So many of those great experiences linger in my mind like they just happened yesterday I begin to think about I really need to go see her again and realize its been 3 months or even up to 6 month even but in my mind it feels like just a few weeks had passed. I'll see someone come back into town and think she is back soon then look up my review to see its been 4 months already... Same with those I see regular actually another board had a question about regulars how often and how long your been seeing them so I posted I see her approximately 5 times a month then then thinking its been maybe a year and a half two years but looked back and seen I met her first time in 2007 has over 4 years passed already? It will be 5 months in May. We've had some really great times on and off clock I hope those continue for another 5 years and beyond. It made me think because I get her something for her birthday every year and thinking back sure enough I remember all four gifts and that smile she gets is priceless hope the day I pass that smile is my last thought that passes.
We have so many wonderful providers in the valley and so many I still would love to meet but I see one new one and then two or three new lovely ladies come. I sometimes have to step away just see my regular for a month or two and no one else because I find myself getting carried away Cindy on Tuesday Ashley on wed Brittney on Friday a long visit with Rebecca Saturday next thing I know all my free time is spent setting up or visiting some lovely young lady. Sites like these are wonderful for meeting researching new wonderful ladies but sometimes its just too much for me. I must be too impulsive.
I have a new guy who is fast becoming my latest ATF. I have seen him several times now, and he is coming back into town soon and our last visit was just amazing.
We did this "12 days of sexiness" take on the song "12 days of Christmas" leading up to our last date counting down and each of us changing a line to the song each day. I thought it was going to just be a play on words, but he really brought the gifts in his version of the song! One was an array of Italian silk scarves he had ordered and sent to the hotel.... the rest were mostly food... chocolates, strawberries, etc. (my version was mostly erotic.. he he he)
I am still blown away by the effort he put into making our date amazing.
I am thinking of some things I could do for our next visit to surprise him as well (he loves dresses, so maybe a private "fashion show").
I read a post on the General Board where a guy said his ATF showed up with an extra girl as a surprise for his Birthday... saving that one for later!
So, I am wondering for the guys... what is the best gift or surprise you've gotten from your ATF and what is the most memorable that you've given?
And for the ladies, same question... what is the best gift or surprise you've gotten from your ATF and what is the most memorable that you've given?
(please talk a lot about sex so the "Mods" will be pleased... lol... kidding... unless it helps answer the question)
I have posted here some of my more memorable dates and what made them special....it was not the money they spent but the effort they put forth in creating something I will always remember.....to answer your question I love to bake and cook my specialty is my deep dish granny smith apple pie al a mode.....or if I am traveling on tour I stay on the club level so I have access to drinks and food in case they are hungry or want a drink.....I am old fashioned in the way I love to take care of the man on the date ....I have bought presents in the past for clients ......on overnight slumber parties I provide shuttle service and my home or hotel room and try and pay for all food and entertainment while they are my guest.....I figure they pay top dollar already and deserve a break some will not let me pay as the too are old school so in that case I try and figure out something I can do for them make them an offer they cannot refuse...... good topic thank you
Now there is how to please a man for sure!
Now... what did I do with my pie tins...
No, not at the same time. That would be a sight though, wouldn't it?
Anywho, about 6 years ago, I decided to surprise my ATF with a new look. I dressed in heels, stockings, and garters with a matching bra and panty set. Then, I threw on my black 3/4 length over coat and drove from Central Phoenix to North Scottsdale, praying all the way that I didn't have an accident or a flat! It was rather warm that day so he was wondering why I had on a coat... When I took the coat off, his eye balls popped out! Without saying a word, just a smile, I led him to the bedroom. He still talks about it today.
Last weekend, same ATF, knew I had gotten my motorcycle license, but I hadn't had time to practice. So, he rented me a little Nighthawk 250 to practice on and chased me around Scottsdale for 2 days on his big bike. It was the support, assurance and guidance that I needed to actually get on the bike and ride! I had a blast! I can't wait to try out a 750 Honda Shadow next!
I feel that we sometimes don't know how we have pleased another person or the impact something has made. I've taken more trips, hiked more places, received amazing advice, met the coolest people and eaten at more great restaurants in the past 6 years, it absolutely blows my mind! I think of all the little thoughtful things that others have done for me and I feel overwhelming gratitude.
I could sit here thinking and smiling all day, but I better get moving!
Have a great week everybody!
Nice topic, especially 2 weeks before V-Day!
Be sweet to each other!
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Wow, that's so cool that he was willing to do that for you!
Yeah, a lot of times it turns in to "Benefit with Friendships" - and the friendship that results from the whole process is often more valuable than the monetary compensation.
Once I realized he was really doing the gifts for real, I wanted to do something special that same date.
He likes dresses, so I wore a long purple formal gown I had bought for a formal company Christmas party several years ago, put my hair up and donned my crystal jewelry and red lipstick. I also wore my long black faux fur coat even though it wasn't that cold outside (you know, when you have to turn on the AC so the coat doesn't make you sweat! lol). That was so fun! Like prom. He always wears suits, so we looked like we were ready for the Oscars! We caught a lot of double glances while we were having drinks at the hotel bar. That was a magically night!
I will remember the lingerie under the long coat trick... that's a good one. But not in the summer time! lol
... nothing else but a smile when she greeted me at her door! It's been quite a while - didn't realize how long until I looked up my notes - but a memory that will last forever is when my friend opened her door and was wearing nothing but heels and that awesome smile of hers! We had gotten to know each other a few times previously and had a nice connection. During some cool down pillow talk I mentioned that it would be a fantasy to see a woman emerge behind the door already naked. Didn't think too much of it but a few meetings later she did just that! Oh my oh my! She opened the door and just had on a pair of heels, perfect hair and makeup (which is her normal look anyways) and her award winning smile. I'll never forget that! Thank you Gina Marie!!!
"Did you just see that naked woman get into the elevator?"
"She wasn't naked... she had on shoes."
"Shoes do not count! How on earth could you even notice she had on shoes anyway?"
"I'm a foot guy! That's the first place I look..."
lol
So many of those great experiences linger in my mind like they just happened yesterday I begin to think about I really need to go see her again and realize its been 3 months or even up to 6 month even but in my mind it feels like just a few weeks had passed. I'll see someone come back into town and think she is back soon then look up my review to see its been 4 months already... Same with those I see regular actually another board had a question about regulars how often and how long your been seeing them so I posted I see her approximately 5 times a month then then thinking its been maybe a year and a half two years but looked back and seen I met her first time in 2007 has over 4 years passed already? It will be 5 months in May. We've had some really great times on and off clock I hope those continue for another 5 years and beyond. It made me think because I get her something for her birthday every year and thinking back sure enough I remember all four gifts and that smile she gets is priceless hope the day I pass that smile is my last thought that passes.
We have so many wonderful providers in the valley and so many I still would love to meet but I see one new one and then two or three new lovely ladies come. I sometimes have to step away just see my regular for a month or two and no one else because I find myself getting carried away Cindy on Tuesday Ashley on wed Brittney on Friday a long visit with Rebecca Saturday next thing I know all my free time is spent setting up or visiting some lovely young lady. Sites like these are wonderful for meeting researching new wonderful ladies but sometimes its just too much for me. I must be too impulsive.
"Quick, cover your ears! Don't listen! Mike, Mike.... Stop! Come back!"
Mike (eyes glazed over in a zombie-like trance walking hypnotically into the water): "But they are so beautiful...."
You need to wear your "eye plugs" when you come on TER... lol
Yes you are all little temptresses leading me into peril.. As Sir Galahad in Monty Python and the Holy Grail exclaimed as he was pulled from the castle full of virgins "can't I have just a little bit of peril?"
This one time, at band camp....
Yea, the movie played...
ATF and I have dinner. Show up at her incall and a second girl, whom she deeply enjoys is there - they shared an incall. She had planned it, but I didn't know it. We 2 head BCD. The other joins later as we shower. From there it gets fuzzy in my head as 4 hours later and many O's I was done and passed out. But woke up to both of them wanting more. I had one more round in me 
Key was, we all liked each other. It was not mechanical or PSE.
What did I do later? Showed my appreciation in MANY ways. Hooked...
Another time, a different one, we went and picked out some Porn together and played with toys and it was magnificent.
Having dinner cooked for you is always great too!
Peace
... is that ANYTHING that happens is a bonus. Whereas, when a guy books a double, he has certain expectations built into it. That's one reason I never started doing doubles. I asked a few regulars what they thought about the idea and their response was a resounding, "If I'm going to pay that kind of money, it had better include this, this and this."
Sounds like you had a lot of fun!
I guess you can never go wrong with a threesome, huh? lol
Porn and toys would be a fun surprise, too. Good idea!
Dear Angelique:
I was just wondering over time you met some nice people and cultivate some good relationships. Considering that this would be an unconventional business to have genuine relationships if you ask some people, how have your relationships evolved and when did you know they would be something more or further than a business relationship?
Most of my regulars, so far, have gone in spurts. I'll have a new guy enamored with me who will want to see me twice a week for a month or so.... then it stops.
Sometimes this is preceded with an "I'm falling for you" or a request for an OTC date. There is something I like to call a "do you like me test." After paying the correct rate four or five times, the next time he is short and asks (once you get there), "Do I need to go to the ATM?" If I say yes, apparently I flunked the test and the visits stop. One really hot guy I saw a few times informed me that if I wanted to see him again, it was going to have to be for free. "Oh, really?" When I didn't contact him, I heard back from him several months later telling me that he should be my boyfriend. Oh, okay...
Then I had another one I kept giving discounts to lower and lower and lower... then he found a girlfriend and wanted to be faithful... bummer! Man is she lucky!
Some guys I don't see for months and then see again. There are some I still see periodically from back when I first started. Too much time passes between appointments to really feel too chummy, but it is still really cool for someone to see my career unfold and how I've grown from a newbie to someone more experienced. (and I am not including pen pals here, CDfix!)
I did have a few occasions where things got confusing. I thought at the time that having "real feelings" whether affection or even deeper couldn't blend with the business side of things. After I screwed things up with one guy, I looked into it and found that you can blend the two together and many providers have deep feelings for their long time regulars... especially ATFs. Now that I know that, I can put my feelings of affection with favorite clients in context and just see it as an extension of the business... like being buddies with a coworker... an unexpected "side benefit" of the job that makes working that much more enjoyable.
I think other girls who have been in the business a lot longer than me can answer this question better. These relationships have to continue and stand the test of time for you to really see if they were meaningful, I think. It's just too early for me to tell with some of mine. I'm hoping I see this new guy for a really, really long time! And I think I've learned from my mistakes so I don't screw it up!
Thanks for asking!