Alright so I am new to this sight, and I thought the idea was to give honest reviews so that other hobbyists could make better informed choices on the dates they chose, I recently posted a review of a girl that I thought was complimentary (honest though) and based on the TER number rules (7 being the highest unless certain things are performed) So I post this review and I have been getting contacted about the review by the provider saying it was negative and ruined her business. I am confused by this, I spoke about in the VIP section how I had a good time would see her again. So are the real numbers 10 - it is great, 9 good time, 8 pretty good, 7 so/so, 6 bad time? Or what...... A little help guys/gals? Thanks

Yes sir, one would think that it was up to us to be honest and keep our fellow hobbyest informed on our experiences with the gracious ladies that work hard at making us happy. Unfortunately, there are those providers that are a little sensative and take exception to certainn ratiings. I too recently was contacted by a young lady that was unhappy with one of my ratings.  I believed my review to be fair, honest, and spot on. I guess that is what makes each of us individuals and we can't always agree on everything. Keep doing what you believe to be fair and 9 out of 10 times things will be ok. Just my 2 cents worth.

Stand your ground, you did nothing wrong. It's about damn time hobbyists like you are giving honest reviews instead of this inflated bullshit you see.
 Everyone needs to be humbled now and then, in the long run it will make her a better provider. No matter how many clients ladies see in a day or week the quality bar should always be kept high.

write an honest review and you'll do just fine!  If she is worried that one review is going to ruin her business - she has much bigger issues to worry about.

Your reviews are your reviews.  Write them as you see it.  If one reviews is going to hurt her business then she has many more problems than your review.

check it out below. The escort score is based on what is offered, not what is performed.  Another thing you should know, if you want to see top rated providers, many NOT all, will check out your reviews before they decide to see you. If you tend to score on the "low" side, some providers will decline to see you. Doesn't mean you have to start tossing out 10/10 reviews, like they're candy, just means you have to be closer to the average score the provider has received.  

Sugardaddymike ... stand your ground, take a  look at my reviews, you can tell the ones that were protested by a provider and then TER took them down. In fact I just had a very terrible experience with initials "BB".
     A few years ago, I had a bad experience with one provider, wrote the review, she protested and TER said no. She went around it another way by sending some friends of hers showed up at the Strip club I was enjoying the "can you dance circuit" with weapons! I talked with TER and I had them pull it down. I don't think the provider is around anymore.

You can do what ever you want. You have become irrelevant to me, but it is sweet of you to ask.

I generally operate under the delusional theory that my reviews should be an honest and accurate assessment of my experience on a given date.  Only twice in nearly 20 reviews have I given a 7 in one or both categories.   Both times, I was confronted on why I gave a poor review.  Once via PM and the other time on a discussion board.  

"This does not mean she earns extra points for offering the service(s); just that she is now eligible for a higher score"

While I mostly agree with you your use of an alias invalidates your opinion.

Your review didn't hurt her business.  Besides, as you said, it was a good review anyway.  If she really wants to see a bad review, she should call Gordon Ramsay from Kitchen Nightmares.

...in all 4 of your reviews, based on your description of the activities, all of the providers should have been given at least a 9 for performance. The guidelines for performance ratings are laid out for you, they're objective but you didn't choose to follow them. Unfortunately, TER will bump a score down, but never up if the review description doesn't fit the guidelines. I've met two of the women that you have reviewed and I'm guessing that their attitude during the session was not an issue; they're both a pleasure to spend time with. One thing to keep in mind when you're rating providers is that most of the ladies you see are WAY out of your league. There's no way in Hell that you would have a chance to score with them in a regular civvie encounter so a little kindness, and objectivity should go a long way in your future encounters. Personally, I don't view you as a credible reviewer so far.  

you approached it the right way. as an opportunity to improve..

You are so WRONG!!  

If a reviewer scores you lower than the average of your other reviews, you can contact TER and ask that the review be pulled due to inconsistency...especially if you have 8's, 9's and 10's after the lower score.  

Wow we are rather self righteous. I have no interest in you or your opinions, my reviews were objective based on services provided. How would you know if they are out of my league?  

Posted By: Drumsticks

...in all 4 of your reviews, based on your description of the activities, all of the providers should have been given at least a 9 for performance. The guidelines for performance ratings are laid out for you, they're objective but you didn't choose to follow them. Unfortunately, TER will bump a score down, but never up if the review description doesn't fit the guidelines. I've met two of the women that you have reviewed and I'm guessing that their attitude during the session was not an issue; they're both a pleasure to spend time with. One thing to keep in mind when you're rating providers is that most of the ladies you see are WAY out of your league. There's no way in Hell that you would have a chance to score with them in a regular civvie encounter so a little kindness, and objectivity should go a long way in your future encounters. Personally, I don't view you as a credible reviewer so far.  
   
 Happy Hobbying!  

Thank you my point exactly!

Thank you!!

Summer, first you are an 8,9, or 10 hard to say without seeing you in person but based on your pictures it would be hard to rate you lower than 8 - the difference between you and her, is that she thinks she is, and maybe she was when she was your age but now she is more than double your age and 20lbs heavier than her pictures.  Thanks for the input!

With all due respect, you are criticizing someone for not being credible, yet you are giving out a lot of 10s, which means they are all "once in a lifetime" experiences.  How many lifetimes do you actually have?  
 

Posted By: Drumsticks

...in all 4 of your reviews, based on your description of the activities, all of the providers should have been given at least a 9 for performance. The guidelines for performance ratings are laid out for you, they're objective but you didn't choose to follow them. Unfortunately, TER will bump a score down, but never up if the review description doesn't fit the guidelines. I've met two of the women that you have reviewed and I'm guessing that their attitude during the session was not an issue; they're both a pleasure to spend time with. One thing to keep in mind when you're rating providers is that most of the ladies you see are WAY out of your league. There's no way in Hell that you would have a chance to score with them in a regular civvie encounter so a little kindness, and objectivity should go a long way in your future encounters. Personally, I don't view you as a credible reviewer so far.  
   
 Happy Hobbying!  

It is only fair to consider all the factors. Including, maybe the reviewer was having a bad day and had unrealistic expectations that the provider would improve his state of mind. I know that when I am having an intense week at the office, I may not enjoy the company of a friend as much as I normally do. I always consider that as one of the factors before I write a review. I think the write equation is fair, constructive and certainly not punitive. It is not the fault of the provider if someone is under a substantial amount of pressure and does not reciprocate.

Thank you Mister Spicoli, this is spot on.

If your pics are accurate then you have nothing to cry about. Regardless, you should never be down on yourself over the opinion of a man. We are notorious assholes.

You have been around for awhile Gina and I'm not looking to start Chit with you, but having a review pulled because it's not "consistent" with what you want in the way of scores isn't right. Some of us review in our own way. How can you invalidate that review based on score? Often the score is not what a lady may like, but if you actually read the review.......it might be glowing.

I looked back and can't seem to find the post where I called anybody in particular out for not being credible.  

...but there wasn't a new review for her.

were directed at me, not you. You're so vain...you probably think this post is about you...

Well you know that old saying ... "If the shoe fits, etc"  LOL

I had a girl stand me up twice (she offered to make it up to me for the second visit).  I tried writing a review to warn others to avoid her - can't post it because I never saw her.  We need to be honest with each other to protect each other from wasting time and/or effort.  I generally won't see a girl that is not reviewed here or elsewhere - the 1 time I did she bait & switched me!