Van Buren to Untranslated French DFK Extraordinaire in less than $200?!

While I’m not disagreeing in your post. As you are obviously speaking from experience, and me just from my own feelings. LOL

But I think that unless a provider’s services are NOT stated or implied in her ad [in which case you’d have to go by the get more if pay more idea]  its reasonable to expect the same stuff from a girl with a 250 gift as a girl  in the same city with a 400 gift, if they both for example, say they offer--and really do offer GFE. [And I mean the ones who really do, not the ones who just put those three magic letters in an ad because they  saw it somewhere]  


Of course my example presumes that other factors like  city, age, cuteness, review history are about the same.


Maybe the rate difference could be instead  be related to  how much above and beyond the provider’s comfort or expected zone she feels she is going  to accommodate her guests.  But I’d think a lot of girls who choose to provide GFE do so because things like DFK, intimacy, and a real-first-date experience are the only way intimacy can be comfortable for us. I know that’s true for me. So for me, it would be more uncomfortable and out of my comfort zone to try to NOT include those things, even if from an accounting viewpoint those things are getting more--someone would really be getting more out of me by wanting me to exclude them.

I know everyone is different. But it seems to me like as a provider you either feel natural and comfortable only when  intimacy is in a GFE setting. Or you’re one of those people that  can only feel comfortable if you detach yourself by not doing those things. Either way, I don’t see how both settings could be comfortably on the same provider’s menu,  separated by a gift difference of a couple hundred dollars.


When  I’ve been shown details of  other provider’s GFE sessions who ask for much more than I do, I have  never  come across one who included things that  I don’t. I NEVER once saw an account of  someone’s session and thought `Wow. That’s taking GFE to a whole new level. I’d have to  increase my appropriate gift to do that! Never one time. I’m not even sure how a true gfe would have a higher level. Yeah we all have different styles and personalities. But at the GFE level, to me, you are either completely into the passion of the experience. Or you’re not.  Chemistry could vary things somewhat. But not a rate increase or decrease.


I am comfortable with the gifts I request, and that really isn’t related to what any other girl does. But I can’t help but think that  since my ads can’t include  a detailed summary of  all that my sessions do include,  guys reading my ads are assuming by comparison that I must NOT do many of the things I really do   do. Am I missing out of seeing many of the guys who  are looking for someone who offers  a truly complete gfe because  its assumed that  my rate would be higher if my gfe were really that complete?  [No I’m not thinking I should raise my rate. But are guys unconsciously assuming that when they see a rate lower than 300?]

CP I tend to agree with you.  Even though I have only seen 2 providers (one locally and one who was visiting), I have to admit that I was very satisfied with what I got for my buck (and neither was $400.00).  And I am not refering to the actual "deed".  Both were very fun people and I could easily imagine these 2 lovely young women being just as friendly and outgoing in their personal lives as they were being with me.  I feel that both a provider and the hobbyist can tell within the first few minutes or so if they are going to be comfortable with one another; and being comfortable with each other goes a loooooooong way towards feeling at ease and taking the edge off.  I don`t necessarily agree that the higher the price the better the provider (or service).  Just because one pays more for something is no guarantee to having a memorable or enjoyable time.  To me a friendly and out going attitude is more important than looks, blond hair, or 38DD`s.      

Here recently I have been making discreet inquires with local providers to come and visit with them.  However it can be difficult when you don`t have a 9-to-5 job with a company that isn`t listed.  I have been turned away by more than 1 provider because my company doesn`t have any locally listed information.  And I totally understand.  As was hinted at in the original post; safety is key.  Everyone who posts on these boards (both providers & hobbyist alike) know the dire consequences of what an "accidental" run in with LE would be.  It would sure spoil my day.  I want to be damn sure that the next provider that I want to spend time with has documented reviews somewhere reputable.  And I would expect the same of her.  

The only other point that I would ad to "reviewing some of the basics" would be to stay away for CL (and its counterparts).  CL has been getting way too much negative nationwide exposure as of late; and it is only a matter of time before LE starts a major sting operation in the valley so that it can be paraded on the news at 6:00 with Mark Curtis and Lin Sue Cooney.  They will have to act if someone brings the problem to their attention.

OK that's all for now and GO METS!!!!!!!


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