Today while driving I saw a companion that I have seen posting on a few sites. She was on the street in a well known activity area working. I thought when I passed her.. HAY that looks like ( NO NAMES WILL BE GIVEN ) And I said, NO.. It cant be.

I turned around and waited for her to pass me ( we have never meet ) She did and because of her specific look I knew it was her. I stopped for a moment and was going to ask her to be sure and see if she was ok, and if she needed help... But didnt. I was not sure what type of situation she was in ( and my precious cargo was in the car .)  

30 mins later I drove back by the area ( off the freeway ) and she was still there crossing the street again . )

I am not to gossip but I am really torn about what I should have done or should do.

What would you do ?

Not sure how much she would appreciate the gesture to "help" her, if she's working the street.  Might be equivalent to some church person contacting you through your site and trying to "help" you.  I'm sure they mean well, but they just see things a little different than we do.

That's really sad that she feels the need to do that. Sounds soooooo dangerous. I would want to help too but you have to protect yourself 1st. You never know if she's on drugs or what kind of people she may be involved with. You may end up getting hurt or in trouble even though you have a good heart and good intentions. Be careful.

Doesn't seem to have a long term plan to it. the sentiment is good but without a solution you will probably just be introducing stress to her. Clearly she either needs money really bad, has a drug problem, a pimp,  or something. If you can't solve any of those problems for her then confronting her has no end game.

I felt horrible driving away. I know this "world " has many levels. It is such a luxury to sit at home behind a screen I never think about what others have to do to pay bills.

My experience is that if you can't solve a problem, you would likely be promoting the bad behavior with "assistance" which does not help anyone.

Street Walking is a common area for working girls some streets have more action, than others.  Why, so strange?  I would assume the internet is not making her fast enough $, or maybe she has management...


Car dates are not uncommon & many providers offer them.

I just assumed that the girls that charged 300 and up, where on a different level . I would never think of seeing another companion -say yourself , Krista, or sexy selena walking the street, it was just wierd to me and although I do "do this" to me its a who different ball game when you are jumpin in cars with people.

I imagine hygiene would be a much more common issue as well.

Usually the situation has been that the street walker is able to get off the street and post online.
If there is money problems and heavy drugs involved the provider could possible go from online back to the street.
But I think it is rare for that to happen. Once off the street they usually try not to go back. I meant a girl on the street and went to the Internet and hey story was interesting. I tried encourage her to write a book. Actually she went back to school on a grant but I do not know how she is doing now. I am still waiting for the book

One thing I hate to read is judgement passed on this lady by someone by bringing things up like "drugs". I think that's too easy. Maybe she likes car dates, maybe things are slow on the internet, I have no idea and it's not my job to judge. We all part take in this community and I know for a fact that drugs don't play in my life, so I am not going to jump in and say maybe it's drugs. Only thing I am going to jump in and say is maybe she needs more sex.
If it's a person that I know I would probably stop and ask how she is doing - just as a concerned friend/not to be judgmental. If I don't know her, personally I would leave her alone.

I know right? One or two of them have even had to see me!!! I pity those poor women and assure them that the mental scars do eventually heal. You know that discovery channel show last weekend where they finally got footage of a giant squid! That was actually me just me diving into a pool in front of some guy with a waterproof camera.

/jk

By the way that was an ugly joke not a penis length joke. I have it on good authority that mine is the perfect length....and I hear that Leprechaun never lie.

I wasn't specific enough. I was not referring to street walkers when I said 1 or 2 have seen me in my joke. Damn edit button is mia...

Just want to put it out there that I'm not judgmental

My reply wasn't meant to judge. I said maybe, not probably, didn't say I assume, or i didn't say- yes, she is on drugs.
Jumping in and out of cars, I would assume, is extremely dangerous and taking a huge risk! The person behind the wheel could be a serial killer, rapist, LE, or who knows what! If things were slow or she wanted "more sex" I would think the safer option would be to offer a special online and still screen her clients. I'm pretty sure she's not getting 300 /hr or even 200 /hhr on the street. I was simply telling her to be aware of her own safety before lending out a helping hand.

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Do you mind if I ask which street you are talking about. I can't imagine you would be giving anything away to LE. I'm just curious, 30 years ago the street was VanBuren and yes, I did get lucky there. I also got ripped off there once too.

There is a street in HI that has top rated model type providers that charge 1K, so it happens & I would never, but I do not think down on the girls who do.  I guess I am just a little more educated on this entire industry from the top to the bottom I know sex workers, and this is something that takes years to understand.