Mya, The "details" time and location are "posted" all over the "Erotic" section of Craigslist.com... Have any idea why it's been broadcast? I thought it was to be somewhat controlled?....dw

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I know that parties have been posted before and we still had a good turn out.As far as having a get together I still will come.I love to migle.I might be able to hear people better since it has a nice patio compared to the socials I have been to where you have to scream back, and forth to hear each other.

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Mya -- did someone say there would be nametags at the meet and greet?

Seems like a good idea, so we'd be able to put faces with the names we see here...

It was listed at least 6-8 times with different headings and replys... and, I DIDN'T POST IT!!!

But fortunately, most of the losers who post their b.s. on that site are too scared to show.

As good as the intentions are for this event, it does not appear worth the risk due to the public broadcast. Why take an unnecssary chance with the risk of an LE bust? Just my opinion. Hope everyone is safe.

I regret that if this has been publicized, and it seems that since Mya has requested it be removed that it has, I will not be putting in an appearance. I'm sorry all, but I can't take those types of chances with my day job. It really sucks that some asshole felt the need to put that there, I was actually looking forward to something being private and "safe" as far as I'm concerned, but alas, someone felt the need to ruin that.

Disappointedly yours,

Megan

do not let one asshole ruin this event for you or anyone else.  This is a first for the local client base to meet many of the independents and they should get to meet you.  It is a public place and should be safe.  You have every right to be in a public restaurant.  Don't let that post ruin your night.  Just my humble opinion

I sure would like to find the MF that started that "post".. It generated all kinds of CL comments from "gettin some" in the parking lot, to LE being invited to take pic's and license numbers! It may be just BS, but I'm not a bit comfortable about the publicity, and don't think I'll attend. I am really bummed about this.. I was so looking forward to meeting all of you. Regretfully....dw

This is a public forum. Everyone is there to meet, great , and hopefully eat. An opportunity to see the many beautiful people in our community.

last time I checked, there was no law against adults meeting in a public place. I am looking forward to meeting old friends & making some new ones.

Vampy

p.s Isn't there a guess list? That would keep some of the rif-raf out.

p.s.s. I'm sad to see the Great Miss Pink won't be there.

I'm sure someone just felt jilted because the location was supposed to have been kept "private". But these days, with a discussion board like this one, or Craig's List - nothing really is private anymore.  None of this drama/b.s. would be occuring had the location been reported in the beginning.  There have been several meet & greets in the past where details were made public & nothing bad happened.  So what is there to be worried about?

I can't speak for anyone else, only myself. However, for me there is plenty. I work with two very prominent agencies (and I don't mean escort) in Phoenix who have made it quite clear that if they find out I've gone back to this "lifestyle", I will promptly lose my job, and therefore my career. I'm not interested in losing my job. Not on behalf of a meet and greet. No thanks, sorry, call me a snob, call me a bitch, call me whatever you want.

The words "discreet" and "privacy" are tossed around (one usually spelled incorrectly) this board and this "occupation" constantly, yet when a couple of people mention that, as a result of the discretion and privacy of the situation being compromised they won't be coming tonight, they're expected to feel silly for not showing.

I hail from the east coast where this stuff is NEVER publicized ANYWHERE by ANYONE because they realize the possible ramifications of a group known to TER showing in one place. Fine, I have the "right" to be in a "public" place any damn time I like. I get that. I also have the right NOT to go for fear of who else has that right and on whose behalf they will be "randomly" visiting the same public location for whatever reason. You do the math.

Someone mentioned about photographs of license plates, etc. being taken. DING DING DING, this is PRECISELY what happens all over the east coast and worse and is precisely why I will not compromise my career on behalf of a party.

I'm disgusted that someone made this public. Mya did EXACTLY the right thing making it invitation and screened guests only, and someone here felt the need to screw it up. I have my guesses as to who was responsible, but it matters not whether I'm right or wrong. I've been on the guest list for over a week and I had no idea where it was being held until I phoned Mya this morning regarding this post.

I marvel at the sheer LACK of privacy, discretion and concern for others displayed here by various people with malicious intent. It is usually the same people, and I am thoroughly disgusted by this whole situation. This should have been a fabulous, private get-together and someone here has taken it upon him/herself to act in a reckless manner. All I can say is, think about THIS situation the next time you trust YOUR private information to ladies and agencies alike and expect it to be kept secret. Clearly, all it takes is an agenda and malicious intent to forget ALLLLLLL about those two highly over-used and meaningless words, "discreet" and "private."

Cheers,

Megan

But you can read about them below, if you wish.

Because the content of your email is PRECISELY why I NEVER go to these highly publicized, all over the board for God and everyone to read event.

Once bitten, twice shy. You're a wise man.

Meg

Yep... born and raised as a Buckeye!... But been a Gypsy for a long time....dw

Honestly, Megan, I was going to go only because I wanted to meet YOU in person (as you already know), as I enjoy reading your posts so much.  Now I guess I won't be going.

I do have to make a comment about privacy.  It is MUCH more likely that someone will find out what you are doing (as a consenting adult with your free time) by simply doing a google search (phoenix411 can be found quite easily by) than coincidentally showing up at this party.  (e.g., Under the circumstances you described, you should really go more "off the radar" in terms of having pics on the internet.  Phoenix411 is pretty easy to find.)  I know of a few providers (I suspect most of us do) that have no visual internet presence at all, but seem to do quite well by word of mouth (so to speak) and providing pics only by email to hobbiests with references.

Just a thought.

Those are the same issues you talked about at dinner the other night.  That is what I am referring to in my orginal post.

Vampy:  I also thought the Meet and Greet was great.  I know Mya worked hard to keep the setting private - I think I gave her my life's history, but finally she let a newbie with no references in.  I too was sorry that Ms. Pink was not there as she is exquisite, and I was hoping to work some old charm on her to see if she would at least consider exceptions to her long list of qualifiers. But it was still a good opening act for me.  Ed 01