To the guys that find they have a quick trigger....Never leave your house with your gun fully loaded...empty it first let's say you have a date planned that morning in the shower unload your gun that way when you arrive chances are you will have an advantage at least in your big head...believe it or not most providers really do want you to have a great time and if you are a onetime shooter it helps to make it last as long as possible. Always let your provider know upfront if this is your M.O. that way she can help you maintain and guide your session in the direction you so desire. Try and be open with her during the meet and greet on the couch, if you have been without female company for some time you might want to tell her so she can move more slowly in helping you relax and find your own pace. The bottom line is simple if you have a great time chances are you will repeat and come again.....Victoria