So I had an appointment setup with a highly rated, reputable lady last month. I won't name names. Anyway I haven't seen her in 2 years and we emailed back and forth and texted as well to set something up. Everything was going smooth and she seemed excited to meet again after so long. The day of we were still confirmed until about 30 minutes before the appointment. She texted and said she had a situation at her incall but could get a different one and would text me address. I said that was fine and that was the last I heard. I texted later to figure out what was going on if we were still good to meet or what happened. I've also emailed and texted since to find out and no communication at all. She's posted ads on here and I've replied so I know she's still around and sees them. Not sure what's going on but not good from a well-reviewed lady. Never had this problem before and still want to see her so not sure what to do. Suggestions?

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Look S**T happens. Move on. There is always 2-side to a story. I just got stood up 2 days in a row. Yes, you are more than welcome to vent your frustrations here. But if you really wanted to see her again, was it smart to call her out on the local board (we can read your reviews).  
Last year, I had booked an appointment with her. I was running late. I told her that I would confirm when I got close to finishing. Instead of confirming, I drove to her incall (she wasn't there cause I didn't confirm). My bad. So I didn't get to see her. After all that she never held that against me and is willing to see me in the future. So I understand that there was a mix up and possible that it was her fault or maybe she has a good reason not to see you. Either way not cool calling her out

I get what you're saying about calling her out and have since removed specific reference on my original post. I guess I'm simply venting because it's been a month and I've tried contacting via email, text, and phone call with absolutely no response. Like I said I'd still like to see her and find no reason why she wouldn't want to see me or contact back. All she has to do is drop me a line and say I'd prefer to not see you anymore if that's the case. Am I wrong?

I am just going to say that in my experience you are right, she is very professional and very good with communication. Also, you should note that you still say exactly who she is in your post. If it is your intent not to call her out then maybe you should re-read what you left there.  

beg to pay for sex. It's an ole saying that a wise hobbyists once told me. I think the saying  
 might be appropriate in your situation. I think it's time for to just move on.  

Should read "women" think a long time ago. I mean they are all the same. LOL

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Maybe she did not enjoy your company the first time you met her? Did you treat her good and pay her well? Maybe your hygiene was in the minus column  that day? Did you call her too much, like every day? Maybe she had a crisis in her life and it was bad timing? Maybe she hit the lottery? Maybe you should suffer through the task of choosing to call one of the hundreds of gorgeous show stopping ladies that are specimen's of beauty and  available here, and pay them extra so you can call them at will.  Good Luck to you!

I still lurk, but have not really been in the industry at all this year (although I do see some of my ATF's from time to time)
I am currently in Los Angeles and was hoping to see a gent I've been seeing for several years.  However, once time and date were set I began to receive over 47 text messages in less than 12 hours.    

Actually,  
again from my experience if a provider isn't returning your inquiries, move on..   she just doesn't want to see you and that is ALWAYS our choice as providers...

Apparently I can't delete this thread anymore, otherwise I would. I guess I was just having a bad day and picked a stupid thing to vent about only because it had been going on for a month. You are all right that I should have just moved on and left it at that. I haven't met very many providers, however, I think I treat everyone I've met well. Apologies if I offended anyone, that was not my intention.

Do what you feel in your heart to be right........for you will be criticized anyway....... Eleanor Roosevelt

Dude, there are plenty, and i do mean plenty of BETTER looking providers whose services are equal to or exceed the individual in question. Notice the emphasis on better looking. Bedroom skills second to none? The fuck ouuta here with that shit.

I don't get why everyone is bashing on you for calling someone out.  You didn't name any names, even though I think you should've.  I really hate how providers, both repeats and brand new, tell you to arrive at a certain time, and when you get to the general area and call/text for an exact address, they totally ignore you.  Makes me mad especially if I had to drive quite a ways.