We have two posters come on the board today asking for recommendations for a lady. One was a local and one was a visitor. The local immediately gets several offers of assistance from the ladies, and the visitor basically gets told he is acting like a cop. And for my two cents, I think they both should have been treated with respect, but with no reviews no one should be offering anything to these gentlemen. We all know how our local finest like to go surfing on our forums. Thanx

That's Phoenix for you people are hiding in the bushes waiting to pounce on their victims. It's a clicky city, you have to ease in nice and slowly or you get shut out

I too have various methods of screening.

The reason I responded only to the local gentleman is because he did not specify an ideal time to get together.  I am not available THIS week which is the time frame the visiting gent specified.

I don't think either is LE, but only with proper screening could I be certain.

Unfortunately, many of my friends choose not to disclose the details of our time together, so to say that these gents should not be given the time of day unless they review, in my opinion, is a little harsh.





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We are a somewhat reserved bunch, but a lot of that is self protection. For a newbie to come on the board and ask for a recommendation is natural, but I think what they should do is just bite the bullet so to speak, see a lady, and then write a review. Once you get a review you will get better responses. Or get verified, but that is another outlay of finite finances, I know most of the women like the verification, but just post some reviews. Good luck.

Last year being very new to all this and yes if you post being new.... sometimes the community jumps your shit.  In one ear and out the other is one of my motto's.

say fuck it and be a bull in a china shop and make a statement at least you won't be forgotten