Lets face the reality of it ... Some men ( Heck some woman too ) just are not great lovers. After kissing it seems they forget where to put their hands, or what to do next or heck four play in general.( Even the rhythm while "IN" Motion sometimes. ) I think some men just do not have the education, knowledge or maybe confidence  in the bedroom.  

Ladies do you ever seem to "teach" while playing ?

Recently I had given thought to a "teaching" tricks to the trade session and how to be a better lover . Maybe this is something that would help in the personal lives of men ?  

** NOT being negative , just asking a general question.

I have often wondered why some of you skilled ladies do not offer "training" in the erotic arts, perhaps most productively to women.  I suspect there is quite a market for that ... a sex camp of sorts ... for those who may feel relatively deficient in that aspect of life.      

and I love to learn!

t's true, there are different skill levels. I am in a camp of "it's my time" and while hobbying, I no way resemble who I am as a lover with someone who is not hourly.

As for the kiss - I have a great friend and he kisses girls like a parrot. Now, he likes girls who kiss that way and they are out there (I dated one once, and it kinda freaked me out), but that was how they learned.

There are some passionate kissers for certain in this hobby. And I prefer that even when hobbying. But there are a lot of ladies who do not kiss "much". Rarely do you find the ones who not only kiss well, but REALLY dig kissing the person they are kissing....and that comes through in a slight lack of interest. Though the kiss is good, it is not, well, as sincere, as someone who is hungry for your kiss.

I guess that's the line. Is there a difference between sincere relations versus staged. Regardless of skill, it can come through as a little disconnected, to an experienced lover. I sense it more often than not, though there are some wonderful providers who connect.

Phermomones, experience, attraction, compatability (the parrot kiss), all play a part in defining a "great lover". Honestly - I have had some ladies who I would not want to try and teach me as they need a lesson. Being a provider does not mandate being a good lover for sure. It is more based on the quality of lovers we all have had in our pasts and whether we adapted our styles. My guess is some providers want you to get your nut and be done. Just saying...

It is not a negative post for certain. I truly wish that COURTESAN was the highest echelon of provider who truly excelled at all of the skills, connection, and intelligence needed to make the session spectactular (of course, they would need to fit the market version of beautiful as well). But as we find here, what one guy thinks is a 10, another thinks is a 6.  

Where you want a guy to put his hands is great for you, but maybe not the next lady?  

Flip the script. If the women these guys were with were great lovers would they stray? Trick of the trade - teach honest, compassionate communication in the bedroom - without fear. That's something that can be practiced by both sides.

Peac

Certainly wasn't trying to be rude and thank you for not taking it that way men ! Often I meet people who says the romance is dead, or the "SO" isn't interested. Sometimes I have my own personal thoughts as to why or maybe how they can improve sexually. During a normal session its just not the right time to say "hay dude.. its your turn to kiss my neck" etc. ( NOT that they don't feel they want to because its hourly.. some genuinely and generally do not know what to do even at 40/50 etc)

have found certain lovers can communicate their needs in positive ways. I have had my bar raised (pun intended) with lovers who tease that way, but also communicate.  

If I was to say "Gray, your lips against my neck send goosebumps down my leg" with a grin, or "when you touch me there, I can't resist but want to hold tight on to you" - well, my guess is you might remember that and go there the next time as well.  

My very first lover was that way. Everything was an incentive, not negative. "I desired you so much last night I had to play with myself thinking of you" was a line she might use if I decided to be out with my friends and miss seeing her. Needless to say, I always checked in with her at night.

A provider might say "you kiss good" or something along that line - but the art of the positive tease seems lost because of the amount of "stick it here and drop a load on my face" porn out there.  Although a lady looking at me sensually and saying "lick it" works well...lol!  

Playfulness is an art. One I save for someone I want to spend hours with...And I like to believe that those that connect to me want to play nice as well.  

So, what if a guy has constructive comments for a provider - aside from the review - how would a provider like that delivered? Or - is it like telling the mechanic how to fix my car.

While I agree with u. Stick it here and drop a load "in my mouth" usually works for me.

Lets face the reality of it ....some hookers are not great lovers.  After kissing it seems they forget where to put their hands, or what to do next or heck four play in general.( Even the rhythm while "IN" Motion sometimes. ) I think some  women just do not have the education, knowledge or maybe confidence  in the bedroom.

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Why? Because we have the same opinion just about opposite sexs