Hoping to get a little feedback from both providers and hobbyist on a situation that I experienced yesterday.  So I am in PHX on business and looking to play.  I find a lady with great reviews and call to schedule something.  She explains that I need to be verified.  I have no problem with that, many ladies require verification.

So I propose that I be verified with RoomService2000, she tells me that doesn't work on her end, she need provider references.  OK, a little more difficult for me as I travel and typically see different ladies all over the country and rarely repeat as I like variety.  So I give her my go to girl when I am home, a very well reviewed provider with excellent reviews.  And another lady I saw last time I was in PHX with only 2 reviews.  She informs me that my ATF has called her back and the other won't do because she isn't well reviewed.  I give another name and hope for the best.

Get a call that says nobody has returned her calls but she verified me another way and we are good to go.  I am in meetings all day and finally get something scheduled around 6:00 -6:30 PM.  I explain that I need to check into my room freshen up and will be on the way.  She says she needs an hour notice and things will be good to go.  My assumption is that, that call was the notice.  I call and ask if I can come over now and she says how does 8:00 work.  It works but I am a little frustrated as I thought my earlier call was the notice.  Any way after a day of anticipation looks like I am on the way to experiencing what others have call the best bbbj ever.  I am looking forward to the event.  Literally walking around all day with half a chubby like a teenager.

So I proceed to the "shopping center" just down the street as directed.  Give her a call and now I hear I need to leave my car there and get in her car so we can ride together. WTF?  We were discussing the appointment for the entire day, with all the issues in getting me verfied. Never was this mentioned.  Seems a little old and I get spooked and say that doesn't work for me.  I think she was as upset as I was because after all the bullshit the appointment was  a scratch.

My question is who was out of line me for not wanting to jump in her car and leave mine at the shopping center or her for not explaining that process ahead of time so I could have made decisions based upon the knowledge that I was going to ride with her to the appointment.

Please let me know.

I'm a RS2000 member and it appears its not used as much here in the West.  However, if she advertises here, she could clearly see you have seen providers. If they don't have premium membership, they should have one. Unless its someone I have seen several times and have rapport, I'm not going to leave my transportation and go anywhere with someone. Simply not worth the risk.

No way I'd leave my vehicle in a parking lot away from the meeting place and ride away with someone new! Key word is someone new....if it was someone I'd spent time with before, and all was good, and she suggested she'd pick me up and drive to a restaurant, bar etc then that's probably fine. I've done this before when traveling, figure she knows the city better etc. Could be there is a reasonable explanation for that demand but she should have been clear up front. Sounds like she is working out of a private residence and maybe parking is very limited. Or she is concerned about the amount of traffic showing up and felt it better that you were seen arriving with her. Or any number of other reasons. But with someone new and who didn't explain it upfront that would/should be a warning sign.
   But to make you jump thru all the hoops she did without explaining the parking issues sounds very fishy to me and I would have done just what you did. Kudos to you for not allowing the little head to override the warning signs your top head was sending.
                                                                       Regards......RR

I have to agree. I would have left to.  It might have been different if you had a history with her.  I'd love to get a lady's view on this

 

You were absolutely correct in pulling out of the session. While she may have had a legitimate reason for her actions, on it's face the situation was extremely sketchy and I would have bailed as well

You always go with your gut instincts.

If it does not feel right then move on especially in this state!

...there is one well reviewed provider I can think of that in her review it explains the "meet in a lot and then we go to my place" system. If it's in the reviews then it's expected. Apparently not so in this case, so clearly not worth the added risk. I know providers are at risk-- well so are clients!  No better buzz kill than to change or make up unexpected rules.

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I meant to say Hell...I would have just told her she might as well come pick me up at my location. Either way you made the right call. Did her name start with an S and end with a Y

...is that you've written 49 reviews, yet have zero Whitelists here.  I consider that unusual, and I know it doesn't answer your question, but I think if I was her, I might've been a bit wary.  If her reviews were so good, I would've trusted her if I was you, frankly speaking.

Ah, yea, I have had many dates where I did not have to ride with said person to reach an incall. In fact, I would frown on that as I drive a work truck and would not want a lady in there with me. Its a work vehicle full of tools and such. My front seat can get very messy after weeks of doing back to back jobs, so I would prefer to park someplace and go in alone. I think this falls into the category of compatibility...finding whats right for you and for her. Obviously very hard to do while travelling, but I always book a week out with someone new and now ask about parking and so on before the date via E mail. My longbed truck wont fit in a garage, so I find out right away if parking my truck is going to be an issue or not. Communication is always key and I usually dont end up seeing ladies who are not good communicators.

Is that a big penis joke?  

"My long bed pickup won't fit in her garage"

So a few questions arise from reading this.
Did you provide your TER handle to her? If so, perhaps your low scores and lack of repeating ran her off.
Next, first you say ATF called her back then you say she didn't. Which is it?
Then if have so many reviews why so difficult for you to provide info she requested? (it's all right here).
You said you made an "assumption" that the call was her hours notice. How was she supposed to know how long it would take for you to check in and freshen up? Did you give her a time frame?
And as it has been stated RS2000 is not used out here in the West so you can't blame her for accepting that.

Overall, there are always 2 sides to every story. And within you own story there are some discrepancies.

So I would say obviously you both did not get a good gut feeling and it is probably best that you two didn't get together.

It seems like there must have been miscommunication on both ends. I'm sorry it didn't work out, though following your guy is always the right thing to do!