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commonsapi 637 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Newbie question: Contacting a provider...

When contacting a provider, is there a way to find out provider's preferred method?
If they have a website, I guess it would be whatever is listed there, but many don't seem to have website.
Is it through phone or email listed in TER or should one send a PM?
In P411 they have a 'Request Form' to contact a provider for appointment. Should I use that one?

Which method is more likely to get response from the provider?

rifle7210 50 Reviews 446 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Stick with...

The method they request on their ad. All reviewed ladies are connected to an ad here, its required for the review. (Any provider too inactive for an ad probably isnt going to be available).

If more than one or preference not mentioned, call or text first then maybe move on to email. Pm probably wont work. Request form might work, it goes to email i think.

Don't use the phone number in TER unless also in the ad, some give out a more private-ish number and don't want it on TER. . The ad rules, in other words. Good luck

Ps...i'd leave TER out of the discussion until you get a better feel and more experience. It can be an edgy thing, there are those who do not lie it. Just say you saw the ad and let things roll.

Posted By: commonsapi

When contacting a provider, is there a way to find out provider's preferred method?
If they have a website, I guess it would be whatever is listed there, but many don't seem to have website.
Is it through phone or email listed in TER or should one send a PM?
In P411 they have a 'Request Form' to contact a provider for appointment. Should I use that one?

Which method is more likely to get response from the provider?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 360 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Pm here 1st, or read their TER profile. Mine says email only.

Why not read & refer to their website 1st if they have one? I dislike being contacted via p411 "request form" because,then the guys feel they do not have to read the website & why have a website if no one wants to read the information provided?

P411 does not, do my screening for me, nor does TER. I have my own methods to my madness & require a deposit to book, so I prefer new clients to read my entire site, then contact me via email directly with all the juicy details I require to book. If not it is a waste of everyone's time.

Providers who do not have websites call them. They are usually available now too!

Dave76015 38 Reviews 328 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: Pm here 1st, or read their TER profile. Mine says email only.

Most ladies will make it pretty clear how they prefer contact. In order to increase the chances of a positive response, I'd recommend making the investment into DateCheck or P411, which will perform some of the necessary screenings and add a level of confidence to your request. My favorite requires full and complete verification with established references, otherwise don't be surprised if you get asked to send copy of your drivers license, full name, address, phones, and verifiable employment information for verification just like you're trying to get a car loan with really bad credit.

If you were in their shoes, would you feel comfortable inviting Charles Manson or Sheriff Joke over to your place with no idea of who they are? Or walking into the home of some total freak show cannibal?

Getting started out is never easy, but check out the discussion boards, see who is active in the community and well reviewed. Once you get screened, verified and reviewed, it gets a whole lot easier. Without screening and verification, you might as well take your chances on BP with a "19 or 20 yr old".

Right, MP?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 349 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Right if you believe it is easier process, but I do not rely on them to screen my clients.

P411, date-check & TER are not 100%. Just because a fella is whitelisted here does not mean he is good to go, or solid in my book. I require more, than most because my safety is a high priority. Money is not everything to me.

Nothing is, and I do not rely on references from providers. I feel if the provider is someone I have never met why trust their reference? I have been in this industry for over a decade & in my home state I have put together several M&G's for providers only to network with this adult community. I meet ladies out for drinks, etc. to help those who may need free advice, or my expertise. I never had anyone to help me & this business can burn out anyone who is unaware of the dirty game.

I do my own homework & recommend everyone else do theirs too!

Their are reputable providers who I respect, but the number is declining due to unprofessionalism

commonsapi 308 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: Pm here 1st, or read their TER profile. Mine says email only.

I got a P411 verification - was pretty straight forward - and I have to say, I am really liking the way they make it easier to find providers who are ok with taking newbies. I understand it is going to take a bit of time to build references. Thanks.

Posted By: Dave76015

Most ladies will make it pretty clear how they prefer contact. In order to increase the chances of a positive response, I'd recommend making the investment into DateCheck or P411, which will perform some of the necessary screenings and add a level of confidence to your request. My favorite requires full and complete verification with established references, otherwise don't be surprised if you get asked to send copy of your drivers license, full name, address, phones, and verifiable employment information for verification just like you're trying to get a car loan with really bad credit.

If you were in their shoes, would you feel comfortable inviting Charles Manson or Sheriff Joke over to your place with no idea of who they are? Or walking into the home of some total freak show cannibal?

Getting started out is never easy, but check out the discussion boards, see who is active in the community and well reviewed. Once you get screened, verified and reviewed, it gets a whole lot easier. Without screening and verification, you might as well take your chances on BP with a "19 or 20 yr old".

Right, MP?

commonsapi 352 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: Stick with...

I am using P411 to find providers who are newbie friendly and checking out their profile/reviews here in TER. Will certainly pay attention to the ads from now. Thanks.

Posted By: rifle7210

The method they request on their ad. All reviewed ladies are connected to an ad here, its required for the review. (Any provider too inactive for an ad probably isnt going to be available).

If more than one or preference not mentioned, call or text first then maybe move on to email. Pm probably wont work. Request form might work, it goes to email i think.

Don't use the phone number in TER unless also in the ad, some give out a more private-ish number and don't want it on TER. . The ad rules, in other words. Good luck

Ps...i'd leave TER out of the discussion until you get a better feel and more experience. It can be an edgy thing, there are those who do not lie it. Just say you saw the ad and let things roll.

Ms.Vicki See my TER Reviews 306 reads

posted 11 years ago

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provider reference

I totally agree with you MP about provider references. They are not reliable and why trust a reference from someone you haven't met. I've done my screening through a different method for some time. I got blasted for my method when I first entered the industry because some guys didn't like it. I think a girl has to do whatever makes her feel secure and everyone is different. I too, have been in this industry about a decade and I've never been arrested or met with a dangerous guy. Knock on wood.

balljointnut 23 Reviews 350 reads

posted 11 years ago

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crap...

is what I will get for this post Anybody that would send their personal info for a verification is a fool. How do you know your not sending it to LE and can you say blackmail for you married guys.

I have been playing for many years and never needed a reference or whitelist. Never used datecheck or p411. Just because a lady does "verification" or "screening" does not mean they are a superior encounter. In many cases screening = "you pay more".

Many that say they screen don't. It's a cheap way to weed out those that know they can't pass.

In the end all...what is your preferred method of contact? Do your research, find ladies that are good with what you are comfortable with, and enjoy !!!

I am not bashing those who choose to screen or choose to be screened. I am just giving my point of view