Since TER doesn't let me submit a no show I thought I would try it here. I first contacted Krista thru P411 and I told her if she was available sometime Friday thru Sunday I'd get a plane ticket, room, and car and come see her. She was on my radar for a couple years but once I seen her video on youporn (look up "goth girl casting couch") I really had to try her.  
 Anyway she said Sat. at noon. I made the arrangements and waited the three weeks with anticipation. We texted a few times and everything looked promising. The day before she texts asking if we were still on for Sat. at 5pm, I replied that it was for noon, she said no she had school work till 2pm. I agreed to the change and had to rearrange some other engagements. Day of at 6am she texts asking if we could move it to 6pm, I say ok. At 5:20 she texts saying she's running late, eta of about 6:55. About 6:55 she texts saying she's just pulling in, is there a side door I could meet her at. I knew of one that went to the pool but you couldn't get in from there so I wasn't sure. I texted back that I could meet her out front. That was the last I heard from her, she wouldn't answer the phone or texts. When I got home I messaged her on P411 and she read it but wouldn't respond.  
 If it wasn't for the amazing time I had with Nicki Heart the whole weekend would have been a bust

I have had the pleasure of meeting with Krista several times; although, I never was able to post a review in a timely fashion.  But I can tell you from experience, she is an excellent communicator and not a flake.  I suspect if she was concerned for her safety or anonymity, given the police activity in past months, she may have bailed.

Communication is key & it takes less, than a minute to politely cancel.

What I hate even more is a person who jumps to conclusions, trolls every city boards, and wastes every ones time. Krista Starr wouldn't flake on anyone without a great reason. Why would she push the time back, say she is there and then not go in. Lot of LE activity lately and my best guess is that she left for safety reasons. I have seen many times (on this board), ladies encouraging other ladies to trust their instincts and if you smell a pig - leave! She probably did not contact the dude because she wasn't sure if he is connected to LE or not. Frankly I am surprised that you would make a statement about another lady like Krista Starr when you should be supporting her. I guess whatever you can do to decrease the level of Competition. Lean Holidays, I gues

Krista called me super scared because there was mention of parking by a white van or suv, I really don't remember exactly. There were some other things that I won't get into that threw up red flags. She arrived, got scared and took off. She did not flake she was actually in the parking lot.

Speaking of jumping to conclusions, how is "Communication is key & it takes less, than a minute to politely cancel." considered jumping to a conclusion?    

Unfortunately it happens to lot of us, but I can assure you that Krista Starr is not the type of person who NCNS. She has a stellar reputation for a reason. She wouldn't string you along for hours only to no show. Recently several well known ladies have been busted thru hotel stings. I know it does not make up for the money and time you have spent and you are definitely justified to vent your frustrations on this board. Hopefully in the near future you and Krista can work things out that can mutually benefit you both. In the mean time have fun and play safe

I think the dude was commenting on her subject line of "I hate no shows, flakes & time wasters". I also think that a lady in the same business should have each others back instead to making negative comments. Recent sting and busts of several well known ladies have lot of us spooked. I understand that the guy is frustrated after all that he had invested but another lady jumping in without understanding what happened seems little out of line.  Krista Starr is no flake nor a time waster.

I will bet you, not one of you guys would want to pay the fee. All you have to go with is your instinct. If a provider arrives and things look weird, leave. This provider has a stellar reputation and she earns not one penny for her time to drive and leave. It is not like she accepted a better offer. Females are at a scary disadvantage physically. Who is going to help her if she is assaulted or held against her will. If you don't think it happens, work in my profession and you may understand this young lady's apprehension.  Maybe your curb appeal was weird.  Read this provider reviews, could all these guys be wrong?

Thanks for your explanation, I also happen to agree with everything you just said.  

Sorry that you took it, so personal.  FYI- I turn down more calls, than I could ever take, or wish to take due to lack of chemistry.  I never said anything bad about Krista Starr.  I never assume.

The only time I have ever taken a deposit & not showed because of pimps in the parking lot at a sleezy hotel.  Yes, I called the guy & told him why I would not come up to his hotel room at the time, so yes communication is key.  I have been there & done that how you handle the situation say a lot about your character.  I also, made it up to the guy by meeting on my own playing field.  I am a huge supporter of providers, so when people state otherwise it just makes me laugh.

all it takes is a phone call or text message.  sounds like the guy was strung along and then got flaked on.

Sure you turn down bunch of clients because you are flooded with calls. P L E A S E, is this the reason why you go around trolling every board telling any guy who is available that you would love to see them - San Deigo, LA, AZ, etc (This is a fact. Just check the board history). You are one of the most desperate providers on TER.  
50% deposit my A**

Your hilarious.  I post seeking compatibility, and yes I require a 50% deposit to book & have for the past 3 years now.  Your lame for being a white knight.

If indeed it was a general statement about cancelations, I think you made a mistake in posting on a thread where we are talking about someone specific - Krista Starr. I do understand that you would have called to cancel and that is a classy way to handle it  - but when we are faced with potentially scary situation, we sometimes behave differently. I am not making excuses for Krista, I wasn't there so I don't know the situation. I just don't believe your thread was necessary in this case.

I'm no longer tempted to call you. I ran into a similar personality a few years ago, paid her in full and left her at the bar.   So glad I was forewarned this time without having to listen to the self-trip in person. I get enough of it at work (surgery resident). Yes, you're the greatest. Thanks for pointing it out, repeatedly. Ad board is that-a-way, take care now.  

because chemistry is everything!

I am a little confused by this debate.    Is this about a provider not showing, or is it about a provider not sending a text saying she is not showing.

By the way, I was looking at the SF board as I'm heading there next week, and I noticed that you are getting ready to fall off the top 20 posters there. May want to add some more posts soliciting business. You seem to be pretty safe on the other 4-5 CA boards you are top 20 on.  No worries dear, it's a good way to advertise since you need to increase volume, and it's cute that you love seeing your posts.  Look at me, am I the greatest or what?  I heart u cuz u r teh funneh.

Ki.wan ...... Good post.

It is not ok to cancel or string someone along. NOR is it ok to bash someone who has had it happen to them. This is an open board, when White Knights defend someone for doing something wrong, no matter a no show, cancel a hr before, taking money and not performing etc.. It should be reported weather here or a review. That's what it is for. I am not defending nor throwing another under the bus, BUT Why jump to someone's defense If you were not there ? How do you know what happened ? Can you honestly say you know she is not a flake, just because you had a great night with her ?  

File a report. Yank her AAA ratings and pull her off of Zagat's.