I think the answers vary, not just from guy to guy, but also for one guy depending on his immediate situation and the girl he's seeing.  When I fantasize about the first time I meet you, I'd like to spend about a half hour or so building a connection with increasing sexual interest that accelerates over time into a frenzy of activity.  Then back to a slower pace with another half hour of intimate discovery (maybe another mini frenzy).

Hope that helps. I'm on my way to a cold shower now...

I believe that the lady should set the tone of the date. If she's willing to not be a clock watcher, then take as long as you need. Some guys think that the women is just wasting time chit chatting. Or they might not get MSOG.

I personaly would love to get to know the lady before playtime. That's why I enjoy M&G's. You can meet someone, talk about anything & everything, see what you have in common and then when you "meet" again, it's like a old friend.

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Great question Victoria. I personally like at least a 2 hour date so that we can spend the first 30 minutes enjoying a good bottle of wine getting to know each other. This goes for the second, third, fourth and more visits, its just nice to relax in the company of a beautiful women talking about life enjoying the wine.

Such a great topic to get feedback on! I loved everyones responses...I think you all have very tasteful approaches to make it the best experience as possible with the provider. Great info to know!

...get busy in the boudoir; more than likely he just can't wait to jump your bones!
There's time to get to know each other during pillow talk time, no?
For a one hour date I think that 10 to 15 minutes is appropriate for getting to know each other. During that time it's helpful if a woman signals her acceptance of him with touches and closeness so he can feel comfortable initiating the next step but I love it when a woman drags me into the bedroom to start the party.