Obviously that is pretty frightening and really the very first time, in almost four years, that I am aware of this type of Provider behavior. (I must be seeing the right Ladies!) I was aware a while ago, of one local Provider “Outing” a Hobbyist to his family, but always thought that was unusual and extreme.

On the other hand, I am more than aware of many examples of crazy, lunatic Hobbyists who stalk Providers for what can only be described as their own reasons. Sometimes what they perceive as being treated badly on the telephone, or the appointment not living up to their expectations, or even the Providers’  refusal to see them for a second appointment, etc. Of course there is always the infatuated (actually obsessed) Hobbyist turned “Stalker.” All are, I am certain, absolutely terrifying for the Provider, considering that such minor little actions by the Provider could result in such behavior by a Hobbyist. To make matters worse, the Provider is in a position of little recourse.

I believe this is a far bigger problem for the Provider being stalked by a crazed Hobbyist than vice versa.

I just can't understand how a hobbyist becomes obsessed over a lady when there's thousands of other ones out there to see, I fully understand the power of putang, but c'mon.

Ha see cdsfix my tomboyish ways that you always hated come in handy, I never get stalked the men know I would rip their arm off and beat them with it lol

And yes I agree it is best just to ignore them.

As someone who has been stalked by both a hobbist as well as another provider, it is best to just leave them alone because karma will truly take care of the matter - as what goes around comes around.

Sad that some people have to do such things to others. Tell your client to block her emails/PM's and then he will not have to deal with her.  It has worked for me.  (I also blocked their numbers so they cannot call - some services you can do that with - it is great).

Been there

Been there just this past year. Not sure if stalked, but certainly bashed and harrased.  A provider from out of state, she was getting raving reviews, but she false advertized on her website as far as I was concerned.  Don't touch me this way or that, when I was done, I just wanted to leave and not say anything, then the nasty emails started coming because she thought I was going to do a review.  She somehow even found out my last name.  We agreed to leave each other alone, but she continued to bash me on a provider board.

This is the best reason why NOT to give your last name and where you work to a provider.  There are better ways to both feel safe without giving that information.