I saw a super hot lady was coming to town and I tried to set up a date.  I gave her my TER info so she could see I was a hobbyist.  She wrote me back and said no to a date because I did not give high enough scores to my past dates?  Is this a good reason to turn me down?

I scrolled through your reviews and you seem to take the rankings seriously and you had a few 8's in there although not many and quite frankly not many providers are 8's.

Since our lists have never crossed, I can't comment directly but gymratguy's thoughts were spot on.  
Could you pm me with the provider info?  I think my response would have been "so why don't you show me what a 9/9 is all about?" and see how she responded.  Probably would have been crickets!  LOL

Yes it has happened to me. Some ladies are score driven - especially ones from LA, NY and DC areas (sorry I am generalizing here) .  Whomever it is stay far away. If you do want to see these ladies, don't give her your TER ID. There are other ways you can be verified

It happened to me a couple of years ago in Phoenix.  She said my reviews were too tough.  I thought I had her convinced to see me but then she quit answering my calls.  Of course I found other fish in the sea.

I personally don't think one should always assume that the reason she doesnt want to see reviewers that give lower or mediocre scores are score driven. I believe that some may think it could be a red flag that the reviewer may not connect with a lot of women and is extremely picky.

We are talking about ladies who specifically tells you she won't see you because of you don't hand out 10/10's all the time.

I basically said, NOT ALL providers should be considered score driven because they decline heavy reviewers who mostly give 3's, 4's, 5's, 6's a few 1's & 2's, 7's and a couple 8's. My point was, she probably assumes that he's very pickey or doesn't connect w/ most providers. I'm sure there are some providers that are score driven. I'm not denying that. Get it now? That's my point of view. This is a discussion board & I'm allowed to express my opinion.

I have had several experiences where I would have rated the provider as a 8-9-10, but the rules, the system, and the moderator correctly disapproved my review, and reminded me of the rating scale.  Remember, if the provider OFFERS the service, then the points are available, even if you did not personally experience that service during your visit.  Conversely, if the service is not available, the reviewer should not "over-rate" the potential service.  It helps us all when ratings are accurate.  Sometimes the moderator asks for "more juicy details" and sometimes it's just not possible-- a good time, but no Olympic medal experience.  The rating is, and should be, what it is.

After all she is running a business and if she has the benefit of seeing a potential customer gives low scores ahead of time then I wouldn't be surprised at all if she opted not to see you to avoid what she thought was a high chance of a low score. If you want to use your TER account as a tool for screening you need to keep in mind just what the person on the other end is going to see. All your posts, all your reviews, all your scores. May be better not to give out your TER handle and just go with P411 if there are aspects of your TER profile that will turn some ladies off.

Depends upon how you score her reply?
Deprived