Recently Brooke posted an ad about her new Pics and somehow along the way it turned ugly it ended up not even being about our Brooke {who by the way rarely ever posts here} but about others who had nothing to do with her post. I too am guilty of this, sometimes we post without thinking about what we are saying. This post turned out to be one of our longer threads but for the wrong reasons some would say she got a lot of attention but I am sure she would of prefered just some postive kudos in regards to her wonderful new pics. Brooke let  me be the first to say  I am sorry and please do not let this keep you from  dropping by the boards and saying hello as someone said we need to learn how to play well with others this is not grade school we do not need to use this forum as a playground to bully and pick on our homeroom class....we wonder why so few post here and I think it is because once  you post you become a target and when others see this behavior they think why even bother to put yourself out there only to be shot at...I would love to post more stories and experiences but know as soon as I do several hunters  are just waiting in the bushes to take their shot so now  I tend to hold back and hide which is  being a chicken but at least my feelings are not getting hurt. I have hopes that maybe certain posters will take the highroad and step up and say they are sorry and we can move forward and try to get along. When you have never even met someone how can you judge them? We are so much more than our posts we are people with feelings please keep that in mind the next time you feel the need to attack one of us..
"Of all the things of a man's soul which he has withen him,justice is the greatest good and injustice the greatest evil" Plato......peace and goodwill everyone Victoria


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I agree and thought Brookes pictures were beautiful as usual! The lady who posted on Brooke's thread her link was in poor taste I thought.
 That  thread turned into more then just a lady announcing her new wonderful pictures. Should she really have to justify her rates?

-- Modified on 6/2/2007 10:55:07 AM

Yea and that person seems to do that quite often and only has nice things to say about you and only a few others. I seem to be one of his targets as well as Ciara. It floors me when someone can be so nasty to another without them even knowing them.

I say if you don't like what's being said or don't like the person just move the fuck on!!!!!!!!

It's just sad that we all can't enjoy each other as a group, show respect to all, contrubute to all, love all. Maybe someday.

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First, I realize your focus is on brooke's advertisement thread.

But, hijacking any thread is bad form.

Blue_iceman's post (first post) was just him being himself. That does not make his actions acceptable. Overcaffienated took him to task for it. Thanks go to overcaffienated.

Blue_iceman's post in response to Ciara was totally uncalled for and, in my opinion, warranted (given his past posting history) being moderated. Now, I tend to feel that alluding to backchannel info in a TER post (as Ciara did) is uncool as well. Blue_iceman cannot necessarily defend himself in public. But, I understand the feeling Ciara must have had in response to that pot-shot.

Cheyenne can be forgiven (in my mind at least) for including her link as just being new.

Victoria, your post (which I also feel was a hijack) suggesting that the reason why brooke is rated higher than other ladies is due to other ladies having their 'first time reviewer' scores lowered (and brooke's were not) was bad form and sounded petty.

In my opinion, the only lady (other than brooke) that behaved totally responsibly in that thread was Isabella.

I just wanted to make it clear that I am not one to gossip. I hate it! I don't even know most of the providers in this area, except for emails and phone correspondence when I need a reference. That's the point I'm making: Stop with the gossip.

Hugs,
Ciara

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I can’t believe this obnoxious character complains about rates.

Come on…

As everyone knows, anyone—and I mean anyone—who is involved in this extremely expensive form of recreation and then has the gall to complain about rates is a spoiled rotten, immature, sheltered male.

This is a client who is unstable and who is seeking some sort of therapeutic validation and reassurance from “paying for sex”.

A history of his post shows:

He is obsessed with his own lack of earned success and a hidden quilt related to his personal failures.

Guilt, failure, rejection and then anger is a reoccurring pattern in his behavior.  

He feels a desperate need to control, so he grasps for power and then fails. This tends to escalate his anger.

The seriousness of his behavior is compounded greatly because of the erotic sexual nature of the topics on this board. This should be of serious concern.

Stay away from him, he could be a danger.

He is an unstable coward and should be ignored. Then maybe he will go away.

If not, lets set his ass up and get him arrested.

En’sha’alha,

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]


-- Modified on 6/2/2007 1:00:08 PM

You are correct in your thinking that is why I did the post on hijacking I was one of the parties that was in bad form sometimes we get carried away and forget our mannners ....

come on now next we will be talking having a hit put out on him.....Like I said before we all make mistakes and he has not committed a crime maybe just poor judgement...i know him to be a very nice person and have reached out to him to make peace with Ciara which should be resolved by today ....a time-out maybe  but set his ass up to be arrested is just plain wrong to say..... peace V

-- Modified on 6/2/2007 3:57:29 PM

Thanks! I see where I fall in to the mix!

Wow, hope he does make peace with her, I'm glad you try to make everyone get along. I think he had the wrong person for mother hen.



-- Modified on 6/2/2007 4:48:17 PM

Terri, we did discuss you also and he agreed to quit with the hen remarks heck I was refered to as the blue-hair hen  once also on these very boards and I admit to  being one that wishes to make peace here on the boards if that makes me a mother-hen so be it anything to keep peace and make the boards  more friendly cluck, cluck, Victoria

You are a kind person and liked by quite a few people in this community. I remember Roxanne telling me before she left that she thought you were one of the nicest people she has met in this business. So please know that many of us sometimes take you for granted, but I truly love your posts and your sense of humor. I need to express that more often.

Hugs & smooches,
Ciara

You know we all love you here so don’t let the few negative ones bring you down. Like Ciara said you are a kind and caring person and have many friends here that know you are.

If I was overly abrupt in my last post, I am very, very sorry. Please forgive me.  It is never my intentions to be overly alarming or dramatic.

The Sheika is a caring person. Often, I have been accused of being too nice. I believe the phrase in “lighten up”. Well, maybe I should do just that. I will try and “lighten up” a tiny bit…

The "set-up and arrest" was mentioned as a last resort. If we ignore him long enough maybe he'll just go away and meditate and contemplate and give his behavior some serious thought. Then, maybe he'll change, but I sincerely and genuinely doubt it.

A history of his posts reveals a pattern of behavior that is escalatory and abusive and he tends to focus on the more mature female members of our community. I'll bet the guys childhood was miserable. His behavior is that of a spoiled, frustrated adolescent. He is a product of arrested development who still has some deep unresolved maternal issues.

A “time-out” is a good idea but let’s not forget; this is a man, not a child. He is obviously beset with a number of displaced animosities that fuel his anger and he has the resources to translate his anger into action.

He fits the profile. These guys are very good at lieing low and cooling it for awhile, but this only increases their frustration. When they come back, they are worse than before.

My concern is always for the safety and well-being of the providers. I do not like to see the peace and sanctity of our community disrupted.

Please be very, very careful.

I LOVE YOU ALL and PEACE

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]


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-- Modified on 6/3/2007 12:58:18 PM

Sheika, I have to speak up here as much as I would like to let this pass, first I am a fan I enjoy your posts, but this one is not correct in your conclusions of Iceman I have known him 4yrs and he is a great guy and I feel you are trying to make him out to be dangerous which is so far from the truth my friend, what we need to be is careful of  branding someone you have never met as a threat, in the last 24hrs this man has taken the time to reach out to both Terri and Ciara and make peace it takes a real man to admit fault and say he is sorry so I for one am proud of him and with time maybe you too can put this to rest...thank you and we love you too for your concern about us.....victoria

-- Modified on 6/3/2007 2:45:59 PM

Thank you, Sheika

I knew what you meant and do appreciate your input. The man did send an email, but I sent him long ago a pm want to know what it was that I did to him to make him show is dislike to me over the last year and 1/2, I never got any kind of response. I do appreciate what he did now, but it came from having being moderated from other nasty comments and a third party influence.
From the heart would have been very touching!


keep up your great contributions to the board!

xoxoxo
Terri

Terri, iceman was NoT moderatered ever sorry ....and he did not have tt reach out to you it was done from him not because someone forced him but because he decided it was time to make peace ......

You may have sent a PM but I am not VIP so I never got it.

Am not moderated. No one forced me to email you. I did it because I felt it was the right thing to do.

If my apology was not clear enough or good enough for you, then?

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-- Modified on 6/6/2007 9:58:56 PM

that was my point and the other is self explanatory!

I'm a very positive thinking person, I have many in my life that brighten my day everyday including you and I'm so thankful for that! Those that know me, know I have lots of love in my heart!
xoxoxo
T