Hello all.  I am first time poster and first time hobbyist.  I have two questions.  First, would you suggest something more tame like a nice massage with happy ending or a F/S provider for your first experience as the message is a bit less stressful and LE risky I would think.  Also, I have picked out a couple providers I would like to try and was wondering if here would be a good place for opinion on them for first timer.

you'll see it under national boards to the left of this. Click on FAQ for Newbies.  Good luck

I feel for you 'bro, cuz 3 months ago I was in your shoes - making the leap into the hobby is an exciting and stressful event.

Regarding your concern for LE, just go w/ a well reviewed provider on TER and you'll be in good shape. It never occurred to me to start w/ a massage, but I'm guessing you're ready for the real deal so I hope you go f/s.

I like your idea of listing the gals you're thinking of asking to the dance, and getting opinions on which would be a good starting point. That post will also draw some replies from providers who believe that they'd be a good starting point for you.

For what it's worth, here's my opinion on who you should see first: my ATF is Jazz and I think she's a great start for the following reasons: 1) b/c she's a great conversationalist and kisser, she'll ease you into the date and you'll believe that she's just a hot woman who is enjoying your company  2) her face and body are second to none 3) provides a very nice centrally located condo - I wouldn't start with a hotel date b/c it seems so artificial.

Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

Welcome to the community....do your homework on the providers that you've choose...I'm sure you've checked out the reviews so you shouldn't have a problem, always stay with established & reviewed gals.

The first time is always the most uncomfortable but your lady should make you feel welcomed & at ease. Just have fun and enjoy it.

xoxoxo
Terri

I agree 100%, and would emphasize homework. The long list of attributes on TER has been accurate, in my experience. Don't compromise your values and preferences, especially based on a picture. The words are more valuable.

Just know the rules and follow them. It's easy. Go FS, and don't do anything you're not comfortable doing. Don't worry about getting value.

Good Luck!