After reading/hearing how some ladies are flaky to you guys, I now totally understand and agree with having a Plan A and Plan B.  But I do have some questions though.

1.  Do you always have a Plan B?  or is it just when Plan A is a new girl?
2.  Is Plan B a definite set appointment or has she been told it is tentative?
3.  If Plan A goes thru, do you NC/NS on Plan B?
or do you just cancel at the last minute?

I am not judging at all.  I totally understand now why but just have these questions.  Perhaps this would help explain why some ladies have a lot of NS/NC because they are Plan B's.  

Thanks for sharing.  

100% hobby related 0% drivel

What I do is schedule for 75 to 90 minutes past the plan A appointment. I tell plan B girl that I will call to confirm that I will be coming 45-60 minutes prior to our appointment.
Most of the girls I've ever seen have asked me for a courtesy call anywhere from 30-60 minutes prior to the appointment.
If plan A girl is ready to go as scheduled, I will usually call or text plan B girl and tell her a little white lie, such as "I'm not able to get away like I wanted" or "The wife fucked up my plans" etc. This usually happens in front of plan A girl after I've entered her incall.
I would never tell plan B that she is plan B because she would probably tell me (with good reason) to fuck off.

Most times I don’t have a plan B. I generally only use someone I have seen or someone with good history here on TER. So I have good confidence that all plans will work out.
I have been let down once or twice with no calls or no answers to my calls. Shit happens so I wasn’t too upset but to any of the ladies out there if you do need to cancel for whatever reason a quick text would be appreciated.

I read the reviews saying "my first choice wasn't available so I saw this one instead" . Then sometimes I have people cancel sorta last minute with no real reason makes me wonder how that thing works out.

I never had a plan B but there were times I wish I did.

So from now on I'll have some extra # on me just in case plaan A is a NS. And that has happened to most of us.

Last week I had a date with a touring girl when I got to her in call I called and no answer. Left a message and called several more times no answer again

I left after 20 Min's that's my limit for waiting and send her a email when I got home. She did reply and said she was waiting for me to please come back and that i should have send her a text because she was having trouble with her phone here.

Yea right hey honny I'm going out for a while that's when the fight will start.

so from now on I'll have some extra # on me some can call some one else and hope she's alaivable.

I usually don't have a plan B if it is someone I have seen before and there was no problems. First time meeting, always have a plan B. But it is someone I haven't made an appt. with. Usually I will have several plan B's in the area of plan A and just see which one has availablity.

is to get on the phone and see who might be available with no notice.

Thats sorta how I like to take my appointments. I don't really have a set schedule. If somebody calls, and I happen to be free thats works best. Unless its set up via email (my absolute favorite way) before. Might actually remove my number and go by email contact only.

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That's pretty much my plan B as well.  Call at the last minute when someone flakes out on me.  The last 2 times that worked out pretty well for me!  But occasionally it has been disastrous.  Surfing around on your smartphone at the last minute is not a guaranteed recipe for success...

Still, I would never make an appointment with someone knowing that I would likely have to cancel if I end up seeing the one I wanted.  That's just rude and inconsiderate.  Sorry, calling a spade a spade.  I feel that just because some 'ladies' in this biz are are that level of rudeness (and I have been blown off in the parking lot before!) is no justification for the same from me.  

Just my $0.02...

I have never had a NCNS before this trip.
So because of my situation from a couple of days ago, I either go with a PATC recommendation (no Plan B needed)

Or if it is a Chicagohotdog brain storm, I tell Plan B that I'm am trying to shake some relatives, how late can I call you if I can break free?

I don't do plan B.  PHX here, ain't a good plan B place.  If I get canceled on, I just wait to re-sched.

I'll agree with spamdog9. I don't schedule with a lady unless I plan on keeping the appointment. I will, however, have several phone numbers on hand to attempt a last minute, plan B scheduling, if the lady flakes on me. Unfortunately, the last minute scheduling attempts often end in failure. A very frustrating happening when one has limited time for play in his schedule.

I too think it rude and inconsiderate to schedule something if you are not committed to keeping the appointment both for the ladies and the gentlemen.

Not being a traveling man my hobbyist point of view is strictly home grown here in PHX.

I've had no shows like the one you posted. Yet I have seen tha lady post an ad the next day. At this point I have developed the idea that maybe it is just a common provider thing.

Apparently, based on your experience it may be more of a PHX thing?

. . . so my Plan B is my favorite Thai AMP.  All their providers have been good, most times they have more than one on site and I'm known to mamasan so can call on short notice and be accomodated.

It is totally inconsiderate to book anyone's time knowing that you will likely cancel the appointment or just not show up!  Don't write reviews about how you've been treated like a piece of meat when you are willing to do the same to providers.

Only PlanB is to NEVER call PlanA ever again.  I have made ONE exception but never trusted her enough to make a second date.

It's NOT just a Phoenix thing.  I have hobbied all over the country and its not much different anywhere.  Researching reviews and board posts is still your best bet to reduce the NCNS girls.  Also, the more mature 30+ ladies are generally less likely to flake.

If someone called me up and said I'd like a four-hour date, but I already had scheduled someone else for that day/evening, then I will not make the four-hour date. It's not professional and it's rude.  But that's just my .02 cents.  I agree with you, spamdog 9.

so i think he meant that phoenix was the only city where he needed a plan b on well-reviewed ladies.

Chloe, anyone who's using you as their plan "B" is really missing out!  You are "A" list all the way!  Hope you're having fun in Vegas Baby!  BTW if you want some "fun" and your GF is open go the the Green Door Swingers Club, I'm sure you both could have some real fun!