I like the new look!!!!!
Happy New Year!
Jazz
I would first of all like to say thank you to the ladies that keep their photos current......With that being said here is my issue. I have seen many providers this year I must say out of the many 5 of the ladies (well known providers all indies) when they arrived at my home it was obvious the pics were old and by old and mean years older. Also 20lbs to 70lbs in weight different than the photos. I tried complaining and/or even sending them home. All I got is excuses for reasons why they should stay, mean attitudes, or demanding money for showing up, or a combination of all excuses. Where does that leave me?
When I read some of their reviews (prior to calling the provider) there is no mention of how old the pics are and/or the weight gain. When I total it up it cost me a little over $1500.00 to go through all this hassle.
I figured the reason for joining this board is to get a accurate depiction of who I am calling.
I know that there is a fear alienating ourselves from the ladies and or the hobbyist community but enough is enough. this behavior should not be tolerated any longer.
There are certain behaviors expected of me as a hobbyist when engaging with a provider, should I not expect a level of integrity and security from the provider. Is this not the reason why we have this board "accuracy”
regards
L. C.
both were early 20's.
Are you saying that these were the only 2 that the photo's were accurate?
Also if the photo's aren't accurate then they must be lying about the age too...
Why have you not posted more reviews?
For some reason some of my reviews or comments on the board are not always posted or delayed for weeks until off the first page of the board. So I finally stopped I just figured I give it a try since I become some what frustrated.
What I realize is that if anything negative is said about any of the popular ladies on the board the board. Then everyone tries to discredit the individual that said it.
The bottom line is that 4 of the ladies were from phx411 and even asked me if I would not review her so I obliged
Terri I can honestly say your pics are accurate. I have met you at several parties. So you need not be concerned. Those ladies that choose this practice no exactly who they are. To be quite honest it is just not fair to anyone both providers and hobbyist.
It has gotten to the point were I just see a few select ladies. I am almost afraid to try a new provider. I can't speak for any other hobbyist but this impacts if I will try anyone new.
My experience is just the opposite of your experience. The ladies that I meet have described themselves accurately and I have been able to pick them out of a crowd upon meeting them. They have also delivered as advertised. I don't review every lady I meet. My reviews do get posted rapidly if they are filled out correctly. The one that were delayed were my fault. I use a reviewers history to compare ladies, that is why reviewing several ladies from other people is important to me.
Hope everyone had a great New Years.
I agree with jagger. Additional advice, In addition to the providers web sites and the posting of reviews I have found a number of hobbyests who post reviews to be very reliable in their descriptions of the ladies and the performances. This all helps me decide when looking for a new provider. Check out my reviews, you will not find them misleading. There are several providers whom I have not seen BCD who I have seen at a party and I must say I did not recognise many of them as they all looked better in person than on the web sites. Good luck when selecting a new provider, make some male friends on this board whom you can trust and go from there.
I am told that my photos never do me justice.
I feel your pain though regarding the deception. Mya looks 100% better in person also. I was shocked when I met her in person....absolutely gorgeous.
but it doesn't always work in the business world or in this business. Best and safest policy L.C. is to visit with the well known and well reviewed providers and there are many here to choose from. The question than arises: How do newcomers to the business get exposure and gain popularity and how do the hobbyists know if a new provider is on the "level" so to speak? Well - isn't this the same situation in the business world? The new ones have to try harder, offer better pricing and try innovative promotional ideas.
This hobby - if treated as a business should use the same principles as many do.
However, in the end it's "buyer beware."
The honest providers out there will get the kudos and the repeat business. The ones who are unreliable or deceitful will soon fade away but unfortunately at the cost of a few disappointed hobbyists.
If she's blonde in her pic, and a redhead at the door (assuming it's the SAME lady, not a bait and switch) that's one thing, when 25 years old becomes 52 years old or 125 lbs. is really 215 lbs.-that ain't right.
We all change some from the frozen moment of a picture, granted. And time stops for no one. If it isn't a deal breaker or mood killer for ya-so be it. A couple of pounds or years on a wonderful and high quality lady is one thing...
Intentional misrepresentation by a provider, hoping a client will either be too embarassed to turn them away or in order to extort an appearance fee at the door, is as unacceptable as a client telling a provider he has the 250 dollar incall fee on the phone, only to produce a wrinkled 20 and some bullshirt excuse at her door.
Providers shouldn't tolerate that for a second, but have had it happen before I am sure, since there's only so much they can do when they don't control the money.
However, clients are not similarly disadvantaged, and the remedy for the client is simple-if you feel your dissatisfaction with the picture vs. reality disparity is legitimate, tell her and send her on her way empty handed or with some gas money if you feel it appropriate (I for one, give them some gas money, regardless of how badly I have been decieved).
I agree with you in principle, but believe what shouldn't be tolerated any longer is forking over what amounts to, in your stated case, 3 bills a piece for 5 providers who weren't what they said portrayed themselves to be. That encourages further deceptions and empowers them to continue. Only when honesty is the sole profitable policy, can it become the best policy. Sad, but true.
Integrity can be lacking in all walks of life, it's the individual's job to decide what's the tolerable level they require of both themselves and those with whom they would interact.
I don't know that we can concede that responsibility to a review website which, for me, exists simply to sift out the outright scams from legitimate providers (my personal opinion of course, yours may vary).
And frankly, if you only came across 5 bad apples in this overflowing bucket of stellar talent (you don't indicate how many total providers you have seen but "many" implies enough that 5 is a distinct minority)-that ain't too bad.
Considering that, flaws and all, without resources like this one can expect much worse results.
Kinda rambly, but I hope some food for thought-for all of us.
Play smart and play safe
JJ