problems.  I don't need the added drama, and I only posted this as I was pretty freaked out.

Foundation,

Glad to hear you got out of there in one piece!  It would be nice to know a name that way I don't have to try and guess who the tweaker is from your list of reviews.

Max

It would be nice to know a name, this kind of behavior can not be tolerated. the next guy may not be so lucky.
I understand your reluctance not to say it openly because of the threats, but it can be passed around privately through the PM's.
And I am also glad you where able to get out of there unharmed.

I keep waiting for the name, but alas not.

What is the point of having a forum to share info if we don't share?

I think we should post the providers name in these cases otherwise why are we here?

Posting will accomplish two things:

Help deter future scamers for fear of being exposed.

Protect all loyal TER hobbists / readers from this one.

From looking at who you've reviewd and number of reviews for each girl, It appears simple to who it maybe. Problem is I was looking to book with her. Could you either PM me who she is, or at least tell me if she could be classified as "petite"?

Thx

Hints? I'm sorry, nobody told me this is the 'charades forum'. Is she bigger than a bread box? This is not a game. I am a busy person and don't have time for games. One more time, what is the point?

may i ask what her 3 stories were ?  i can't imagine there being any valid reason but i'd like to know what she came up with to explain why she was planning to handcuff you when there was a man hiding in the closet ?

it might actually be safer to out her since retaliating against you at that point would just make rhings worse for her but if she's a junkie, who knows what she's capable of.

unfortunately, some of the girls you have reviewed now have a shadow of suspicion on them.

obviously your safety is more important but it is unfair to them..  it's unfair to all of us.. girls like that reflect badly upon the entire industry.

I know a few of them and would see them again but the others are off base.

So his refusal to answer hurts them all.

Shame on him.

I really do not intend to hurt any of the other girls I have reviewed.  I was just freaked out and wondering if I was going to get picked up by the cops later (which I still wonder).  

Aside from getting advice on what I should do, I was hoping to just give the details of the encounter so that if you found yourself in that same or similar situation you got your butt out of there.

BTW, she no longer has reviews on the boards, so she must have had them removed or someone did it for her (TER staff maybe?).

Well at least I know now I should have just kept my mouth shut and not said anything at all.  That way someone else could have walked into it.

This is bullshit, there are a few girls that you have seen....that I will not call now...I won't take the chance. You need to just "out" her. Thats what this board is all about!

I feel a little better about things now...it was Tatum.