My wife and I are looking to meet a local provider (which we've done before), but we now have kids so our risk tolerance has changed a bit. Curious what providers and hobbyists think of using an STD test result sharing site to clear the path for everyone? To be specific, there are sites out there that let people share their STD test results with each other without disclosing identities. If a test comes back positive, that info does not get shared, so everyone can just go their separate ways.

Would it be offensive to a provider to be asked to do something like this? We're both willing to do it too and even pay for the cost. We just want to have a safe and fun experience and thought this might be a way to do it? We're not looking to take unusual risks, but girls playing together is of the uncovered variety and my wife is more concerned now that she's a mommy.  We also know that nothing is 100% certain and this is not a gurantee of anything, just an extra precaution to add a little peace of mind.  Would love to hear from providers and hobbyists alike. Thanks.

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I say no it wouldn't be an offensive request to ask a provider for a std test. If she says no that she doesn't feel comfortable about doing it, then she enters into the same category as a hobbyist who doesn't want to be screened, they have something bad to hide and you should run the other direction period.

I can relate, but will say that the majority of providers will say no.  I am STD free & agree GYT on a regular basis.  There is no 100% method besides the obvious...

A post about std's was done just a couple weeks ago on this board, quite a few people commented of how they get tested all the time. Yet here this thread of the same subject sits barren because the results would be shared even though it would be anonymous.

Do you see the irony?? If everyone really gets tested all the time and claims they are clean, why not post the results if you're that confidant and since your identity would be safe? I'm calling bullshit people only get tested if they fear they have something.

I can't be sure, but some may not be replying because any test result would be pointless given it only means free of STD when it was taken. But we are not talking about a test on a lady who is in the dating pool and hasn't been with a guy in 2 months. We are talking about a woman who may have been with several people since that last test was done, or may be between the sharing of the results and seeing you. Or may have been exposed shortly before taking the test and nothing showed up yet.

Point being that the women you are asking for a STD test from probably has sex a little to often and with to many people for your test to be anything but a false sense of security.

First, I get emails every week from some guy who wants to go get tested so he can play in disneyland without a cover. WTF ! Why, because he is clean, has nothing and wants me to be the ONLY ONE... blah blah blah. Think about how many people these wierdos send this to ? Just because its on TER ( nothing against org poster ) Doesnt mean its anymore valid.Nor does it mean even if everything panned out, that he goes off and does the same thing to everyone else... unprotected

Why would ANYONE take time out of their day to do this for one client ? That would be hours of time of putting this togather, and or meeting in public with joe shmo.. etc. for ONE MEETING ? Cost wise...is it really worth it ?

Submit personal information to some website , where he can then see your information ( name etc)

THEN after all of this, what if he changes his mind and doesnt even make a apt ?

Why would anyone even concider doing playland in the rain ? Without a coat ? In this world ?

I know my status. I am perfect and to b honest I get tested very often .

how are we SURE that the info is NOT shared giving full real name, address, etc. ??

Thanks for posting Elite - I share the same thoughts.

Briefly reading these posts, the health concerns, and a recent review posted that performed everything BB (including Greek).  Fantasy I don't know?  I am concerned.  Ofcourse, in Europe, or at least in my home country that is common place, if desired.  And No, this is not the eastern block, but rather a city announced as the best city to live in the "World" (not for me though).  Cheers.