Phoenix
I pay for VIP to keep up with private messages mainly. I rarely read reviews - sometimes I will scan in general the TER guy's reviews to see what he has in expectations for his date but really for no other reason. We are all different in our personalities, styles and looks so no two sessions will be cookie cutter. As always YMMV.
While I post on the various TER boards, at any given time there is hositility and negativity on posts. I look for topics that I can feel involved in but refuse to get involved in the haters and boy's locker room games. Most of the TER people I see don't even post on any of these boards.....which means they might not have as much available time to spend hating on people 
No disrepect to anyone that does post but those that do so with a bad attitude already know who they are.
I have taken a lot of guff (and still do) for my ASSCLOWN ALERTS which were originally all aimed at the cyberbullies attacking ladies. It got to the point I was accused of being a provider pretending to be a guy. LMAO!
Although the male bullies are the biggest voice, there have been some female bullies too, who behind an alias, gave open disdain and critiscism for men who use provider, older men, overweight men, or even men in general.
Those two groups have created a very adversarial feel. I can't think of a more unproductive situation than providers and clients being adversarial!! It's crazy.
"We can all voice our opinions without being rude towards each other." should be everyone' mantra.
On a personal note:
I can't think of a more gracious and polite contributor than Victoria. However, I have seen a small but vocal group of boys (they are not men in my book) continually attack her on other boards.
What a pile of crap that is!!!
Frankly, I don't care WHO thinks I am a woman for how I post, and I will never stop saying this:
It's the ladies contributions that make or break a discussion board.
I personally thank you all for contributing, even those who dislike me.
HH
You've done lots for this board, Victoria. Props to you.
HH
I pay for VIP to keep up with private messages mainly. I rarely read reviews - sometimes I will scan in general the TER guy's reviews to see what he has in expectations for his date but really for no other reason. We are all different in our personalities, styles and looks so no two sessions will be cookie cutter. As always YMMV.
While I post on the various TER boards, at any given time there is hositility and negativity on posts. I look for topics that I can feel involved in but refuse to get involved in the haters and boy's locker room games. Most of the TER people I see don't even post on any of these boards.....which means they might not have as much available time to spend hating on people No disrepect to anyone that does post but those that do so with a bad attitude already know who they are.