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Why are PHX providers so unresponsive and irresponsible?sad_smile
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I've been hobbying in the PHX area since 2017. I've yet to find a provider who's responsive and responsible with their TCB. Often I have to make plan B and C if I want to see a provider. And it runs the whole gamut from providers in the $200-$250 to the $350/hr range. I have an out of state phone number, but that shouldn't stop anyone. Is it typical out here for providers to be flaky because of the heat? I can try and set up an appointment in advance and be ghosted. Or just never even get a reply at all from any of my texts. Or even worse, someone who replies a week late and then disappears again. So frustrating.  
Hobbied in FL, AL, GA without such difficulties. Is it because of the supply and demand around PHX that providers can just afford to blow off serious callers? Or did I wind up on some blacklist without knowing about it? GRRRR.

What are your experiences in the hobby like in comparison to other States and cities?

Sorry to hear that you’re having trouble in the Phoenix Area.  
My guess will be a mix of everything you mentioned or maybe the girls you’re calling are the ones that are unresponsive or irresponsible.  
Either way I hope you find one if not a couple good providers that could satisfy your crave because there is some of us that do respond and would be willing to definitely give you what you’ve been craving for.  
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Thanks Cassie. Just would like your opinion.

Do you find that demand exceeds the supply of providers so they would tend to just overbook in the PHX hobby market? Are guys in PHX such pushovers that we will take whatever comes around, or do guys tend to flake out here in PHX?  In all my years in the hobby I have never once flaked out. Have only had to cancel once for a legit reason and communicated with the provider well in advance. And made up or it on the next opportunity. Why do you think that so many providers wont extend us the same courtesy. Too busy to give a damn?

....... and has to be absolutely frustrating!  I have not had any issues on my end, other than the occasional "life happens" stuff.  Hopefully as TER becomes more active and the number of reviews increases, you will be able to perform better due diligence on the front end and significantly reduce the issues that you have been experiencing.

Frustrating, I agree. Especially when I have already taken the little blue pill for my ED and then shit falls apart. But my disappointment runs the whole gamut of well-reviewed and un-reviewed ladies likewise. Just seems systemic for the hobby in the area. Unfortunately with TER, there doesn't seem to be a way to report it other than a review of the provider in question. It would be nice if it could be reported that a particular provider was either unresponsive, flaked or just plain ghosted without writing a whole review every time it happens. Maybe it would let us gents know who to avoid having our time wasted.

"What are your experiences in the hobby like in comparison to other States and cities?"

 
I was ghosted in L.A. on a reunion appt with a provider I'd seen countless times over multiple years.  She's not on my review list as our encounters pre-dated my TER membership.  Confirmed day before and communicated within several hrs of our appointed time, then silence.  When pressed the following day, she said she fell sick and passed out.  
 
I've been ghosted in Las Vegas on a 2nd appt with a provider.  Again, she's not on my review list as our date happened while TER was dark.  Turned out she was in L.A. at the time of our Vegas appt, despite confirming 24 hrs prior.

And I've been ghosted a couple times here in PHX:  First time was on a first date appt.  She later apologized with a legitimate explanation, and we successfully re-scheduled.  Second time was also a first time appt with a provider whom I note on hotrix1's review list.  She ghosted me on our appt, apologized and we rescheduled, then she ghosted me again.  I'd credit this one to habitual overbooking, or ignoring me in favor of last minute calls from regulars.

In terms of never hearing back from a provider on first communication, I've had that happen multiple times in all the above noted cities on multiple channels:  TER messaging, email, and text.  I don't waste time getting bent out of shape about it, because I think the law of averages dictates that it will happen sooner or later.  Does anyone bat a thousand?  I too have an out of state number, but always indicate in communicating that I am a local when contacting PHX providers.        

I've been seeing ladies here and around the country for about 6 years. I have been ghosted once  and only had a financial challenge with one lady, and that eventually got sorted out.  
Right now is the worst time for anyone to be reliable, with the pandemic going on. I wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't get better till there is a vaccine. Everyone is messed up. Just a thought.

I did notice your price range is on the low end of the scale. Perhaps there is a bit of truth to the saying that you get what you pay for. I play from $300 to $450 or sometimes a rare $500.
I really have not had the problems you have come up against. But, I also go back to my favorite ladies and so they are more apt to take care of a steady revenue stream.  
Perhaps, I have a better picker than you. Or, you are just having a bad run.

Quote:[I did notice your price range is on the low end of the scale. Perhaps there is a bit of truth to the saying that you get what you pay for. I play from $300 to $450 or sometimes a rare $500.]
Reply:I beg to differ. Adrianna is $350/hr. I think Jade is $300, British Brook is def not low end at $400 and neither was Azari Rain, nor Dinah Mite.

Quote:[I really have not had the problems you have come up against. But, I also go back to my favorite ladies and so they are more apt to take care of a steady revenue stream.]  
Reply: I like rotating around a selection of ladies that give me the good bang for the buck, excuse the pun. Too bad some of the favorites are no longer around to provide me with that.

Quote:[Perhaps, I have a better picker than you. Or, you are just having a bad run.]  
Reply: Or PECKER. LOL But this bad run has got to end.  

BTW, none of you gents on the thread have any recent reviews since TER came back from THE DARK.

Only in the PHX, AZ area. And not COVID related. If it's a run of bad luck, it's been since I moved here 3 years ago. Bad picks? Don't think so. Usually pick those who have decent reviews and don't have the reputation for being difficult to connect with or are flaky.

Just like clockwork. I had an appointment postpone last night. Set up for this morning, then just cancelled altogether this afternoon. Her reason was her son fell ill. A least she stayed in touch. That earns my respect, disappointing though it may be because I've already popped my blue pill when she confirmed a couple hours ago.

A few others I haven't reviewed because they can't even bother to respond to texts asking them about availability. After trying to contact them a few times without response I give up the chase. Either they're too busy to bother, or not active. Although I try to contact the ones that have an active review/ad profile, there's a disproportionately large number that never bother to respond frustratingly enough. And some of those I've been able to review and revisit are also guilty of being unreliable and unresponsive and flaky. So it's not just someone I've never met. It's seem like providers here in PHX in general have this power trip and like to play games to see who will jump thru hoops for them or something.  

Either way, I'm still looking and hoping that maybe I'll find me a regular lady to visit and enjoy time with without the damn hassle of wasting so much time trying to get an appointment set. Wish me luck!

"Reply:I beg to differ. Adrianna is $350/hr. I think Jade is $300, British Brook is def not low end at $400 and neither was Azari Rain, nor Dinah Mite."

Is this the list of ladies that have stood you up?  Your OP said $250-$350.  
Aside from Adrianna, who i have found to be very reliable and a lot of fun, I haven't had the pleasure of the others.  
BTW, I thought Azari Rain left quite a while ago.
The rotation of ladies I see have been reliable.  
Hope you get some fun soon.

None of these ladies have ever stood me up. Was just showing you my track record. Adrianna is very reliable, but I like variety and tend to lean toward someone a little more petite. Azari has been gone a while, sadly. :(  

I should name names of who the flakes were, who ghosted and who never bothered to even reply but it would be in poor taste. I just have a hard time dealing with the lack of professionalism in the world's oldest profession in Phx. Just fucking frustrating.

why not name them?  Unreliability is not OK, and this is after all primarily a review site intended to help facilitate interactions between providers and clients.

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Some of these reviews being posted are lies

Naming names is acceptable if deserved. This site is supposed to be about things like this. Helps us not waste out time or effort...so please..do tell👍

Listing offenders is not acceptable to the TER management.

Reviews
This is the section where the guys get to review providers who advertise on the web. You can now know exactly what to expect before you make the call and spend your hard earned money. The bonus is that the opinions expressed are real and not sent in by the adult entertainers themselves. It's about time!

That's just it! I call on the provider and they're unresponsive, irresponsible and sometimes even downright rude. Then sometimes the review is not specific enough to note the good, bad or ugly. Its about time! How about our time as hobbyists??? If reviews of providers who don't act professional can't be reported here, what's the point then?  

I know that reviews make the site their income when people sign up, but my beef is this. Do we actually have to have services rendered before an actual review is accepted? Why isn't a NO-SHOW, or a rude cancel-at the-last-minute, or even a ghosting NOT allowable for a review to save us the time. Just asking. Would like TER mgrs. point of view here on the threads. Isn't the site exactly made for this purpose? There's nothing Erotic about getting flakes and time wasters ruining your hobby time after all, is there? It only contributes to the poor behavior when the guilty don't face any consequences. At least as hobbyist, we could avoid those who are not worth the time.

I don't believe we have met. Hi I'm Kelly look me up. I'd be happy to see you!

Tried to call you, on the (6230 number. And then a guy answers. Not what I expected at all. Not cool either. What's up with that?
Sent a text to your other number.

24 hours, still no response.  I looked you up, decided to give you a try and contact you. Was that your handler on the phone? Sounded like an AA male in his 30's. Why is a guy answering your phone when you know there will be guys trying to reach you for business? Is that how you handle business then? Ask a guy to look you up, then no reply after your man answers a call when contacted? Even if you did reply at this point, I would have to decline. HARD PASS ON THIS ONE!@#$!$@

That's exactly what this thread is all about. Perfect example right here. Couldn't ask for a better way to show exactly why I have a problem with providers not being professional enough not to waste our time.

Hi hon, ive reached out more then once my numbers been updated by ter now, IM on my way to pay my bill now so please call me anytime after 1 hour from now. I promise Im not a flake!!!! TER had to update my info as I cant. Hope to hear back from you.
Kelly XO

OMG!  It makes me sad to read and think you feel that way! I’m visiting Phoenix at the moment until June 18th, I would love to do something so they I can make you feel happy and be able to change the way you thinking.
I hope we can connect in a near future!

Kisses,    
AndreaGrey 💋
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P411: P265603
Twitter @andreagreyvip
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I’ve had a great time with ladies in Phoenix but they do seem to be less responsive than other cities.

Seems that it is the typical attitude around here and the gents have become accustomed to it,. or just accepted it to the point where they just make plans A, B, & maybe even C if they plan on getting any.  
It works the same way with the ladies where they intentionally overbook, then flake last minute. Just a downward spiral for all concerned. Frustrating to say the least.

I agree with above mentioned. Could like be that she’s very busy. Still unacceptable. Best of luck 🥰

Reading your text here reminds me of the feelings I get when men explain their wives become, “nicely expressed...not interested anymore”  plan B requires special  type of reconfiguration. That sheit sounds pretty technical 🤣

I started adding this to my texts.
It worked! (HAHAHA)

For the life of me - I have NO IDEA about supply and demand, these days! I can't make any sense of most situations.

I'll just say ... if there are games going on ... she better be "bucket list" worthy. I got no time for that shit.

Are you looking for outcall mostly or do you do incall? Maybe the ladies get caught in traffic? I don't do outcalls much but I have had plenty of guys flake on me. So it is an issue on both sides. Sorry it keeps happening to you. There must be a good reason.

So this is what I have learned ladies do especially in the lower ranges. They double and triple book because so many guys do not show up. So if three call for the same time slot she books all and whoever shows up gets the spot while the others get ghosted. This is usually incall. Now outcall ladies go for the higher guy so if a guy calls for the lowest item on her menu and then five minutes after you set up someone calls for a higher price item they skip you and go to them because they know 10 more guys will call before the end of the day anyways. I never thought of doing that. If I am booked I am booked that is just how the cookie crumbles. I do things on a first come first basis. But then again I like what I do so maybe that is why I do things they way I have for 10 years. Or maybe it's just the customer service rep in me not sure which. I hope you find someone who will not flake on you.

When I started requiring a deposit to book over a decade ago it cut out all the flakes & time wasters. I have always catered to Arizona, and visit often. Proper preparation prevents poor planning.

I do not play often because this is more of my hobby now. I cherish my adult playtime. Many providers who this is their career tend to get burnt out. Balance.

Everyone has their own experiences, but I have found the vast majority of the women in the Phoenix area to be reliable, dependable and understand the rules of engagement. There are too many excellent women to list here, but just look at my reviews and you will see very honest feedback. And I have never been ghosted. Maybe it has to do with the ladies you attempt to connect with or the way you communicate with them. There is always a two way street.

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