don't worry so much. See a well reviewed provider who will see  newbs. Providers p411 profile will mention if she's newbie friendly.

I prefer to do incall, you'll come to realize some providers prefer to control their environment and even though providers will do outcall to a first time client many prefer to entertain at their incall.

If you decide to do outcall,  I would recommend you get a hotel room.  Inviting a provider  you've never met to your  home, for a first visit, has issues, however it can be accomplished safely.

As far as refreshments, you can offer them, just make sure nothing is opened before the provider gets there. Providers prefer you open any bottle or container in front of them.  

Length of session is totally up to you. Every hobbyists is different. I myself, prefer to do an hour on first visits.  

I would mention that you're a newb to the provider.

Have you read the self help center? If not, it's upper right corner on the main phx. board, near the life preserver. Also I've included the link to the newb board, if you haven't found it already.

Finally, when asking benign questions like you have, use your real TER handle.  

The advice to see a well reviewed provider is exactly correct.

If you see someone less ethical, revealing you're new is always an error.  She will instantly begin with "upselling," or the idea that the donation to which you agreed was really only enough to get her to see you at all, but any other services for which you might be hoping will be much much more.  More often than not you wind up spending a lot of money and getting almost nothing for it.

If you tell a good provider this, however, she will help you to become more comfortable and will ensure that things proceed at a pace that works for both of you.

Good luck.

HOW EXCITING!!!

for you luv!

This hobby can be great fun! Good for you for doing your research and joining p411.  A most excellent site and much preferred for screening, in my humble opinion.

I am going to assume *gasp* that you have done your research and have found the ladies you would most like to see.  IF you've read their reviews, you will have a handle on their personality..  I assume that you are wanting outcall, so have both on hand..  Water or wine.  

Length of time?  That is entirely up to you.  If you are nervous, perhaps starting out with an hour appointment, after all if this is your first time you may feel better if the time is shorter, saves for anxiety.  HOWEVER, when you contact the lady, ask her if a second hour would be an option, I mean...  you may just really really enjoy yourself..

No macho front, we will see right through it and honestly, it's not that attractive.  Again, my humble opinion.

Most of all, HAVE FUN!  Bring your own umbrella's (just in case) and lube.  

xoxo
Jazz

ps.  I'm in Phoenix for only 10 more days..  if you're interested in a woman who knows how to handle a newbie, put you at ease and let you leave with a smile!!  

Never rush!

1 hr will come & go I prefer 2 hrs, or more!