I am sorry to hear that..

thats F**ked but sadly common place where im from..
I thought phoenix would be better..  

Hey Luke,
I love ALL men so if you would like to play I wold love to see you.  I certainly won't turn you down due to skin color.  

Let's play soon.
Misty

If that is true

that is ridiculous.. you got guys who refuse to wash their groins getting (reluctant) service meanwhile a generous black guy (who I will give the benefit of the doubt, bathes) that is refused service because he has dark skin. I am a white  guy but I see that racial hating on CL all the time and can only feel upset by it.
I respect a provider's right to chose who she decides to see and not see but seems like being nice, respectful, hygenic, etc. should be more important than skin color.

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I realize that providers have preferences just like hobbiests. I just think that if they are deal breakers should be stated in advance or on their ad instead of rejecting someone face to face.

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Re:My poor experience with Chace/race & the hobby by SHEIKA FATIMA

You must be a dear, sweet, sensitive man to be concerned about such an issue-your remark about the color of your money-as compared to other hobbyists-gives us a brief insight into the respect you hold for the profession. Race and skin pigmentation is quite an interesting side bar to the hobby. Is it not?

I’m not one to provide answers, but I do have a lot of stories that stem from experience from both inside and outside the hobby. I’m not being political. I’m not taking a stand. I’m just stating the way things are… Whether you were turned down for policy reasons, as your post seems to indicate; or for something else is really moot. It is moot because it doesn’t jive with the realities of the business…

It is not uncommon for perspective clients to seek out a provider that has a specific body type or a certain ethnic identity. Some say that variety is the spice of life!! However, few perspective clients consider the converse; that being: It is not uncommon for some providers to specialize in providing services to clients with-shall we say-a certain type of ethnic or cultural identity.

There are some white providers who specialize in “doing” black Guys; and, there are some black providers who specialize in “doing” white guys. There are some providers who specialize in elderly clients, and there are some providers who work with the grossly obese or physically challenged or emotionally immature.

I know of a white provider in the Tucson area who specializes in “doing” Arabs and their friends and their relatives. The same provider also has a couple of regular clients who are very young, very wealthy, very immature spoiled Asian college students-they smoke dope and play video games on their lap-tops. However, this same provider very rarely does black guys (she uses the word chocolate…)

In addition, I think it pertinent to note, that providers develop a list of preferred or repeat clients and they sometimes share information among themselves-I’m sure you know this.

Now, I suppose it might be possible-if not probable-that some liberated, politically correct lady might relish the idea of developing a list of clients that stretches the bounds of diversity; but, the business demands and the harsh reality of the escorting life make this impractical. Regardless of what clients wish to believe, the reality of escorting, the TRUE business reality of “Rent-a-Lady” for your fun, fantasy and pleasure is quite different from what most clients like to imagine.

It is not always the provider who: sets the policy about skin pigmentation, or sets the rates, or screens the calls, or answers the e-mail, or arranges the out calls, or holds the lease on the in call, or owns the car, or gets the money. It is usually some guy or a lose consortium of unrelated guys that control these aspects of a provider’s life. These useless parasites very rarely take the heat and they are ALWAYS lurking behind the scenes.

However, it is the provider who gets raped, robbed, arrested, jailed, blackmailed, knocked around and run out of Dodge. While the sleaze-ball, scum-bag parasites get rich.

Regardless of what you might wish to think, escorting is all about money and survival and keeping straight with LE and paying the bills.

Now, Luke, my man, maybe if you’d offered to pay double what the lady was asking, she-or her manager or her pimp or her whatever-might have reconsidered. Who knows? In any event, the reality of escorting is that it is an unregulated, illegal business. The ladies survive the best way they know how and in the process they try to preserve a modicum of self-esteem. I’m sorry you were offended. Please don't hold it against the provider… PEACE.

Sheika Fatima    


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Hey man maybe you should do what I do and let them know that you are black upfront.  I normally email and let them know that I am a black male and if they do not reply that is cool nothing lost.  But if you arrive at someone's place and then they either do not open the door (Beth- creepy Rowan Scarlette)or tell you that they do not see black men then that is a different story since sometimes you travel far across the valley to see them.  Have you seen the price of gas?  I wrote Chase and told her that I was black and she wrote back which was very white of her to make it a point to tell me that she do not see black men and that she even dated a black man once and had a bad experience.  Fortunately othere races do not have any bad people.  I am 53, very professional, very clean and have seen a few women from here.