kissing is a means of getting two people so close that  they can't see anything wrong with each other ---Rene yasenek  wrote this quote  how important is it to you to kiss on a date?

the kiss provides the illusion that this is really a date.... without it, there is just the mechanics of sex.. acceptable to all some of the time and some all of the time...

the flip side is know how to kiss for Christ's sake... the opening gambit should not be having a provider shove her tongue down my throat.. if that's all the talent you have, i'll forego the fantasy and move right into the mechanics of sex

-- Modified on 10/20/2011 1:24:47 PM

no kissing is a dealbreaker - it's that important


HH

can you teach someone one a first date how to kiss  and if it's a bad kisser  and your offering GFE  what do you do ?????

I's extremely important but I hate it when a guy tries to shove his tongue as far down my throat as possible. It really ruins the whole experience for me.

Of course, many providers refuse to kiss as it is very intimate.   Reading some of the reviews on here,  some will say, "well, she was very pretty but it was mechanical so I won't repeat."  

If a provider refuses to kiss I respect that but if she desires the client to return and refuses to kiss, he most likely won't because the experience does become mechanical sex which is dull for both parties.  

As for me, I enjoy kissing lots.  If a provider refuses I can still enjoy the experience but it does lessen it in some way and I doubt id see her on a regular basis.

Be soft and slow to start and build up slowly oh yeah.

I love that! Great response, HH. I have learned people tend to have varying kissing styles, so I think a great kisser is able to adapt to new & different kissing styles - of course with passion behind every touch!

Posted By: HalfHour

no kissing is a dealbreaker - it's that important


HH

lol You are too funny Vic. I can only imagine one would want to run & hide under a rock, or hibernate for a few winters...

I agree, you have to be a great kisser or game over.

Posted By: Holly Berry

I love that! Great response, HH. I have learned people tend to have varying kissing styles, so I think a great kisser is able to adapt to new & different kissing styles - of course with passion behind every touch!

Posted By: HalfHour

no kissing is a dealbreaker - it's that important


HH

agreed... and perhaps it's time for a style comparison



HH

well Vic first and foremost i assume no one needs to teach you how to kiss lmao.

some things can't be taught. although, as in dancing, if he's paying attention he can and should follow your lead when it comes to kissing. for me GFE doesn't necessarily mean open mouth lotsa tongue lol. however, I have noticed that some ladies in GFE kiss just as passionate as a civie, some nsm, and as a Hobbyist (or Hubbyist) I need to follow their lead. I'm not going to kiss you in a way you don't want to be kissed.

having said all this (5 AM thanks to a killer hangover and two Excedrin migraine) for me, kissing is a must. if it's great, everything will be great. If it's not, the rest of our time together probably won't make up for it. and at the same time I recognize that for some Providers it's even more intimate than sex and therefor something they may not be comfortable opening themselves up to. in the end it seems that (insert generalization/stereotype warning here) if the Provider truly "loves what she does" it will show in the quality of the kiss, if she's in it for the money, or for other reasons, then nsm.

so as my current ATF told me in our first session together, "please just shut up and kiss me"

Mmmm. Those are my favorite.

Agree 100%!