this is a great question!!  the do not miss GFE that
was suggested to me was donnanextdoor.com  but i am
not in possession of any "first hand" experience...
who has a list of MUST SEE s  in phoenix?

Some people want specific services, while others could care less.

Some people want the lady to have a certain hair color/length, while others could care less.

Some people want the lady to have a specfic body type, while others could care less.

Some people want the lady to be a certain nationality, while others could care less.

Some people may find cost a major factor, while others could care less.

Then, there's the private lists in which case you couldn't mention it here.

As the old saying goes, "One mans junk is another mans treasure", so trying to pin-point your request is useless.