OMFG!!!!! I'm so sick of hobbyist writing and posting reviews when they haven't seen me before. You think you're doing me a favor you're not. I think it's time for TER to start doing something about this epidemic.
I'm sorry your cheap ass can't pay for a membership!!!
Messages have been sent privately to them no need to blast them publicly, but I've now received messages basically to quit whining about it........ I'm in the top 20 now.
We as humans are individuals so we all think on different levels, just because provider A wants to be in the top 10 doesn't mean provider B wants to be.
More importantly it's deceitful, call me hyper-sensitive to that matter but I don't deal with it......at all.
the top ten or top 100 is interesting a lady can have as little as or less 10 reviews and be there and another can have 200 and not be there so is it really that important? we have some ther that no longer provide and are still listed so I think its a moot point. longevity and consistent scores are what most clients look at and actually reading the reviews speaks volumes good for Bailey for letting us know this happens alot .....another interesting point if you list in your profile that you are NOT bi or but will bring another provider or it just says do not know on anal ect ....as long as you have it offered and even if your review does not show you doing it ever ...........you get a ten but if your honest and say your not bi or into anal your reviewer must summit lower scores or they will not post it he can have a 10 experience with you and is lucky if they except an 8 how do I know ? 5 of my clients that wrote reviews since I came back have told me so.....but if you really read the reviews and they say she is my AFT and how much they enjoyed their visit it speaks for itself so you cannot sweat the small stuff but a fake review is not cool even if it is a perfect 10
It's not about the rating, numbers , top 100 or top five.......it's the fact that men are posting reviews that have never seen that provider.
Like Samantha says when they write something that you don't do and other clients read it and expect the same thing it can put the provider at risk. What does it say about that hobbyist if he's deceitful on this board, what is he going to do in a session.
My safety is far more important than $$$$ and I'm sure other providers will concur, it is a big thing for me and I will sweat it out along with Samantha
Baily , I did not mean fake reviews were smalll stuff beleive I have been there and feel your anger and outrage at these idiots the worst part is when you report it it takes a week or more to have it removed and YOU have to prove it is fake how do I know been there done that......sorry this is happening to both you ladies
Clearly it's a case of a hobbyist trying to get free VIP~which is absurd; is it really too much to pay $20 to investigate and read?!! I reported my latest review, which is fake, yesterday and hoping it will be removed promptly. It is a good review, though it mentions that I performed services that I never have and never will offer. What a jerk!!! I posted a similar thread on the LV board. I feel that fake review writers, whether a hobbyist or provider, should be permanently banned from TER.
As a provider, I want to feel protected by a site that I am involved with. I hope the admin agrees. This is a bunch of malarkey and those who do it should be outed and punished accordingly, in my opinion.
Keep your head UP, Lady...hopefully something will be done to keep the integrity of this strange reviewing system...uuuuugh!
This guy must be rich, 10-11 ladies in Sept and Oct. should be so lucky. Does seem to be a little fishy. But that is just my two cents.
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I would worry it could be a LE poser looking to gain credibility by showing he has had a number of reviews both scary for a provider who may look and say ok he is good he has written reviews on these ladies I know or has just written a number of good reviews. Or the flip he could then set up a sting write a review about her so when a hobbest checks up on the provider she looks legit and lets his guard down.
I also agree with the comment they should be banned for writing fake reviews.. even just suspend them once as a warning then ban would be fine as well.
Or am I just paraniod?
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pariniod? no I think you raise some very valid concerns
Thank you for this post! I never even thought of it this way!
Good call! You are totally right! The fakes should be removed!!!!
Oh Thank god someone who finally understands and gets it, it's a miracle lol
I also agree with the comment they should be banned for writing fake reviews.. even just suspend them once as a warning then ban would be fine as well.
Or am I just paraniod?
Not to be difficult, be the devil's advocate. So we have a provider who is well reviewed and thought of on this board stating that a reviw is inaccurate. But what if it were someone not as well reviewed making the same claim? And the reviewer came back and stood by his review? Then we have a classic he said/she said...and yet people want to boot the reviewer for false reviews...Just food for thought people.
I generally don't go by one review anyway. And if a review stated a provider would do something and then she stated no, I would just write it off to miscommunication. We are still both, (hopefully) going to have a good time. I understand the animosity towards bad reviews, but if you want to get rid of them, stop giving them free VIP time on the board. Then they will go away. Thanks and be safe!!!
.... some girls will leave them alone if they are really, really good like 8/8 or better etc but you'd think there'd be some honor in this hobby. Even if some that are found to have written actually fake and not like you just want it taken down because it's so-so or bad reviews they aren't banned usually.
Lovely.... so girls who get a review or reviews from a client they never seen before will leave it up if it is a high rated good review??? Are you fucking kidding me? When something bad happens to you ladies who are enabling this pathetic behavior, you will have only yourself to blame.
sometimes you recieve a review that has been held back by client and there is nothing there to figure out just who wrote it they are general details that could be anyone please tell us how we can figure out the reviewer every time without pming him and asking? Unless it is obvious like the two I spotted and had removed it is hard to know maybe you have a system you would care to share? I see many clients and if one waits 6weeks to post it I have trouble trying to pinpoint just who he was or is any help would be appriciated by the women here as you seem to really be on top of your game thank you in advance
In my case one guy mentioned i came to the door dressed a way I never do and the other mentioned a sexual practice I never do & that he did something in our supposed session i've never seen a guy do .... I don't even want to recall the back & forth I had to deal with when talking to TER it was a nightmare. It's craxy they make it so hard for us to prove remove the BS but yet it's so easy for it to be posted. I get this site is by and for the hobbyists & we're only "allowed" to participate but damn. I wish I had a magic formula for spotting or removing fakes but I really don't or I'd have been more successful in removing 2 others and 1 spiteful one remaining, And of course don't bother PM'ing them even if you do it nicely because they won't respond because they know what they've done. I will say I really try to make sure I get the guys TER handle out of him (even tho i'm aware it's not uncommon for some to have more than 1 acct).
[, And of course don't bother PM'ing them even if you do it nicely because they won't respond because they know what they've done. I will say I really try to make sure I get the guys TER handle out of him (even tho i'm aware it's not uncommon for some to have more than 1 acct).
[TER made me pm him and ask him questions about the fake review he was rude saiid he was done with this whatever that means he had no answers to any of my questions so it looks like a hobbiest named a bove can get them removed how does he do it is he a moderater?]
Mods can't remove them....only whatever staff is responsible for approving them can.
[, And of course don't bother PM'ing them even if you do it nicely because they won't respond because they know what they've done. I will say I really try to make sure I get the guys TER handle out of him (even tho i'm aware it's not uncommon for some to have more than 1 acct).
[TER made me pm him and ask him questions about the fake review he was rude saiid he was done with this whatever that means he had no answers to any of my questions so it looks like a hobbiest named a bove can get them removed how does he do it is he a moderater?]
PS the burden of proof lies wwith the provider to prove it is fake at least that has been my experience I had to pm this jerk off and ask him what hotel when he saw me and his name and date he refused to tell me any info.....so then TER removed it but I had to be the one jumping through the hoops its not that easy to get them taken down once they are posted .....at least that has been my experience
Oh yes ma'am I've had providers tell me they've had guys the've never met before give them 8/8 or 8/9 etc and had to actually fight with TER to take it down because it was so complimentary. I had one that it wasn't the best for looks (6 which is nice) but an 8 for performance and I had it taken down because I'd never met him before and on principle alone I don't like being used for fre VIP.
Only 2 of my fakes have ever been taken down and those 2 guys are still reviewing so you are correct most who are found to have written fake reviews aren't banned.
Kudos go out to all the ladies who have the integrity and honor to have a fake review removed even when the score is a good one and might help their overall scores. (We all know that not really what this site is all about). You have my total respect. This site may be geared more towards the hobbyist to help help us find ladies who we may be more compatible with, and protects us from ROBS. I feel like TER must be for all of us who Hobby or provide and must protect both sides. Without some sort of integrity what good is this site to any of us. Without accountability the reviews of the ladies and any White-lists are BS.
So my thought is why doesn't TER have some sort of request approval like P-411 and Date-Check have? One where the provider gets to answer whether or not she has seen the gentlemen who has submitted the review. She would not get to see any part of the review until it was posted, but just be able to say "Yes I remember having a session with John Doe" Then and only then does the review get posted and of course she has to live with the score just like she would if review the review were legit in the current method.
I know it has been said before, but yes take away the incentive these fucking pukes have for writing fake reviews. No more free time for post, problem reports and the like. If your too cheap to pay for VIP like so many of us do. I am sure you ladies discuss these jerks on the PO board but there need to be a better way to hold TER and these guys accountable for the fakes reviews.
love this post maybe you could send it to admin? All great ideas wish it was at the top of page maybe you can repost it under a new title thread and see what reponse is ? JUst cut and paste
So my thought is why doesn't TER have some sort of request approval like P-411 and Date-Check have? One where the provider gets to answer whether or not she has seen the gentlemen who has submitted the review. She would not get to see any part of the review until it was posted, but just be able to say "Yes I remember having a session with John Doe" Then and only then does the review get posted and of course she has to live with the score just like she would if review the review were legit in the current method.
I know it has been said before, but yes take away the incentive these fucking pukes have for writing fake reviews. No more free time for post, problem reports and the like. If your too cheap to pay for VIP like so many of us do. I am sure you ladies discuss these jerks on the PO board but there need to be a better way to hold TER and these guys accountable for the fakes reviews.
I don't know there is a lot to talk about and not really sure it will even make a difference.