Been seeing escorts for several years and many times lived in countries where it is legal. So have experienced some of the best this business has to offer in Asia, Europe and Central America.
The last couple of months have been remarkably less exciting, after scouring through the top 100 providers in Phoenix - there are not many that have set my pulse racing based on pictures or reviews. my question to fellow friends: once you have seen a few providers that are the once in a lifetime in both looks and service, how do you go back to the "normal" providers. How do you stay passionate in this hobby if in the back of your mind you are thinking "I have seen much better times". This happened to me this week as I met an Asian provider and I was not turned on by her (she had some noticeable stretch marks that were photoshopped in pictures. I just told her to give me a good massage for the hour as I was not feeling the passion to look beyond the imperfection. I am getting very disappointed as I have set my bar very high and now it is difficult for me to compromise and have a good time. Any thoughts on how to get out of this rut and enjoy the fine ladies for who they are instead of setting up comparisons with my few once in a lifetimes....I am always expecting my next experience to be equal or better than my previous ones and it is not a realistic one and I am setting myself up for disappointmentyou haven't "seen any once in a lifetime" Phoenix providers. Also in your second review you state it was only your second experience in the hobby. So are you a newbie or a veteran? You statements conflict. I think maybe you should change your name to "vjlovesbs".
To answer your question: It's just not that hard to have a good time with a resource like TER at your hands. Are some better than other? Absolutely!!! I have learned to just enjoy the moment.
Well well I see his review if Jessica Sweet was taken down. She said it was fake. Evidently it was. This guy is all hot air I believe and I hope he's gone and we don't hear from him again
Schedule a double with a couple of ladies who enjoy playing together. If that doesn't get you going...........
I guess I'm a lucky guy. I'm fairly new at this, less than a year, and the only let down was a poor chemistry session with a lady who was too young for me. All the rest, in Phoenix and other parts of the country have been a blast .
But, I am clearly a more equal opportunity monger who is excited by many different personalities and body types. Skill, personality, looks, all together make for a wonderful time.
If I was languishing with mediocrity, I would quit this. The ladies I see are beyond incredible.
I think that you should really research the reviews of the providers you are looking to meet and talk to the guys about their favorites and their experiences that should help.
VJ
Don't believe for a minute you scoured the top 100 Providers in Phoenix.
As I will tell you... that.... Some of the Classiest, Most Beautiful, Outstanding, and Sexiest Ladies on the face of the earth, not only live here in Phoenix, but have been highly reviewed by men who truly love women in every sense of the word.
However you decide to work out of the rut you say you are in, is a matter you may want to take the time required, and enjoy the many Incredible & Gorgeous Providers of Phoenix
DiCarlo is 1000% correct. The ladies in Phoenix are the best. I have yet to have a bad experience, and the women I have seen are real, intelligent, and are just terrific to just hang out with, let alone what they can do to bring a ear to ear grin to your face.
Di Carlo is correct there are many wonderful and very beautiful ladies in the Phoenix area many of which we have both seen. Research is a key. A very important one. Also keep in mind what is required for ladies to be in the top 100 list is to have a minimum of 20 reviews and in order to stay in the top list reviews have to be current. I believe 3 months. There are several providers not in the top 100 list because they are either low volume or low profile or both. Three examples are Mona Lisa, Avia Marie and Bret Grey. All 3 have averages well above 9/9 but because of the requirements I mentioned above do not qualify for being in the top 100 list. But believe me all of them are outstanding in their own right. I don't know how old you are but don't shy away from older providers say over 40. Bret Grey I believe is close to 50 but damn she looks like 40 or less and is super sexy and fun to be with. Sissy is another 40+ but God she is awesome. One other suggestion try Phx Girls and Phx Fantasy agencies. They have some fine younger ladies.
So the alternative is a 50 year old lady (who I am not personally insulting just making an observation on her age) vs. overpriced criminal enterprises for younger providers. Of course the original poster is correct the quality is terrible. The younger women in the criminal enterprises need to be made to work independantly to lower their rates.
That's the best answer yet! If you can't find what you're looking for in Phoenix, move!
GREAT response! Jeffe is sooo right, and so is Brynn. If a guy can't find it here in The Valley, you gotta think it's him, don't you?
Something tells me if they have so much as pimple they won't meet your standards.
and not the quality of Phoenic ladies why don't you seek a psychiatrist?
So you mean to tell me that something as silly as a couple of stretch marks would ruin your experience with a provider??? Not only that, but there are only 2 visible reviews that you have written were not very complimentary for either young lady. and did you notice the woman u gave the 8 in looks wasn't exactly a gem in the service department (according to you)i also don't think you realize how much we have to gain/lose with these reviews. You could end up really damaging a person's income and ability to feed their family. While you have a nice cushiony secure job in the regular world you may not understand that. But if she was nice to you and she treated you well, and was clean and took care of you, it's a bit unfair and like a slap in the face to still give negative feedback.
Bottom line is that I don't think you have been engaging in the hobby long enough to consider yourself a pro...nor are you in a position to judge. There is not ONE woman here or any where else that is perfect. And Many of us love ourselves enough that we will not spend thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to avoid being picked apart by people...particularly men that will just find something else to complain about anyway. I think that you should reevaluate what it is you truly want from a provider, or maybe what ever it is you are seeking is something you should work out within yourself.
that being said, to Post something like this is counter productive. Makes the quality providers a bit reluctant to even consider seeing you. I mean he's not going to be happy anyway...and chances are he is going to write a unfavorable review no matter what so why bother? just a thought..
If you read my previous post you know that I am at odds with the OP. However, your post implies we should be favorable with our reviews regardless, because said hooker needs to feed her family. That defeats the purpose of this site. TO ALL HOOKERS please remember this site was created for us TRICKS. If you don't like your reviews provide better service. There are plenty that provide solid service and this is never an issue for them. Oh wait P_, your a courtesan. Please tell me the difference between a courtesan and a prostitute.
Wait a min, I never implied that anyone should write rosy reviews for everyone. Don't put words in my mouth. And I have never referred to myself as a hooker or any of the other disrespectful terms you have used. I think that your lack of manners and your rude tone is what prevents you from having a good time.
But it doesn't make me any difference...my phone rings just fine and I don't rely solely on ter, reviews or even this source of income. I'd sooner quit and find a job scrubbing toilets before I allowed myself to be around a person with that kind of attitude.news flash, you are not better than anyone. A profession is a profession regardless of what it at be. You sound bitter because you have to pay for it. I have no more to say regarding this matter, and I will not dignify anything else you say with a response.
Smh...lol...
This is a good post from the original hobbyist who was complaining. The consumers need to be more demanding here and demand higher quality at lower prices. The fact that a 50 year old provider is a super star says something about the low standards of all hobbyists which need to be raised asap. The hobbyists should go on strike and demand $60 rates.
I'm not sure what 50 year old your referring to. However who are you to make comments about the "low standards of all hobbyists". I see you are hiding behind an alias. What does that say about standards? Also the original poster you are referring to only has 2 published reviews so I wouldn't put a lot of weight behind what he said. Quit complaining about rates and quality. No one is holding a gun to your head to see providers in Phoenix. If you don't like the rates here try NY or Chicago. I don't make judgements or decisions based on age but rather on compatibility and reviews I read on providers. I have had equally fantastic services from some 40-50 year old providers as I have had with 25 year old providers. I think I might agree with Brynn Hunter who said "move". By the way I believe she is 40 and her rate is $400/hr but by God it sure looks like she doesn't lack for clientele. In fact I think I need to go see her before she gets a lot older. Haha
Damn, another tongue in cheek post by an alias!
Yep, we should all go on strike for $60 rates. You go first!!
As for me, I'm too old to waste any more time not getting laid by the beautifully imperfect women who treat me like I'm the best lover, have the biggest dick and that I'm the most important man in the world to them.
My standards are my standards. I will pay what these ladies ask. If I can't spend the money at the time, I will wait till I can.
Last night, I had the most amazing experience with a 50 something beautiful provider that gave me new sensations that I have never felt before. The next few weeks will include 30 something and 40 something ladies who are all exceptional in different ways.
I can't imagine what standards I need to raise.
You go ahead and keep whacking yourself while I get these ladies to do it for me.
In your defense I can understand your frustration over the provider having stretch marks and you not noticing them on her pics because they were overly photoshopped. Seems to be an epidemic of photoshopped pics these days and honestly it is false advertisement, so you do have a right to be upset. Stretch marks are a turn off for you and if known you would not have booked her.
But, yes there is a but. You cannot judge (ALL) PHX providers because of a few women or sessions that did not meet your high expectations. You are looking for perfection and when you find her, please pm me because honestly I think your bar is set so high and no provider here is going to ever be "PERFECT" enough for you.