If you have used a client by leading him on to believe he is special and you WORK him into buying you a new pair of boobs a car or a lease on an incall or a loan that you end up stiffing them for you are just as much at fault if they turn on you ......no one likes to feel duped and the fall-out can be your reputation men also talk and we women hear the chatter and know who you are....a few yrs back I met a client who I had seen only twice he had just lost his wife and became attached to me quickly it was close to Christmas and he had no where ot go so I invited him to my Christmas eve family and friends party I told him to bring a $25 gift to play a game of gift exchange .....well 2 day before he came by with a package for me it was some very expensive jewlery I was very uncomfortable and did not know what to do ...he said every yr he bought his wife this kind of gift and wanted me to have it ......after much soul seaching I found the store he purchased the gift from and asked if it could be recredited to his acc. she said yes so I told him I could not accept the gift he was angry and chose not to come to the party but did pick up the gift....months went by and he called again and asked me to dinner I went and this time he brought a dozen white roses ...I said to him do you know what white roses stand for? Friendship it was the perfect gift and we were able to move forward as good friends.....the point is you know what is right and wrong in this case He was trying to replace his wife at Christmas with me and it would of been wrong to play on his emotions .....I understand times can be tough and it might be tempting when in a moment of weakness a man wants to solve your problems but please think it through and do the right thing and if you accept help make dam sure you repay his kindness no one wants to feel used.....
IF you feel you have been wronged by a provider or just got upset because she no longer wanted to see you for whatever reason {maybe she owed you money and you felt scammed or taken advantage of ect.....}or she just did not get you......any hoo if you then stalk , harasse, send mean e-mails slash tires do drive byes tell her family what she does or her work place it will backfire on you we women talk and know who is doing what to who so somtime it's best just to let things go and move on lesson learned..... hopefully..... and your next provider will be more of what you are looking for if you have a past of doing these things even to ONE of us the rest will shy far away no matter what your side was no excuse for behaving like a scorned lover in this industry......
If you have used a client by leading him on to believe he is special and you WORK him into buying you a new pair of boobs a car or a lease on an incall or a loan that you end up stiffing them for you are just as much at fault if they turn on you ......no one likes to feel duped and the fall-out can be your reputation men also talk and we women hear the chatter and know who you are....a few yrs back I met a client who I had seen only twice he had just lost his wife and became attached to me quickly it was close to Christmas and he had no where ot go so I invited him to my Christmas eve family and friends party I told him to bring a $25 gift to play a game of gift exchange .....well 2 day before he came by with a package for me it was some very expensive jewlery I was very uncomfortable and did not know what to do ...he said every yr he bought his wife this kind of gift and wanted me to have it ......after much soul seaching I found the store he purchased the gift from and asked if it could be recredited to his acc. she said yes so I told him I could not accept the gift he was angry and chose not to come to the party but did pick up the gift....months went by and he called again and asked me to dinner I went and this time he brought a dozen white roses ...I said to him do you know what white roses stand for? Friendship it was the perfect gift and we were able to move forward as good friends.....the point is you know what is right and wrong in this case He was trying to replace his wife at Christmas with me and it would of been wrong to play on his emotions .....I understand times can be tough and it might be tempting when in a moment of weakness a man wants to solve your problems but please think it through and do the right thing and if you accept help make dam sure you repay his kindness no one wants to feel used.....
Very often it is difficult to stay CLEAR, both for hobbiests and providers. I know I've made my share of mistakes in this biz and in my personal life. I try to correct the situation asap or as soon as I have the strength to do so.
The other idea I would like to throw out there is..."Don't believe everything you hear and only half of what you see"....I heard this when I was 20 yrs old and boy, it has served me well!
And my use of the newbie terms goes for both hobbyist and providers. Unfortunately the EH board has lost it's moderate, the LG, but I would recommend scrolling back pages to see how often this topic came up. The LG used to have a saying"help I've fallen for a provider and can't get up". She also used to use the word "compartmentalize" when discussing this topic. The simple fact is, what you described in both of your posts, are not exclusive to the escorting/hobbying world, it goes on in the civi world as well.
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