I am a newbie and need some assistance.  I see that there are many lovely ladies out there I would love to see.  However, most require two or more provider references.  Kinda of odd to send someone to someone else to make sure they are on the up and up but I understand some ladies need to be sure.  Given all that, I have a question for the experienced hobbiest.  Are there any ladies you would recommend that don't require provider references so I can build my provider reference list while enjoying the hobby?