So I have been ditched by a provider twice in the last two days. She says she can meet me the next morning at a set time. I arrive and call but she doesn't call back or show. After the first time she said she had phone problems but would definitely make the appointment. I have seen her before and it was a nice time, but want a little more time with her. She is far from my ATF but has potential...or rather I am hoping she can take the next step as a provider. How often does this happen with the younger girls new to the business?
I dont believe it is a youth -vs- maturity issue. Its just a common decency issue. Some people exercise it and some dont, regardless of age.To not show up, even once, is unacceptable. If I were a guy ( and I am glad I'm not )once would be enough for me. As George Bush said " Fool me once shame on me, fool me again, uh,ugh...oh nevermind
I think if we were able to collect data on the prevalence of "no shows" and "flake outs" we would all be a bit pissed off. The "bad vibe" and "it's done to us" excuses wear thin after a while. Sorry to sound bitter, but the lack of respect for people's time drives me CrAzY!
Certainly my #1 pet peeve for sure! It's just so ridiculous. And yes, it does seem to be youth related but does not apply across the board.
Take 2 of my local faves for instance. I had such a hot time with Tatum that I couldn't wait to see her again, but she totally stood me up, although she called the next day to apologize.
My new local fave, Gidget (from San Diego) is equally young but totally has her head on straight. (Ok so I'm addicted to the young ones). Have seen her multiple times, with no issues at all. (She's still in town by the way. I think she leaves on 6-14 and it's going to kill me.)
I wish I knew an answer to it. But as someone else said, it's a 2 way street. The girls get stood up a LOT. I mean it happens a LOT!
If only there was some way to let them know you're one of the good guys who deserves the appointment to be kept.
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