So Taylor, were you at a watering hole in Scottsdale last night that started with a "S" around happy hour? and who was your company? looked pretty hot.

100% correct Ciara.

Please.....lets give the jealously a break.

WOW!!  Ciara's "issue" with your post had NOTHING to do with jealousy..wasn't even said jealousLy..

Look up the definition of "discretion".

he obviously saw her out with some hott ladies....maybe friends...maybe new recruits...his post may have been a little vague in this respect...but no reason to jump on his post....  Taylor is a well known and high profile woman in this BIZ and is certainly capable of defending herself ....if that is the case....IMHO.

I'm a little sick and tired of all the breeches of privacy and discretion on this board from the gentleman. It seems that some of the people on this board have absolutely no respect for the personal or professional lives of others here and it's getting a little old. I hope the ladies and gents on this board who do practice discretion and do respect the privacy of each other keep in mind these people who clearly couldn't give a rat's ass and think about that when they back channel or try to set up appointments. Privacy and discretion have to go both ways for both the ladies and the gentlemen, we all have personal lives away from these aliases we live and work by and those personal lives are very important to most of us.

Please, those of you with flippant attitudes about each other's privacy, take a step back and realize that most of us do value our personal lives and our families and friends and think about what you are saying and whether or not you'd want it said here about you before you post about others. The person who wrote, "She stays UTR but who the hell cares." is really missing the mark and as a result, I know I will never let him into my life as a client or otherwise because of his flippant attitude about this lady's privacy. I hope others start paying close attention and black list the people on this board of late who are in the same boat as him.

This is a community in which we should be on each other's side in terms of privacy, discretion and respect. When one person doesn't follow the code of ethics here, he or she should promptly be outcast from those of us who do look out for ourselves and each other. Those who are disrespectful and do not follow this code of ethics do not belong here, they are a detriment to everyone. Thank you Ciara, AVSfan, and Ol_Desperado for looking out for us all and bringing attention to the OP's obvious lack of respect for those of us in this industry, both clients and providers of service.

Love,

Megan

If he saw you out and about somewhere and posted it here on this very public board without concern for your private and personal life, would you like it? Taylor may not have been "Taylor" when she was out that night. She may have been with family members and here it is posted on a highly visible, very public board. I'm hopeful that you honestly see why this post is inappropriate and why it should have been sent privately via email or PM instead of posted on this public board. If not, perhaps you'll understand if it ever happens to you.

There is a real break down of respect for each other's privacy happening on this board and frankly, I'm a little worried. If I'm out with my father or another family member, I'd be mortified if one of you came up to me and said, "OH MEGAN! So great running into you!" It's something you just don't do, it's one of the unspoken rules just as I would never walk up to you in public, what if you were with your wife? That's the point, it's respect for privacy and the personal lives of the people here. Doesn't matter if the person is considered "a well-known and high profile woman," we don't eat, breathe, sleep and shit this job, when we are not working, we are not Megan, Taylor, Mya, Ciara, Jordan Kay, etc. We are our real selves, off the clock on our personal time enjoying our personal lives. Frankly, I don't want my personal life posted on this or any other board, I don't care how well known or how profile I am in this BIZ. When I'm out and about with friends or family, I'm not in this BIZ, I'm just who I am.

YOu guys want us to be discreet and respectful of your privacy and we ladies want the same from you. That's what makes this post inappropriate. He should have PM'd, called or emailed Taylor.

Megan

mentioned. It amazes me how some jealous paranoid can take something totally out of context!

I think your BINGO table is calling. LOL

and if anyne can put TLC & Taylor together they probably know what biz she is in....secondly...I don't think people outside this hobby would be at this board reading this post.  It isn't like Newbru4U went over to her table and introduced himself and made a scene.  You need to lighten up Megan,,,,not everyone on this board likes your nose in "everything" and not everyone enjoys readying your lengthy posts.  For someone as intellegent as you consider yourself to be....you sure get down and dirt awfully fast....talking about "eat, breathe, sleep, and shit this job"...doesn't show much class in my book.

I didn't know I could cause such a stir!!  First off, yes, it was me.  I was at a well known place with friends that are not in the biz and don't know what I do.  NewBrew4U didn't approach me and if I would have seen him, I probably wouldn't have approached him either.  He respected my privacy and honestly I don't feel he did anything wrong with this post since everyone reading this is in the business in some way or another.  Now, if he would have came up to me and said, "Hey Taylor, how's it going?  Who are your hot friends?  New hires?  Can I test one out behind the building??  Here's $200!", then I'd have an issue.  He didn't disrespect me or my privacy in any way.  Some are more touchy than others when it comes to this board and privacy issues, which is fine, but I think the people who know me here (or the way I use to be here) know that I wouldn't have a problem with this post.  

And, BTW, there WAS a new recruit there as well.  I'd tell you who it was, but then I'd have to kill you!!  

I think alot of people would like you to post more often and keep us updated about TLC!  I think your post is honest, to the point, and not anything that can be miss-interpreted by anyone!!

Thanks Talor, Your a class act and run a 1st class ship!

By the way I ran into you at another spot later that night. This town is way to small!

I'll send you a cocktail next time, UTR of course! LOL

I have no issue with you or anyone else disliking my posts, North. I'm fine with that to be honest, I don't expect everyone to like my posts just as I don't like some posts that other people make. I just don't actually feel the need to tell them that to try to upset them or hurt their feelings unlike what some of you try to do with me. It's immature and childish. Plus the compliments I receive on my posts far outweigh the one or two of you who think it makes you look like a man to insult other people’s posts.

Secondly, my nose isn't in anything. I post my opinions just like you and everyone else here. In fact, I am the least "in the loop" of probably any provider or client on this site. I just happen to enjoy posting on this board with many of the people I respect here. I don't go to the parties, with the exception of the three I have gone to in the last two years. The first being the party Jack threw to benefit Ms. Manae last year when she lost her child, the second being the Toys for Tots party the agencies gave to benefit Toys for Tots and the third being the AZ Mystique anniversary party which I went to because at the time I'd just gotten on board with them, Every party I have attended has been for the benefit of those less blessed than I except Jack's. I do not participate in the wars between providers nor do I participate in the backstabbing and other bullshit that goes on between some providers and some agency owners and clients. So, I'd appreciate you refraining from saying I stick my nose in everything when I work a full time job during the day and I don't live my lifestyle as an Escort nor am I privy to the bullshit that goes on day to day between some key players here. I'm actually made aware of what's going on by Mya most of the time. She is who keeps me in the loop when there is something pertinent to know.

Lastly, I do consider myself intelligent because I am educated and utilize common sense and because I am intelligent. Many other people consider me intelligent as well. The statement I used to make a point stating that most providers do not "eat, breathe, sleep and shit" our job was to make a point. Many people use that figure of speech pertaining to their job. I don't need to show a person who insults me any class, and I don't need to prove to you or anyone else how "classy" I am. Those who know me know who I am and what I represent and they also know that I speak my mind, I stay true to my convictions, I am integral, discreet, private and enjoy both of my jobs; writing and escorting.

So, whether I show class and intelligence or not in your book matters very little as you dislike me and post to me solely to try to make me feel insulted and insecure. You are not my demographic, Northdak. My demographic of clientele on this board sees me for the very reasons you listed as insults. They aren't threatened by a woman who is intelligent, who calls it like she sees it and who doesn't kiss the asses of the boardroom guys and cave to their wishes. The gentlemen here on this board who see me are intelligent, middle to upper-middle class, don't have time to post every day or at all on these boards, they are discreet and most don't write reviews, they are handsome outside and absolutely stunning inside and they don't feel the need to insult women and try to control ladies' business by naming their own price and they possess far too much class to get involved in the bickering, insulting and disrespect that runs rampant on these boards. As I said, you are not my demographic so I assure you, your stated opinions of me do not hurt me, but they do show your true character. They only make me more intriguing for the men of class and stature, intelligence and respect to call me and spend time with a woman whose opinions do not threaten them. As such, I respect them, provide incredible, top-notch service to them and have made friends out of many of them because they are the type of people I wish to learn from and who would never dream of approaching me in public or writing posts such as yours and the original poster's post on this thread because they respect the value of discretion and privacy for all.

So, I thank you for your opinion, but your agenda fell just short of its mark. I would implore you to look within yourself and distinguish why it is you hate women and feel that posting something like this makes you feel good and makes you feel superior. Only then can you improve yourself and genuinely feel good about yourself. You will be an incredibly attractive and wonderful soul and the type of man the ladies on this board who are sagacious seek to have as friends and clients and with whom they enjoy and form sensual ties and lasting friendships.

I will pray for your happiness and enjoyment at the miracle of simply awakening to another beautiful day, Northdak. This I genuinely hope and wish for you and all of the ladies and gentlemen on this board. After all, we are all important and worth listening to and communicating with. We all have something preciously special to offer one another and this community if only we listen and respect each other.

With graciousness,

Megan

here on this board are too parinoid.  And yes....your last post Megan was another long one...and I will sleep better tonight knowing that you are praying for me...and by the way..I like women...you have never met me...and for you to say that I don't like women is an assumption that you shouldn't have made...expecially when you say you always speak the truth & base all you editorials on fact.

... yes there are lots of Taylor's out their, but the original post in this thread was very specific.  Just because a lady is a well-known provider, doesn't mean that every Tom, Dick, and Harry, or Northdak, has a right to advertise to where she has been, with whom.

If you don't like Megan's posts, there is one simple answer.  DON'T READ THEM!!!

I see no reason for this highly personal attack on the character of a well-respected PHX lady.

BTW, and before you accuse me of shilling, I've never met Megan, but want to.  I now live in Brighton, England, and have no idea when I will next be in Phoenix, so who knows when I might meet Megan.

How many "privacy" breaches in this post?

People in glass houses.

And I never said I base all of my posts on fact. I said I post my opinions and I do not lie about facts. There is a large difference.

Northdak, I don't have to have met you to know that you hate women. What you posted to me and about me, never having met me, shows that you are a misogynist. The very definition of a misogynist is a man who hates women, which you clearly do. You are threatened by intelligence and women who stand up for their convictions and opinions at least here on this board and you feel superior insulting me which is very indicative of misogyny.

North, if I'm wrong, I apologize. I just don't understand why you so clearly and gleefully feel good about name calling and insulting me. It is sad to see and I really meant it when I said that I'd pray for you. It wasn't a smart ass comment, I am just a genuinely happy person and I'm very content with my life and I genuinely want that for everyone. It's a beautiful place to be and I genuinely do hope you find that one day. It'll be so much less important to say the things you said to me here today when you do find that contentedness with your life and resolve yourself to the decisions you make and accept yourself, flaws and all.

In any case, North, if my posts are so insulting and "nosey," do yourself the favor of not reading them. Especially if they stress you out. I'm not going to stop posting and I can't control what you read, but you can as everyone here can. So please, if I upset you or my opinions anger you, don't read them sweetie. I'm sorry I rub you so wrong and again, if I'm wrong in my assessment of your comments in calling you a misogynist, I do apologize. Perhaps we ought to meet one another, maybe we'll both feel differently.

Respectfully,

Megan

I appreciate you understanding my posts and my thoughts on privacy and discretion. It seems like there have been a lot of blatantly writtent posts stating that people just aren't concerned with privacy and respect of people's privacy. A lot of ladies have gotten phone calls from wives in the last few months and we now have provider/agency owner spottings being posted and the misspelling of "Sighting" looked like Sting, so I just wanted to remind people that privacy and discretion does go both ways and is appreciated by all whether they are in this community or not.

So, I thank you for your verbal support here on this topic and I have always respected your written opinions here as well. You always struck me as a very well put-together gentleman before you moved with a positive attitude and outlook who genuinely, as I do, cares about other people. It's too bad you are so far away, but I would really love to meet another like-minded person here. I have a number of friends now who are or were providers and they are some of the most intelligent, educated, driven women and mothers I have ever met. Every one of them is a genuinely good person and those are the type of people, providers, clients and "civilians" (hate that word) I enjoy getting to know and sharing true friendships with. So, definitely do get into touch the next time you are state-side as I'd enjoy making another lasting friend. I am truly blessed by God and I try to touch each and every person's life with love, honor, respect and kindness just as I wish for myself in return.

Please stay safe, warm and dry there in England. We miss your light here in Phoenix. I thank you again for understanding me. Sometimes I don't communicate completely clearly but I do try to do so without insult to clearly get my message across. I notice all of the ladies understand and a majority of the gentlemen do as well. To those, I thank you.

Love always,

Megan

PS Jazz, I now realize you are the gentleman who is so kind and loving to Manae, I had you confused with another lady here and was wondering when she moved. I am sorry for the cross-gender thing, I changed the hers to hims and either way, I meant everything I said to you. I remember exchanging email with you and you were a wonderful, REAL friend to both Manae and I. Thank you for that, and again I apologize for confusing you.

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... just because Taylor was cool with this situation, doesn't mean that gentlemen always welcome to publicize provider sitings.

My problem is your personal attack on a provider.  If you don't like what she posts, you can simply move on!!!

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Megan,,,you should get out of the escort business and start a website that specializing in the psychiatric field...or is it psychic field.  I really doubt if we will ever meet as you put it...we have different demographics....now was that a polite way of saying you travel in higher circles or are better than me?

there is a reason for discretion. It's not paranoia in a provider's case. It's safety and privacy reasons. Perhaps we don't want certain people knowing where we hang out. Just from the post and because I know Scottsdale pretty well, I can already guess where the poster is talking about. Yes, discretion is important to us and it's not paranoia. Talking about seeing a provider out somewhere and giving hints is not cool at all. Kisses!

Hugs,
Ciara

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you have to admit that he didn't have to say even the beginning of the letter to the bar you were at. He could have PM'd you. I can see the discretion there more, don't you agree? And for the ladies speaking up to protect you, I think it's great and thoughtful. However, if you're cool with it, then so be it. I just hope no one ever does that to me.

Hugs,
Ciara

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you don't like my posts...you don't have to read them and respond either.

he'd have realized what I was saying. However, some people assume otherwise. Jeolousy! Yea, right! I've only been around here for a long time and with plenty of business. I hardly think it's jeolousy. I'm probably the least jeolous person on the planet, if he only knew me.

Hugs,
Ciara

I have studied Psychology for years, yes. Almost degreed in it but went a different route in my education for monetary reasons. However, I actually apologized to you twice in the event I was wrong and you still lash out to insult me without, I suspect, reading my whole post to you. So, thank you for proving my "diagnosis" (as you put it) correct.

I don't travel in "higher circles" (whatever that even means) nor have I said or implied I am better than you or anyone. My demographic is simply men on (or more typically off) this board who like that I speak my mind, state my opinions, stand by my convictions, am intelligent, and don't take anyone's shit. All of the things for which you seem to detest me and have said you dislike about me. Therefor, you are not my demographic. You however, have made it blatantly clear that you feel superior to me and to other women here like me who post opinions you disagree with. I've watched it for months. When you do post, you don't have anything nice to say at all.

So, as I stated in the first post to you, I will pray for your happiness and contentedness. It really is something for which to strive. It's beautiful waking up and feeling genuinely blessed to have another glorious day on this earth, in this life. It feels so good to think positively, expect the best to happen and it happens, have wonderful, genuine friends with which to share this wonderful experience we call life and to love your neighbor as yourself. I will pray for this experience for you and for a sense of ongoing calm and serenity. I really mean that. I wish no ill will on you and I didn't mean to upset you. I just don't understand why you enjoy being so insulting to me.

Megan

If someone did it to you. Or God forbid, your wife or girlfriend (if you have either) got ahold of the 9 providers you've reviews here over the phone or via email and the providers, instead of covering your ass for you, went ahead and told your wife that yes, they are providers and yes, you have been to see them. Do you suppose that would be a breach of the implied privacy and discretion escorts offer their clients?

How about if one of us saw you out and came to the board and posted what you did. Would you like that? I mean because you wouldn't be out at the bar or restaurant as NewBrew4U and one of us may have just described your wife or daughter or niece as "hot" or "new talent." Would that be a bit insulting or maybe a little bit uncomfortable for you having a board of over 500 people reading that?

If not, then you are very different from many of us. Especially clients and providers who truly, truly need and value the discreet and private handling of their personal information for reasons from their career to their families.

In any case, I think this topic has now been covered from all angles and I'm tired of fighting for some people's understand and I suspect Ciara is also as well as the others. So, you guys know how I feel and I hope from now on, we can all start to value each other more as human beings with real emotions and feelings and less as simply aliases on a message board.

Love,

Megan

PS My apologies for being so stubborn on this topic, to all of you. I didn't mean for it to be blown up as much as it has. I incorrectly assumed (ASS out of U and ME) that everyone's feelings were about the same as mine on privacy, discretion and respect of each other, especially when out in public, etc. I do apologize for my behavior regarding this topic. I will try not to comment on similar topics in the future as everyone knows now how I feel.

I certainly didn't perceive it as such....if you said you were sorry...I must have missed it between all the implications that I was a hater of women...which I am not. How can you say that you apoligized to me twice..when you tack on ...in the event you are wrong...that isn't an apology in my book.

I guess you have not read Taylors post. And this ends my participation with you about a mater that was none of your bees wax to begin with.

Have a nice day!

Good gracious. I made my point. Did my point say ANYTHING about Taylor? Did you read what I wrote, New? No, I doubt you did. You just want to ball up a wad of shit and throw it at the nearest target.

Here's the thing about privacy....you'd be right, it wouldn't be any of my "beeswax" to begin with, or anyone else's had you not posted it on a PUBLIC board making what you saw EVERYONE'S business. Which was my point throug this whole thing. So, there you go....there's a perfect example of you wanting privacy, not wanting me to comment and complaining it's none of my business when you made the private matter public and put it up for debate. Now you want it private and want the debate to end.

I read Taylor's post. But this goes deeper than THIS incident. That was mine, Ciara's, and a few others' including men's point on the matter. So, perhaps you ought to take another look. The post I JUST made to you above your smart little response here had nothing to do with Taylor's post and you'd know that if you bothered to read it. So, go read it and rethink your position on privacy because it's clear with this jazzy little response that privacy is JUST what you wanted. Which was my point and Ciara's and a few others' all along.

Brilliant, NewBrew. Again I thank you for making my point with your own post better than apparently I was.

Duh!

Megan

Then I suppose you could've just said, "apology not accepted" or you might even have not bothered with another smart ass, completely insulting response. I apologized, shared why I held the opinion which you so smartly referred to as a psychological diagnosis and apologized if I was wrong. Explained how I came to the conclusion I did and gave examples and apologized once again if I was wrong. I'm sorry you continue to feel the need to feed your own ego by continuing to be a smart ass. I'm also sorry that you're offended. I wish I could say you offended me as well in your misogynistic post to me, but you didn't. You just proved my assessment of you. Again, I still pray for your self-actualization and awareness and wish for you happiness, contentedness, peace and serenity.

Again, with respect,

Megan

I just stopped in from the Chicago board to visit with my new friends, Megan and Ciara, and I came across this blood bath. I'm gonna get the fuck out of here before I get hurt.

But before I leave, I'd just like say hello to all my friends over at Sunland Village East in Mesa, where I used to visit my parents. I miss those days. I loved to go to Organ Stop Pizza. But I didn't see any providers there that I knew. No honest !! I Really Mean it !! None, nada, as a matter of fact forget it, I was never there.

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postings. We're merely responding to something we feel is wrong, but read further who is the person being rude.  Glad to hear you're in Mesa having fun. I've never tried that pizza parlor but would like to, but I promise if I see you there, I won't say anything. Wink!  Gees, you can't even make a suggestion on this Board anymore without getting flamed.

Hugs,
ciara

I should have said Massacre instead. LOL

Hey I'll say one thing though, the PHX board ain't boring.

Ciara, I'm not in Mesa, I'm just visiting from the Chicago board. If I were down there I would be visiting both you and Megan, a couple of very sweet chicks.

Remember, not only friends read this. This board is required reading for LE, too.  Plus, everything on here ends up on Google.  If someone, a jealous wife, a private eye, or LE is digging for information, you don't know what info they have to start with and how this may complete things for them.

Not only that, providers have been known to skip town and change their alias when clients around are getting careless with their private information.  Without knowing Taylor's response, I'm sure you didn't want that to happen.  

Really, Ciara is right.  Remember this life isn't necessarily legal, and it's still of ill-repute.  The costs of being careless can be high.

boring local issues while only global issues are discussed on the national board!  lol

So what your saying in so many words is that in your OPINION this board, made for, and by hobbiests is now a mouth piece for the provider side of the equation.  The hobbiest who actually pays the bills be damned?
This the mnost spurious crap i honestly think i have seen this month. Considering the sheer amount of boards on the wide range of interests i have that is something.

Anyone is free to disagree with, dislike, or even despise anyone they choose. If they choose to be vocal about it, thats fine too as long as they stay within the constraints of the moderation system.

I cannot stand would be censors for one. Read the constitution of these more or less free United States, it would do you some good IMO. Your more than welcome to have a problem with Northdak that i could not really care any less about. My issue is with your attempt to stifle his opinion.
Next thing you know, you cheerleaders (your in with them now IMO) will want us to send a review to the ladies for editorial comment before we post them.

-jazz32 with a great bray let forth that what is below-
My problem is your personal attack on a provider.  If you don't like what she posts, you can simply move on!!!

Sorry it doesnt work like that in open societys.....i can disagree with them, they can disagree with me that is how debate in an open society works.