Guys: I'm all about being sensual and creating the most seductive atmosphere I can for our encounter. I also love going above the norm for a truly unique and fun date. For instance, I had a blast this week trimming a friend's mustache and beard for him while we took a bubble bath. I am a perfectionist, and I am very careful about what I do to make you feel your best (if that is what you want). I used to love to tie my dad's tie for him. I am very good with a Double Windsor. These fun experiences also are more enjoyable when we have at least a couple of hours to relax, drink some wine (or in this case - Champagne) and play. It is also a little difficult to make out, give a great massage and end with you feeling satisfied in only an hour (especially if you are expecting more than one pop, which I love by the way). I can only do so many things in the time alloted without you feeling rushed. I also love giving manicures and pedicures for those who wish to have extreme pampering. Most men whom I have been with will tell you that I love the entire body (from head to toe -- yummy).  I love what I do, and I love the child-like expressions on my dates' faces while I play out some of my child-like fantasies. I feel blessed when their eyes are looking into mine in acceptance. It gives me such joy and pleasure. It makes me feel like I have succeeded in making my date weak (in a good way) and sentimental. I love it, love it, love it!

I have also noticed that some men (and not lately, so recent friends I am not speaking of you) that men do not take the time to carefully read my profile on TER. I like just about everything but CIM (although I let men get very close) and fingers inserted deep into my coochie. I'm sorry, but fingers -- and especially nails -- are filthy. I do not see any of my clients/friends washing their hands with soap and hot water and using a nail brush before our date, so please be considerate and do not surprise me with something that you know I do not like or accept. I prefer the tongue, thank you. It is not that I do not like fingers, but that shall be reserved for the right time and fellow (along with CIM). Besides, I do not need fingers to get me wet. I'm already there -- all the time. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to take time off from this business because I felt a possible infection appearing, created by your fingers. Yes, it is true. It happens, guys, and it takes a full week to recover, along with itching, redness, pain and medicine. If you do not like what I have to offer, then please feel free to move on and find another date that is more to your liking. It is certainly your choice, and it is my decision whom I wish to see. If you are NOT A TER Member, then you would not know these things about me, and I certainly understand in the heat of passion things slip. But after I politely tell you, "NO," please do not keep trying. That is rude and is enough to make me want to scream and do some unforgettable karate training on you.  

Please be conscientious of my likes and dislikes. I truly want to please you, but we all have our limits. For those who want to be with ladies who offer a little more, then great! But go and make a date with them. I know I offer a great service, and generally the things you are doing for me is well accepted and appreciated. However, some gentlemen are obviously more interested in things they have learned in the past and believe it applies to every woman. Guess what? It does not. I always ask my friends what they like, even if I think I am doing what I believe pleases them. You are paying for a service, that is true. But I am also giving you what you read about on TER and not what you believe is what I want. Also, a very annoying thing for most women in this business and I have encountered it recently: Do not call after you have booked an appointment for one hour (epecially repeat clients who should know better) and say to me, "How long do we have? I don't want you to feel rushed."  Um, hello!  You book as much time as you need. I am not a "clock watcher" (God, I hate that phrase: We do have set donations), but this is still a business and it is my choice if I want to spend more time with you off the clock. I never have rushed anyone since I have been in this business, but do not assume that you will book (and pay) for only an hour and expect to stay for two hours -- cheap one! Like I said: If I ask you to stay or say "don't worry about it," then don't. But not under any circumstances should you ask me beforehand, "So, are you okay with going past 15 minutes or a half hour?"  Um, I have set donations for 1 1/2 appointments. Sorry, but how rude. Ladies: I know you are laughing at this right now, and even though I am serious I also am saying this in jest.

Anyway, this post was not meant for flamers because I do provide a great experience, so do not be afraid to book with me. However, do your homework, guys.

Any providers care to comment on likes and dislikes in this business? Guys: Feel free to tell us what you like or if you feel you have been cheated in the past because of TER profiles.

Hugs & smooches,
Ciara

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and i'm sure 99.9% of the gents here would agree...you touched on many things..mainly concern for your health and time spent past session...the health issue is a no-brainer as far as i'm concerned...nothing wrong with saying"no fingers please"...time issue appears to be an occupational hazard...guess you just have to stop being so nice and figure a way to have them leave..as far as your question about being mislead on ter profiles..no..i don't reley on them totally..most of the seasoned gents here,read the reviews and do some backchannel,check out the web sight to form a concenses

P.S. O but those eyes of yours will melt a rock

So . . . does you handle mean something special? If I rub your feet will I have good luck?

Hugs,
ciara

Hi Ciara,
Good, informative post... perhaps your title should could have been "It's just common sense & common courtesy". Your examples of good communications, along with some common sense and a courteous interaction will result in a lot of pleasure for those that practice what you have preached.

I would add that as gentleman if we are uncertain about the preference of the lady who's company we are enjoying we should ask questons such as "may I _____" or "how do you like or prefer to be ______" (ex. kissed, touched, tickled, licked, bitten, or whatever seductive fantasy comes to mined).

As far as my dislike it has to be the difficulty in "making new friends". I have enjoyed hobbying here for more than just a little while, but have some what of a "low profile". The two reference system adopted for safety is some what a "party killer". I try to attend some of the social get together's to meet new, wonderful independant ladies such as you Ciara but the ease of contacting a favorite agency so as not to have to go thru the process of providing a couple of references from the wonderful ladies that I have already seen. Usual is an easier to revisit them or use an agency.

I wish that a single method of prefered 411, Date Check, Room Servive 2000, TER's white list, Dave's list or the ladies here in the valley had their own collective easy verification service. As I said, I understand this is matter of safety and do not need explained why it is necessary, but I don't have to like it.

Again, Ciara excellent post. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting you someday...

Ezcoyote

Fortuna audaces juvat... Fortune favors the bold...

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Ciara, Very well put, We are all into this as someting we all find that is personally satisfying so it goes we should all be our best and I mean the best that we can present ourselves to another individual for a first time visit. I go out of my way to make sure that another visit will be accepted with enthuisiasam. We have never met but I am sure that day is just around the corner. Have a great day!!!!
Steve

I certainly understand the dilemna of seeing someone new, but if you already have a reputable provider reference (especially if she's on Phoenix411), then you might not need to give out all the other types of information that is sometimes requested.

I would love to meet you. Don't take too long to contact me.

Hugs,
Ciara

Ciara, GREAT information.  Very helpful to someone like myself that doesn't yet have access to your TER profile.  
Sorry for my ignorance, but what is a flamer?
I have found that gals either hate or love fingers.  I have a couple that actually request it.  I am one who takes the time to make sure and manicure my nails before I see someone.  I also take time out to wash my hands at the appropriate moment when things get going.  I wouldn't want someone roaming around me with less than freshly cleaned hands. For someone I'm seeing for the first time, I go slowly and softly.  A woman's body reaction will tell you right away if she is enjoying it or not.  I can't imagine how uncomfortable it must be to get scratched inside by a clumsy finger nail.
Well, I to will be meeting you sooner rather than later and will certainly be aware of your wishes.  Two hours or more is a necessity for me.  I enjoy the whole experience.  Not just the play time.
See you soon !!!!!

While I respect and appreciate what you're saying (and I do!), I tend to look at both sides of the issue.  Now I have not had the pleasure of partying with you yet but I've noticed with a number of other providers that they request cleanliness of their gentlemen callers but don't always seem to practice it themselves.

What do I mean here?  Well I've lost count over the years to the number of times I've walked into a ladies boudoir and found it a mess.  I try to shower before visiting a lady and sometimes ask to shower after I get there.  Rarely do I see evidence, such as wet towels, to indicate that the lady recently showered.  Only slightly more often do I see a wet toothbrush sitting in or near the bathroom sink.

Once upon a time I had an appointment with a very talented young lady.  When I first arrived at her location I noticed that she did not seem to be as "fresh" as one might expect.  I politely asked if she would like to first take a shower to prepare for our appointment and she turned down my request.  Now I don't know if she was concerned about leaving me in her room while she showered, or maybe she was concerned that I was interested in a "couples" shower.  In any event her refusal to shower knocked the wind out of my sails.  I saw little alternative but to collect my things and leave.

My comments here are not aimed at anyone nor are they indented to disparage your thoughts.  I only relate this story because I believe that cleanliness is important and needs to be practiced by both parties needs to be a two-way street.

The answer to the question about not finding wet towels in the lady's bathroom:  I put away everything out of sight after I shower. I am a clean freak and I like my bathroom to be spotless and a clean towel laying on the counter for my partner. I have limited hanging ability, so I save the towel hook near the shower for my partner, but first the towel is neatly folded on the counter so he knows it's clean. I also provide nice wooden hangers for his clothes. Not only do I shower and shave before the gentleman arrives, but I also do a cowgirl shower five minutes before he walks though my door to ensure that my kitty and butt area are fresh.

Perhaps the young lady you were talking about didn't get in the shower because she didn't want to mess up her makeup and hair. It doesn't mean that she doesn't want to shower with you or that she hasn't already showered. Now . . . if you go to kiss her and her teeth are funky or her hair smells like oil, then that's a good indication of bad hygiene for the day.

That's why I always say, "Ask, don't asume." Next time -- if you're not sure about something like that -- say, "Boy! Are you clean. I don't even see your wet towel" and see her response. Just some pointers.

Hugs,
Ciara

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She has one of the cleanness in calls in town and is one of the classiest ladies you will ever meet. Now tell me Ciara will it be extra if I take that cowgirl shower with you after I arrive. Okay you can spank me for that one.


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Yes, you can take a cowboy shower with me, but bubble baths are more fun (since we're already clean). Of course, if I had a horse troth we'd be in really good shape. Ooh!

Hugs,
Ciara