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moparman 41 Reviews 1198 reads
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My wife wants to get a girl for the 2 of us for some fine. Short of finding a provider, which I think we would both prefer not to in this case, (and my wife is hot enough that she doesn't need to pay for it like me haha) was thinking that maybe a local swingers club would be a good place to start. Any recommendations on some local clubs?

justdonebyu846 reads

wo TOTALLY different dynamics. Play is different. Emotions are different. Long term impacts are different.  

If you are looking for a cute girl without the guy - in the swinger community, it is the UNICORN.  

My opinion - is know what you want your relationship to be long term (with your SO).  

You could find a provider who would play the fantasy - meaning - meets you at a bar, and you have your SO pick her up (without knowing).  

Now if you want to pick up a couple (guy and girl) and have your SO interact with the guy while you watch, then go to a swingers club

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moparman661 reads

We have been married 9 years and have done this once before, and she has played with a few girls on her own. We are basically just looking for a hot/cute girl, no couple situation, so she can play with the girl and then she wants me to be with the girl while she plays with her and watches. We are pretty secure at this point in our marriage and this was her suggestion.

BTW I googled Unicorn but could not find anything about it. Do they have a site? What type of place is it? Where can I find more info about it?

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justdonebyu592 reads

here are a lot of swingers sites, versus going to a club for hit or miss. Sounds like a good secure situation. Try a website called lifestylelounge   .... locals - and you may get lucky.  

In the swinger world, a UNICORN = a very hot girl, single, who is looking for a swinging couple (those girls have their pick of the guys they play with) that will do it with plain looking guys without a fee.. Hard to find, like a Unicorn

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moparman671 reads

haha I thought you meant a club Unicorn. Nah, Ive never had problems finding a hot girl to play with me and my girl before when we did this, whether my wife or previous girlfriends. It was just being in the right place, regular clubs or strip clubs were always easy in the day. Its the hot girl you are with that reigns them in, you are just along for the ride and happy to be part of it!

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clubjeffe581 reads

Way different dynamics and experiences/expectations.  Finding a single lady willing to be your wife's playmate is going to be very tough. It's a couples thing.  You're probably going to have a much easier time finding her a playmate calling an escort

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MistressKiley681 reads

There are only two clubs in town, Discretions and Encounters. I think they both have websites, so Google will be your friend there :)

My personal preference is Discretions, but you should check them both out and see how you feel. With both, it depends on what night you go and what time you go as far as what kinds of people you will find there. Sometimes Saturday at 2:00 AM is the  time, or you could miss the crowd completely if you get there at midnight, they really can be hit and miss.

While you are googling, try Swing Lifestyle...it is a swinging site where local groups who host house parties and M&G's can post their events. You might find a bar M&G or a house party more to your liking, and possibly more likely to find the type of woman you are looking for.

We unicorns do really exist ;)

K

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moparman660 reads

Thank You. Yes I found those clubs on google, and we plan on hitting one of them this Saturday. Since Im bored with nothing better to do tonight we might just go check one of them out tonight for shits and giggles. That, and we can start posting personals on Craigs List. She always seems to pick up chicks in strip clubs whenever she goes with friends so we will try it all. Its all fun no matter what happens.

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moparman523 reads

We decided the check out one of these places last night for the hell of it, nothing better to do on a Tuesday night, so first we drove to Encounters at about 10:30. Pulled in, saw 2 cars and 3 dudes in the parking lot. Reverse. Said lets check out Discretions down the road. Pull in, there are 4 hot chicks sitting outside with a couple guys. Yeah, we have arrived at our destination.

We had a really good time. My wife especially enjoyed herself as everyone who was there, including those who run the place, were very very cool. We mostly hung outside smoking and bullshitting, getting to know everyone. Inside a couple of black girls were begging my wife for a 3some, and then she got on the pole with another girl for a sexy dance. She was sober, and this was just an exploratory visit, but she really enjoyed it and wants to go back this weekend when the real shit is going down. Who am I too say no

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