Phoenix
My fellow whoremongers and hookers(this should be interesting)
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong. Here are my questions.... As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face. With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john? OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in. As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her. I eagerly await the input
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face. With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john? OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in. As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her. I eagerly await the input
Zzbottom2
posted
3 / 17
So I recently started seeing a new young lady who I will admit I was smitten by. Wow, exotic and sweet and a great kisser. We went to the Alice in Chains concert about a month ago OTC.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver.
Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Input: no, don't want to hear about other guys/clients/"friends". Disrespectful and rude. No, good providers kill their phone or silence it. I always make an announcement when I'm getting undressed, I say something like I'm going to turn my phone off so no one can disturb us and it doesn't annoy you. Most are smart enough to understand and say oh yeah good idea. . It kills my will when I hear beeps every minute from texts. Just rude. Most chicks are ready to boot you if you finish 40 mins into an hour. Most are nice about it but some would rather be alone than force interaction. I laugh out loud when I hear guys say they sat there the extra 20 minutes chatting to get their time in...I pay these girls to leave after, not stay. If you guys had a connection and went over on time enjoying each other's company, she showed you her puppy, etc that's cute and all...if you want to have a genuine interest and care to pretend to care about this stuff, get a civvie girl. OTC..she wanted a concert? You're nice enough and bought tix. You wanted a hot girl on your arm? Maybe she was tired after and wanted to cut the sex short. Her excuse was she wasn't paid earlier. Sounds like she was just responding because she knew you wanted more time and were unhappy about it. Sounds like your feelers got hurt. She's not your girl, she'd had it for the day, time to scoot. Solution, civie girl, they like concerts too. too much thinking and drama in this situation on your part. I keep p4p simple. You pay to get with a beauty who otherwise probably wouldn't hang with you. You have sex, thank them and leave. Getting feelings is not smart, there's a never ending line of guys who will be dropping their donations on the dresser and leaving whether you think you're special to her or not. She'll have the puppy picture showing connection with several of them. 🐶🐶 you may think it was a really special, unique situation with her but you are one of thousands to her. She's a trick, you're a john. Act accordingly. You want conversation, debates and drama get a non paid girl. They thrive on that Shiite, which is why most of us have gravitated to this.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Smallfish
posted
5 / 17
So I recently started seeing a new young lady who I will admit I was smitten by. Wow, exotic and sweet and a great kisser. We went to the Alice in Chains concert about a month ago OTC.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver.
Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Okay, I'm definitely in the same boat as you. I'm crushing hard on this one lady (she's UTR, and No, I won't share info) that I saw in an agency. She gave me her personal number and well, I'm crushing on her. I think she knows I have strong feelings for her, but at this time, I don't see her taking advantage of it. With that being said, I'll answer your questions to the best of my ability. She has brought up guys before. Once she brought up a guy that she was seeing in another state. He turned psycho and she ended. And the most recent time, she said that she left her ex and was texting him during our time. So here's my story. I was asked to pick her up at the airport. I said okay, I'll pay for out dinner and if we do anything, I would pay. So because I wanted to be a gentleman, I also got her a lil gift as a way to show that she is important to someone. So she was happy about it and we head to dinner, her choice. So while we were eating and having drinks, she was on her phone the entire time. At which time she told me it's her ex and she was basically saying "drop dead". So we eat and head back to her place. We watch a movie and she's just unwinding from her travels. So afterwards we do have some BCD activities buy it was very lackluster. Her head wasn't there and I felt it was a necessity for her to do it. I wanted to sat good night after the movie cause I knew she wasn't going to be up for it. So anyways, afterwards she told be she was tired and needed sleep. I left her the donation. So anyways I left and haven't seen her since. I'm upset that she was texting the entire time during dinner. But like I said, I should've called it an early night but didn't. She took the whole donation and didn't take into account dinner or the gift. Which was fine by me. I don't know if this helps or not. But this is what I'm going through. I know that feelings get hurt and we think we can't be. But it's okay, we're all human.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Zzbottom2
posted
13 / 17
So I recently started seeing a new young lady who I will admit I was smitten by. Wow, exotic and sweet and a great kisser. We went to the Alice in Chains concert about a month ago OTC.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver.
Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Okay, I'm definitely in the same boat as you. I'm crushing hard on this one lady (she's UTR, and No, I won't share info) that I saw in an agency. She gave me her personal number and well, I'm crushing on her. I think she knows I have strong feelings for her, but at this time, I don't see her taking advantage of it. With that being said, I'll answer your questions to the best of my ability.
She has brought up guys before. Once she brought up a guy that she was seeing in another state. He turned psycho and she ended. And the most recent time, she said that she left her ex and was texting him during our time.
So here's my story. I was asked to pick her up at the airport. I said okay, I'll pay for out dinner and if we do anything, I would pay. So because I wanted to be a gentleman, I also got her a lil gift as a way to show that she is important to someone. So she was happy about it and we head to dinner, her choice. So while we were eating and having drinks, she was on her phone the entire time. At which time she told me it's her ex and she was basically saying "drop dead". So we eat and head back to her place. We watch a movie and she's just unwinding from her travels. So afterwards we do have some BCD activities buy it was very lackluster. Her head wasn't there and I felt it was a necessity for her to do it. I wanted to sat good night after the movie cause I knew she wasn't going to be up for it. So anyways, afterwards she told be she was tired and needed sleep. I left her the donation. So anyways I left and haven't seen her since. I'm upset that she was texting the entire time during dinner. But like I said, I should've called it an early night but didn't. She took the whole donation and didn't take into account dinner or the gift. Which was fine by me.
I don't know if this helps or not. But this is what I'm going through. I know that feelings get hurt and we think we can't be. But it's okay, we're all human.
Zzbottom2
posted
14 / 17
So I recently started seeing a new young lady who I will admit I was smitten by. Wow, exotic and sweet and a great kisser. We went to the Alice in Chains concert about a month ago OTC.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver.
Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
So realizing that I was developing feelings for her(bad, bad, bad) I choose to end the our time together. That is all on ME! I decided to explain myself to her and that is where it all went wrong.
Here are my questions....
As a whoremonger do you want the ladies you see to talk about the other men they fuck?
For me I am paying for a set amount of your time. That time should be all about me. I know
what you do but you don't need you to throw it in my face.
With my ATF I am always respectful of her time and sometimes our session run long(I tip appropriately) but even then she keeps me there showing me pictures of her puppy or talking about food(she is a big foody? spelling?) or just shooting the shit. Sometimes we end up throwing down again
Too me that is true GFE. What say you? When we are 40min. into a session(new girl) and it is clear she is done with me that is just not cool. Of course I respect her boundaries but don't sell something your not going to deliver. Again, with my ATF. Never once in 2 years has her phone rang or vibrated during our time together. Let alone her texting somebody during my paid time. Is it unprofessional to text other johns when you are with a john?
OTC!!! The concert. Had a great time. Spent $130 on dinner, paid for concert, paid for swag, blah, blah, blah. Nobody forced her to go with me but she tried to hold that over my head when I called her on ending our later session early. Telling me how she wasn't compensated for her time that night. The truth is I actually offered to pay her for her time. I had a pile of cash in my pocket that could have been hers but she turned it down which I thought was very sweet of her. That is just disingenuous. At the least I would have been happy to compensate her for BCD time the night of the concert. She invited me in and then shortly thereafter let me know it was late and she was tired and I should go. That is fine but don't invite me in.
As you all know I have know problem being blunt and I explained it to her like I see it. Her reply started with and I quote "You were starting to become one of my faves. So nice, clean, kind, respectful, honest, upfront." Then it all fell into the shitter because I was "honest" and "upfront" with her.
I eagerly await the input.
Zzbottom2
posted
17 / 17