I posted this on the GD board. But since PHX is where i play, I would sincerely like to know your opinions Ladies, one way or the other.

Please feel free to use an alias, if you feel it in your best interest. I am looking for honesty on this one.

Here it the post with new notes in brackets.

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There have been some strong sentiments expressed in recent posts about people who are very overweight. {comment about providing to obese hobbyists}

As hobbyists, we (usually) have the advantage of a photo of a provider before we book. It's not uncommon to read in a review where a man was disappointed when he meets a provider for the first time and finds "she is much heavier than her pictures" showing that some men do care about the ladies size.

I think most would agree that a "good fit" between a provider and client makes for the best session for both. That can certainly include someone's size.

So ladies, would you prefer to know upfront if a man is overweight?

What specifics would you like to know?

What would be the most comfortable way for him to bring it up?

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Thank you in advance for contributing your thoughts, Ladies!





--HalfHour

the information that they were a larger man.

I mean it really doesn't make a difference whether you are a 150lbs or 300+lbs.
The important thing is your hygiene and as long as that is impeccable then your size is a none issue

I am more of a personality provider, and get along well with all types of different people. I wont need to do anything different to prepare for an overweight gentleman, and therefor don't need to know in advance. If he's wheelchair bound, or has some other limitation that I may need to plan ahead for so that I can cater my environment to him prior to his arrival, I'd like to know those types of things.

Just reinforces what has been known since the beginning of time. Men are more superficial than are women.

But also, the men aren't the ones getting paid for it!

What do you mean? Asking the question shows that?

I agree with the majority of ladies, that personality and superb hygiene are the most important issues.  I've had gentlemen tell me up front, that they were "overweight", so I envisioned meeting an obese man.  Then it turns out they may have had a little tummy, and I'm wondering why they felt the need to even mention it.  

I do have a few larger clients, who are all super great guys, good kissers, clean, passionate and great conversationalists, and I always have a great time with them.  Being in this profession forces you to look beyond the physical attributes of a person, and find many other things attractive about them.  I am actually grateful for that.  I've had some wonderful, life changing experiences, with people I may never have otherwise considered, as a result.  Not just based on weight, but several other physical factors, as well.

You are obviously in the catagory of FABULOUS.









HalfHour

Tina-

Classy response from a beautiful lady!

a little one? Color?
As long as you are clean respectful and a gentleman and hopefully like to have fun but not mandatory Having a good attitude and being non-judgemental makes life a joy, you make a lot of friendships

The gent has hopefully done his homework and has choose you to see and as long as you are the same person in the pics so that he's not disappointed you can really have a great time with anyone and enjoy it. Who's to say a Brad Pitt or a Johnny Depp are really fun and enjoyable, looks aren't everything

I've found that a gent in his email and part of his introduction will say, I'm overweight or I'm Asian or will ask "do you see men of color" but I have heard of providers shutting the door on the gentlemen actually some have written about that and I feel that's just down right nasty

But I do suggest for the sake of embarrassment that providers that have a problems with color or age, weight should mention that on their web site

It's nice to be open and honest

Terri

if you have a 1 cup limitation.

I'm a people person and i tend to look more inward than outside appearances.If all you ever do is look at the outside of people you're going to miss out on meeting alot of amazing people.