I hate to say it, but I've been read so many times by various escorts online that all of them keep it professional. Logically, it makes sense that they really can't as we're all human, but until now I just somehow thought they all were able to, lol.
Anyway, are you talking about a client or just someone you had dinner with? Kind of seems like you switched from one to the other in there.
And I am glad some more Girls are posting 
It is very hard to not cross the lines and keep it professional. I think the best way ( 98 percent ) of the time I have kept it all in line is No extra texting, no calls just to say hi, no extra hour on the house .. etc. BUT when you enjoy someones company it is hard.
Finding someone you enjoy rather in this hobby or not is hard, so if its mutual - run with it. and if not, .. run from it. ! lol
Personally, I've always assumed things that probably kept it professional (like that no escort would want me talking to them outside of the appointment, other than to set another one). However, I think my mind has been blown a little bit since I just always assumed that it was just me trying to keep it professional, I never even thought of the other side lol.
Attraction is based on so many things. I for one lead with my heart always. As many times as it has gotten me into complicated situations, I never stop. And don't think I want to. I have learned relationships are so much more than attraction. And that keeps me out of serious trouble.
I was told once and believe chemistry is binary. It can be there for one person but not the other. The other parts of the relationship, communication, trust, support, empathy, fun are learned a bit with time.
But dang that initial heat is so compelling. And when it happens honestly for both at the same time it is magic. And happens rarely at the same moment. And if there is a hint of duration, I say play the front nine at least. See what happens when you get in the rough with the person. See how the other parts play out because they are what sustains the friendship.
Some may think it is age with guys as well. It is not. Then there is the old " I like any girl who likes me " syndrome of guys.
Yea, I have crossed the line. And sometimes fell back and read the attached article. And realized the other parts of the relationship were lacking because I was overwhelmed with the chemistry. I say back away a bit in those situations. Or....
Vivi nel momento - and ride it as long as it is good! We are all adults. And the back nine sneaks up quick. Enjoy every person. And treat them as you want to be treated. Regardless of "lines".
"... You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the woman. That's why you gotta make your own moves."
"I always tell the truth. Even when I lie."
Peace
Posted By: brookeone
When I meet a guy........ And you think.... Hmmmmm? This might be a really great night... right?.... He is charming and kinda sexy in that Al Pacino way.... We'll..... What if he is just not only after your hot bod and pretty face... Intentions run deeper........ Do you run?.... Do you stay?..... Do you just say fuck it!.... I have said fuck it before .... and I have gotten into trouble with this type.... As flattering as it may be... When do we (as girlfriends for the evening) draw the line??? Just a question... Wondering how you can be a girlfriend experience without actually becoming their girlfriend... Thought after a decade I would have figured this one out!... Some men are just so alluring and seductive to me... Maybe I am just a naughty girl with a romantic heart!... Pretty sure... I am a romantic.... with a naughty side!... And yes as old as Al Pacino is.. I still think he is sexy.... LOL..... I think its the attitude of a man that attracts me... Not the age... YOU FEEL ME? I know you may want to....
Ever wondering....... Brooke
I defiantly feel you Brooke! It's so hard sometimes to only be a girlfriend for the moment when there's a strong connection. But for me, it really all depends on the situation. IMO, If he's married and has a family, I would respect that and keep it professional. Maybe build a friendship at most. I wouldn't want to be responsible for being a home wrecker. If he's single, I'd ask myself, can I see myself starting a relationship w/ this man? Am I really so into him that I'd be willing to change my life for him? If so, I'd keep in contact w/ him and get to know him very well. That way, I'd be able get a feel for what he's like outside the sheets. Maybe I'd arrange some free time w/ him to see if my life would mesh w/ his. If I find that I'm not as into him as I thought, I'd politely tell him that I had a great time w/ him but, I'm not looking for a relationship. I wouldn't ever want to hurt anyone by giving false hope. I know how that feels and it sucks.
In short, if you really really like him that much and he feels the same, run to him. If not, politely run from him lol
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I get that on a monthly basis,, why do you think I love this business?
Men are way to fun!!
The more you try to control it, the more it controls you turning your world upside down. Contrary to popular belief I'm driven by love and romance, there's nothing better than being knocked off my feet with my head in the clouds completely oblivious to the world around me in chaos.
I love being under the spell of a man, going from Sheraa to goo just by one soft kiss along with that intense eye lock the two of you share. You never know when it's going to happen or who or how long it will last, for me I make every second of it count because all the money in the world can't buy me the pleasure that I get from the romantic feelings from a man
Would you be, so interested if he did not contact you off your ad & you met him in public?
More, than likely no...
Does it really matter where you meet someone.........if you have that good of connection with them.........just saying!
