Phoenix
Since I am a frequent traveler around the United States I have had hobbyist and providers contact me asking do I know this person or remember seeing her on one of the ad sites from that particular city. for those who have asked me questions, thank you for your trust or value my opinion. I think in the end we all want the same thing ie a good, safe, fun environment.
Now the less thinking side of me, sometimes I wonder if we should coordinate "good provider vs rip off" fight night. I have had many discussions of how some of our best in the city do get mad at the "rip off" or "cash and dash" girls. I know its not proper to suggest it but I definitely would be first in line to see it.
I dont know if I have broken any of the discussion rules but I do hope the TER monitor lets this post.
Your satisfaction and success is certainly improved by good research. But, I imagine avoiding scenarios like the one OP mentioned has just as much to do with your hobbying style i.e. budget; which is obviously bigger than the 'average hobbyist.'
While there are cash-and-dash, robs, and complete ripoffs at various price points, it's easy for anyone to avoid the ones at the higher dollar per hour costs. You won't often see a woman who does doubles and triples, or charges $$$ and has a website and has any reviews do that stuff. So, If she's on Eros, Sip-Sap, City-Vibe or even BP and you cannot find her name anywhere on TER anywhere else when you google it, you can steer clear. (I'm talking about if you are not a TER/local community type of guy.)
Low price cheats are a bit tougher.
I've seen more that a couple of women running ads real cheap on BP who end up giving such low quality and/or inconsistant sessions that guys feel "ripped off" and write a bad review on TER. But if you look at Kayla's page, it is not listed as a "Rip Off" meaning she doesn't steal your money. She just sucks! Or rather... sucks badly. 
Keep this in mind:
Some guys out there who actually cannot afford (gasp!)to book a $250 per hour lady. Since most BP activity is $200 and hour or under this is the best source for that price point. I know, because I read BP every day and use it. (double-gasp!)
Most of the women on BP have no reviews anywhere. Many change their phone numbers and name frequently, and aren't trying to establish a high-visibility TER-style reputation. Yet many are decent legit providers.
Lots of men use BP. They don't know about or don't want to use TER 'cuz it doesn't relate to their style and pricepoint of hobbying. Which is find a cheap provider and try her out. Maybe go back a few times. Risky? Yes. But at $$60 to $120 for needed statisfaction, what are your options?
It'a all about the cost, really.
Furthermore, when you use BP to look for a provider, you will find MOST women on their cannot be checked out or traced at all. I have seen women post and put "TER REVIEWED" in their ad. But they aren't on TER; some have one review and it's bad! Yet just saying you've been reviewed may be enough to help reassure some men whose hobby style is not connected to TER, and to discussion boards, and to the local hobby community, etc, etc.
Again, from these guys perspective, most of the women who charge $60, $80, or $100 for satisfaction are not in the "community" (whatever that means) Or on TER, why waste your time and the $20 month?
Truth is, there are a lot of men who need to find a provider at that price point. (gasp! again!) And decent providers at that price point too. It's just easier for cheats to mingle in on places like BP.
HH
for Kayla anyhow.
HH