I agree that if you stand people up and are unprofessional, you shouldn't expect to be paid well or come off conceited. I wasn't referring to that girl.  I was referring to girls that seem to be very classy and charge big $$ like Amy Taylor and Morgan Ashley.

Also wanted to add:

People tend to forget that there is or should be a distinct difference from a courtesan (my preferred term) or escort to a prostitute.  The end result is usually the same....but, what a difference a word can make in an encounter if it is used correctly.          

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Just cause someone has bookings problems or strong reasons to make to appointment doesn't mean they don't deserve to be paid well. It doesn't matter, it matters that they are getting what they are asking for cause they provide great service and a unique experience and also they have great reviews.

Isabella,

I can only speak for myself here...

I don't think I've ever argued the donation, just the concept that a large donation automatically equals quality. Personally I'd love to see Morgan Ashley...but I've met 2 gals (who will remain nameless here) who I have tremendous affection for + 2 others (you & Kara) who I really really enjoyed seeing (and intend to see alot more of)...now with a budget of $500-$1500 a month...I'm not going to "risk" a high $ encounter where even best case I cant build an ongoing relationship. If the market will bear the pricing more power to the gal. But if I can get great quality at a "better" price and build better long term chemistry to boot...thats my choice.

I do have issues with some who feel they can posture as "top end" when they dont really deliver that high a level of service.

"I do have issues with some who feel they can posture as "top end" when they dont really deliver that high a level of service"

If you don't see them how do you know about their level of service? Just curious...

I am so glad to see that you are speaking on your behalf for once.  Maybe if you would have spoken up when the allegations arouse in the right way instead of saying, 'so what, I'm hot', you could have defused the situation.  So, you have booking problems...no problem. Consider getting an assistant. I know I have sometimes messed up when booking, not to the point of not showing up...but, I know that Mya and Jordan offered to help you awhile ago....why not take someone up on it? No one wants to feel like an outsider and that they can't post. But, it is also unattractive to boast about yourself without making things right. Have you tried to make the situations right?  Go about things the right way and you may be able to turn things around here...if you are truly concerned.

Ciao,
xoxoxox
Isabella

your reputation preceeds you...

Carla,

My 1st reply do you may have been a bit to off the cuff...

Obviously I can't know 100% for sure...but I have alot of experience to draw on. Most of life is about making decisions...you make the best ones you can that fit your needs and wants. I'll use you specifically, I'm sure your great BCD...I've spent time with about 100 brazilian ladies over the years...bout 75/25 pro/nonpro and I'm sure your as talented as the rest. But before I'd pay $500/hr to see you...I'd pay $3000 going to Brazil for a week...simply a choice that works better for me. Realistically there isnt a thing you can do for or to me that hasnt been done before. However, some ladies give a special bit of something of their very own that no one else can quite duplicate. You can sense it in the reviews sometimes...and it isnt always their for everyone (YMMV is a truism). When you find it it's an awful special feeling...everyone will define "ATF" a bit differently but we know it when we find it.

So in closing I don't want or need to start another "fire fight" here...I wish you nothing but the best. I simply have never had the feeling that you have anything to offer me beyond "alphabet soup".

Thank you Isabella,
What I hate is how this always surfaces and people don't have a clue as to what happened.
So let me set things straight so people can get on with their lives and stop spreading malicious rumers all the time.
1st off I had problems with my computer in LA, I ended up getting a virous in my computer which messed up my internet connection, this cost me about $400 to get repaired at best buy but I was down for a few days. I had to rely on a friend back in AZ to pull up my spread sheet with all my appointments and relay them to me by phone. The person that did this relayed the wrong info and I ended up missing an appointment with straightman. This was unintentional. Before I could even talk to him or offer any kind of exchange he had posted on the internet what he did and also gave away my incall location publically on the internet causing me to lose over $1,000 in expenses plus all the feedback I got from the internet. I tried to make things up to him and he would not recieve my calls. He emailed me a couple of times saying that he thought I was so beautiful one minute then that he wanted to destroy my business the next. This went on for over a week afterwards. One moment he would say I'm sorry the next he was out stalking me. On top of all this I went through all the backlash that was being posted on the boards. All because of a mistake I did not make. Since then I always have a back up for my schedule and have changed how I do business with how I schedule. I have had to cancel appointments, due to an emergency and again have been chastised for that. This is the exception not the norm. I cancelled 3 appointments here in AZ because a hobbiest had hurt me and ended up at the gynochologist. I was amazed at how one guy felt he had the right to be with me and actually threatened me with I'm a Ter member you better do me or else attitude. Again I got backlash for this. Then there were the false accusations from the Me Too croud with other people  saying I missed appointments with them too these were actually proven false and actually ended up with TER Staff stepping in and threatining to ban these people. So that's it in a nutshell, as far as my business its great and people with any kind of intellegance have seen through all this along with all the evidence. Yes I took a beating and didn't deserve it, and yes I operate a lot differently then before, we all learn from mistakes. Like I said before I love what I do and I love the fun and companionship I recieve. There's not one honnest girl here that hasn't made a mistake in this field and learned from it. So don't be quick to chastise them or be part of the Me Too rumor croud.
I hope this answers your Questions and hopefully puts this to rest.
As for Mya and Jordan, I have nothing against them so why start with me. I never did anything to you girls, or anyone else for that matter.

XOXO
Carla

No you didn't....

But it's amazing how anytime there's a "best of" thread you need to throw your name in the hat since no one else will...

Think about it...

Facts are facts and Carla you have the rep of standing people up.  Not withstanding your explanation that rep will follow you unfortunately.  And AZ Hacker I agree with your analogy of how to spend one's budget.  I also agree with the girls, not mentioned as being in that group that deliver that fantasy for a great price.