I say what I mean and I mean what I say. Don't need an alias. Some may dislike me. I'm cool with that. I don't judge peeps off of an internet chat room. I judge peeps when we are face to face. please advise!!!!!!
completely lame. all of those reasons lead to you hiding behind a false identity. you don't have the balls too be who you are. well........... maybe if your a pussy that hides behind an alias your being who you are. would not want to be you.
...there's nothing wrong with using an alias unless it's used maliciously. It's often frustrating when someone is using an alias and their post is mean spirited and you can't effectively make the poster accountable for his/her post. That's just part of this environment and you just need to deal with it. Welcome to the TER discussion board; yours is not the first time this issue has been raised. I like that a poster is able to use an alias...that's one of the features that makes TER a dominant player in the market. Any post which questions the use of aliases should include the words; tact; diplomacy and discretion; those are some of the reasons why posters use aliases. The 'In Your Face' attitude is not cool in many cases.
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those are all legit reasons as to why you may use an alias. But I agree with the original post. Specially since 99.9% of the people here are all ready using an alias of some fashion. Being in this hobby is all about anonymity is it not?
your such a hypocrite. If you are so proud to say what you mean and mean what you say, why are using an alias as in balljointnut and not your real name. Get a clue..................
So your real name is balljointnut?
So in reality you are who you are, under 1 level of alias, but look down on people that use another alias. Some logic you have there. You realize how silly it sounds to act like you're such a straight shooter while using an anonymous name on a message board, right?
Maybe you better torn down some a your your post and replies.
No body cares how you're judged but the ladies you want to see,
Myself I'm a no care about what a you think
Laca - fuggedaboutit. Dis' paison wanna keep it real. I neva made bad decision on a girl I didn't see. And neither will Balljoint. But some of the philly's I been recommended, they been a waste.
And there are plenty of fish in the sea. Or in brown paper wrappers. Myself, I'm a no care what you a think. No one should say a post should go, except the moderator or board keeper.
He ain't missin' nutin' by seeing ladies who would not see him.
agree, once you have a handle, stick with it. The only reason my handle from pre 2000 is still not mine is because it was taken. Else, Wanderer would still be it.
For those folks asking for real names, grow up. I feel like it's grade school when I read that type of post. Yea, I don't think that was Balljoint's point. And by the way, I agree with about 99% of what Balljoint posts. His style I direct and to the point and he is not a white knight here. And he is not here shillin' or doing marketing for girls. He is a true hobbyist. Something this town needs. It has been over run by social clubs and buddies. Guys who do hide in the shadows trying to manipulate the market. And ask for discounts and play backchannel games.
It used to be a hobby of gentleman. I for one think the use of an alias diminishes that, but it is available for folks to use and this board makes the rules. And I support their rules. At one time there was a ban on aliases.
Balljoint - keep saying what you mean. It is refreshing to not read the same old white knight posters. And yea, for my taste, certain providers could lighten up their tone. Or just switch to Dom markets. But that's my personal taste and to each his own.
And I am done with using assistants, agencies, reps whatever the politically correct phrase for .... is today.
And all the guys who know me get that I don't play in the local backchannel. It only ever played as a way for them to say "see, I referred so and so to you" to try and gain favor. My quality experiences were so low based on their "referrals" I found just watching this site and a few screening sites exceeds my needs.
So to keep integrity (which is what people do when others are not looking), I will always be JUSTDONEBYU. And walk my own path. Because I can. And candidly, don't need the crutch that most of these guys need who play games. And there are so many great providers out there who are indy and do not need shills or assistants because they provide a great service to all they meet, and not just the "selected" few.
And there are great guys. Who don't post or waste the ladies time.
Peac
We all have a persona on this site. Why do you need more than one? I am guessing I can put the majority of you in too the dislike category? You know that your comments are linked to your persona so you use an alias.
Use the 2nd alias to write bad reviews of providers. That way, after you see a sexy picture of a provider and you really want to meet her, you can PM her under the name of ballnutjoint to set up the appointment, and then if your session went really bad, like if you found out that she was really a man after it was too late to stop (so you kept going anyway), and then you were disgusted afterwards, so you want to write a bad review of what happened and leave her a zero for performance and a minus 20 for looks, you can write all about it using the alias "MonkeyWithTwoButts" without any fear that the provider will read this and then get angry with you, which would result in her/him blowing up your email box with 1000s of complaints about what you said about her/him. In any case, this is one possible reason I could come up with that would make more than one alias useful for something. I am sure there are more reasons to have multiple aliases, but I can't think of any right now.
It is well documented that I won't hesitate to write a bad review with my persona name. I don't like it but I will. I don't need to hide. Anybody that would write a bad review under an alias is a a complete pussy who can't stand the heat. Grow a set. I have grown in this hobby and learned to do my research and temper my reviews, so I have few to no bad encounters. If you give poor service I'm gonna say it under balljointnut. The ladies should know who gave them a poor review.
That being said there are some that might try to get back at you. As a man you have to weather the storm and move on.
There is no reason to have an alias unless your ashamed of what you wrote. Even if on hindsight your not happy with what you said...be a man-you said it...take the heat.
This thread is true, unalienated, uncut, uncircumcised, pure American entertainment! Heeheehee I love ya's all!
Actually, I love the balljointnut handle... it straight cracks me up every time I see it! But likewise, MonkeyWithTwoButts truly creates a challenge while typing it, b/c I can't sit still from bustin' up over it! I imagine that if you particular guys were actually able to instead, all work together on this, it would create the riot of the season & go viral overnight!
I too am a firm believer in owning up to what you make public, as he indicates, but then I've never found myself in situations which make using an alias the wiser of alternatives. BUT I DO believe there are times when it WOULD be the wiser of alternatives, & that's just from seeing a train wreck unfold on this board. But really, even as I speak/type right now to voice my opinion... it's still my opinion, except, do you really think that "Kelsi" Stylez is my real name? It too is a form of alias also... not for the protection of my ass on this board & the people I offend, but for the protection of my ass if I'm out with my Mother & one of you ding-dongs (JK!) comes up & claims I'm Kelsi Stylez. This way I can just claim you're crazy, then Mom & I can laugh our asses off at it over sushi.
Anyway, a couple years ago, I attempted to use an alias for a particular conversation. Though its purpose was not for anonymity, but rather just the appropriate finishing touch to the response I wrote at the time, it surely had me in stitches. So I even stopped what I was doing & ended up over on another page, fully obsessed with the creation of endless aliases that had me on the floor with laughter. (But long story short, when I went back to the string to apply my appropriate alias & post its hilarious reply, it wouldn't allow its use without the VIP membership. But whatever... go TER!)
I think if nothing else, aliases are a huge contribution of fun within this board & people get really creative with them. It's something that makes TER unique & adds to the crippling laughter of entertainment. Plus it's a good remedy for politely criticizing someone who could really use it constructively, b/c maybe everyone was making fun of them over something they were simply unaware of. I mean, who needs a psychotic escort wreaking havoc in your civil life, all b/c she mis-perceived your good intentions (for example)? I wouldn't change it for the world.
Now the only aspect of it I'm opposed to, & actually just learned was even a possibility, is the option to publish reviews under an alias... ooh... scary! What if you're standing your ground & press the buttons of a sociopath who retaliates by posting a horrid, untruthful review of you? That hardly seems like a harmless opportunity, left up to the wrong asshole! And it's like (heh, heh... hard to keep a straight face...) balljointnut says, I would want the Provider of whom I'm posting the bad review upon, to know it was me who wrote it, b/c just out of good faith, she obviously deserved it, which is what forced me to write it, sadly.
Thanx for the entertainment guys!
Relax guys
WTF you getting all excited about.
This is a hobby your suppose to have fun here and not take yourselves to serious.
Nobody cares about who you see or don't see. It's your choose nobody else's.
Read hiddenhills post on the use of alias's and learn some a thing.
Nuff said Capiche