Recently I was out of town and decided to hobby, I really was curious to see what it would feel like to be the one doing the choosing and I have to say it was an amazing experience, he was smart, funny and a total gentleman. I booked a dinner date and of course desert.....after the date and I paid my escort I had no regrets in fact it was worth every penny it gave me the chance to step inside the mindset of my clients and I now have a better understanding of why one would choose this type of entertainment.It was enpowering to be the one calling the shots so to speak....and it was wonderful to spend time with someone that had no expectations of more than just being in that moment of time creating a memory that will be with me forever.Will I do again? You bet I will. WHY? The simple answer is because I can.....

A lady never kisses and tells...except to all her gerlfriends Ladies I have his # HOT HOT HOT

Was it his striking model looks, or his BCD skills (which you did not know going in perhaps)? I mean, you are an attractive woman, could probably go to a bar, pick up a guy and be in control (whisper that in my ear and I'll play slave boy).

But there was a thread a while ago about a guy looking for looks. People got wacky about that.

Your comment, HOT HOT HOT, was it the whole package, his BCD, or the fact that you were in control of a younger beautiful male. Was he a 10 10? or perhaps a 10 9, or 9 9? I really liked the comment "smart, funny and a total gentleman". Perhaps we need a third rating. I would love to know personality traits as well before booking a session. She was intelligent, fun, and a total lady. Yep, Looks, Fun, Brains, BCD, Charm... We need a third rating category. Would guys like that info? Wonder what the qualifiers would be for that rating category.

And I pay for the fantasy as well as the rest. Did he create that for you? Did he make you feel beautiful? Or talk about the other ladies he was with that day and guys in the business.

JustDone aka JustCurious aka Julian...

P.S. If your looking for great BCD, give me a holler. I'm running a snowday discount. I like fine restaurants, flowers, and prefer 2 hour engagements. I'm educated, well travelled, a gentelman and will provide references since I have no reviews. Hmm, is there a review site for guys in the biz? Again, curious how you found him and selected?

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www.studsbyvictoria.com?

Great questions, First I was on tour and very busy and just wanted some down time with someone of my choice ,,,,We meet at a lovey hotel bar and just began talking I told him I was an escort and he was European and I am a sucker for an accent and as we talked he told me he had also done some escorting but most women seem to be of the mindset that they should never have to pay for sex. I felt this was a double standard and deecided why not make him an offer? Yes he was beautiful but that was not why I choose him it was his sense of humor and he had wonderful style and class, he made me feel beautiful and after a long day of working I just wanted to relax and enjoy some company it was a bonus that we had great chemistry BCD and yes I will see him again and if anyone is in CA I would be happy to share his contact # as far a pricing goes I offered $$$$$$  I also paid for a very nice romantic dinner we did talk about the business and it was interesting to hear a mans point of view on this subject very interesting date......Victoria

Too cute OC although I once sponcered a city softball team in Scottsdale called  Vic's Dicks and our logo was a large penis swinging a Bat ...My girlfriends and I would go to the games and cheer our team which we nicknamed the strokers....made for some great cheering you should of seen the faces of the ladies on the other teams...We rarely won a game but our Dicks were awsome and later when we hit the local watering hole it never mattered if we won or lost my Dicks were some of the nicest guys and my memories of those summer nights of long age still bring a smile to my face it was great having all those Dicks wearing my name GO STROKERS wherever you are now I MISS YOU GUYS...glory days gone in a wink of an eye.....V

You are a 10 in my book!!!!!!

LOL

Jazz

I raise my glass to you!

What a wonderful perspective!!!  

Jazz

You had a great experience, from the tone of the previous posts. That is way cool. But hobbying and picking up a guy in a bar (you did not know he was an escort going in nor find him through usual methods) are two different things. Buying a guy dinner, well, friends do that. Offering is not the same as accepting - again, just curious. And it is cool that he made you feel beautiful after a long day. We all need attention at times.

Look at photo's, review sites. Pick a guy that way. Leave money in an envelope in front of a stranger you have not talked to. Go to an incall you have never been to before. And perhaps, do not find the person as attractive as their picture and given you did not have a chance to talk to them (if through an agency), you now are engaged in physical contact with someone you might not find so charming. Without the benefit of a nice chat over a glass of wine, a dinner getting to know someone where you also pay them for their time at dinner ($600 in this town will not get you dinner and much BCD - from experience). I imagine you had some nice BCD time, like two folks who had a conection would. Not an hour.

Hobbying and making the most of it, is a bit of effort. And we have to stay in the mood, regardless of the business side of it. That natural connection you had at a bar, well, is different. And a gift. You had the choice because you got a chance to know him.

No disrespect meant. But I have been on both sides and a few others.

Again, you are a beautiful woman. Met a guy in a bar. Played a fantasy role. Curious if ladies would pay him $600 for a limited two hours without meeting him first. What say you ladies?

Peace,

so many stories to share...

You have some very good points here, Bottom line though money was exchanged for an agreed date to me that is what we do in this line of work... I did have the advantage of seeing him first....I know this hobby can be a crap shoot and that things are not always as they appear, like dated photos or no connection. I would take a chance if there were sites available to view men and see their reviews so far we ladies do not have a TER  to do our homework. Yes we can always back channel but most men on the few places I have seen are not what would appeal to my taste....you guys are lucky to have many choices and reviews to follow.I would be interested to know if anyone knows of any services here in the valley that cater to women or even in CA.....I assume they must mostly be UTR...Yes I would  pay without meeting first but would spend time on the phone getting to know him and would want current photos and if we meet and he was not what he represented  himself to be or had no references I would politely decline and maybe give him something for his time and leave....why engage  in an physical contact with anyone you might not find so charming everyone has the right to say no...your a smart guy I cannot see you going through with a date that you knew was not what you bargained for....Victoria

I almost did that in LA I spent a few hours each night before I went, three nights in a row, trying to find one that was straight and attractive. let me tell you that there is not nearly the selection in men as there are is in women. I found one that was straight and great looking from his pictures. When I dialed the phone and a guy answered I hung up. I didn't call again. I was so afraid he would not enjoy himself or would find me unattractive that my inner chicken got the best of me.
 It gave me a new respect for the men who come to see me and say that the most important thing is that I also enjoy myself. I have since reevaluated my thinking about everything. No matter who your with always do it like it may be your last time and above all else..... make out like a teenager and spend as much time as you can leading up to it! If you take the time you can find the sexiness in anyone!
 I will call again next time I am there and I will go through with it

When time was drawing near....did he act like he was ready to go or did he act like he was happy to be there and wanting to stay a bit because you had chemistry?

First Donna, any man on the planet that did not find you attractive, well, needs to get his eyes checked, his libido checked, and his soul checked. And you are not paying for him to enjoy himself, but for him to pleasure you. And not just physically, but to make you feel beautiful - that is their gift.

Guys in the biz do not make any money unless they swing both ways. A fact. Guys that say they see only women didn't start out that way. They would be out of biz before they got in. I have a few guy friends in the biz and yes, they go both ways - but prefer men actually. And you would never be able to tell their preference. I also have a friend, a guy, that has done the whole transformation. One of the most beautiful women now I have ever met. She has a sugar daddy who doesn't even suspect and she is a provider as well and I venture to say, any guy in this town would line up if they didn't know. It's all been adapted. She is a sweetheart and if I didn't know better...

You see, lust, chemistry, being with someone who is special, is incredible. You ladies run into some nice folks. If I thought I could make enough money, well...

And as for my personal experience, I had an offer once. It was an interesting and would have been a lucrative situation. She was beautiful, and the thought of a trip to Europe was intriguing, but I drew the line as she was married. My hangup.

There are guys out there for sure. They work gay sites as that is where their bread is buttered.

Hobby safe...

I was lucky I guess, it was me who ended the night as I was tired and it was getting late....