I have been scanning through ads lately and have discovered that there have been an increase of "no black guys?. Have the black guys become bad again or is it because we are black? Now some of the girls who put this in their ads is good as it does not waste anyone's time but these girls I would not touch anyways. Today I ran across this chick's ad named Shawna and she added that to hers and I must tell you that is a run down girl living an area that I would not let my worse enemy frequent let alone me laying my head there. I am not offended I just want to know by anyone if the black guys like me become the uninvited? I have my regulars and they see me but they also have moved away from the black guys. ??????????????
I'm a black hobbyist and one thing I've learned is that it's best to not take it personal when a white provider won’t see me and move on.
There's PLENTY of great providers out there that have no issues concerning color so it’s not worth worrying about.
Not to mention that who these ladies choose to see or not see ultimately boils down to a subjective matter of personal choice on many levels.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys that certain providers won't see because of the tone of their voice or maybe even their age or what they do for work.
In the end both the provider and client need to feel comfortable with each other for a session to be enjoyable so if a girl is up from about not wanting to see me because I'm black then I would just be glad that they we professional enough to make it known up front and take my business elsewhere.
A provider once told me she started that rule because most of the black guys who called her really wanted to pimp her, and were relentless in pursuing it. Maybe that is something that happens more to girls that look "low rent," as described by other posters, but this girl was awfully cute.
Hey guys, I've also noticed some of those listings and though white, I've been put off by their appearance as well. Your reasoned comments telegraph that each of you has his head on straight about how this reflects adversely only on the writer of the ad. But consider this: perhaps in at least some cases it's instead a testimonial to the legend that you guys are all stallions, and they want to avoid pain by increasing their percentage of needle-dick clients. (I don't know, maybe it's not just a legend; haven't done any research on the subject. Would rather research the gals.) So proudly hang (literally) in there, TER brothers!
You know I can understand that but wouldn't good referencing eliminate that? I do understand what you are saying though and I am definitely not one for the low rent.
Don't feel left out. Plenty of "none over 40/45" or '"must be in-shape to see me" ladies out there too. They're just missing good opportunities and dollars. We all have our preferences ...
I've had several providers tell me they cull out black guys by listening to their voice, so for every provider who states that in their ad, there are 5 who do it over the phone. Some say it's size; others due to a bad experience. It's all personal preference, and besides, there are just a ton of good providers in Phoenix.
"Please do not bring alcohol to our session." They have a preference. And I know I'm not asking them , "Gee why can't I bring a bottle of Vodka?" LOL
I've seen this question asked all over the board on TER for a long time. There isn't an increase. You're just noticing it more often. This question come up now and again and there is no "real" answer for it.
My rule is: If you're not any fun I won't see you.
In the meantime, please enjoy this clip from Foamy's Madd Hatta black Squirrel cousin!
You will find women of every level and look that will not see _______ men (foreign,black,old,young,handicapped,whatever) they choose so for their own personal experience. I know a few providers who will not see black men for varying reasons.It's their decision really.I would rather they are upfront and state preferences rather than going ahead with something they don't enjoy and the client also getting a ho-hum experience.
Simone
p.s.(singing) "I like boys boys all type of boys black-white-puertorican-chinese-boys."
Speaking for myself as a white hobbiest, I will not see any provider that has too many restrictions - especially ones that will not see black men. Why would I want to see a woman that makes too many demands - thats what I have at home.
I am surprised I may be the only one to respond to this post WITH this response, because I just cant be the only one this has happened to!! Now I am not in any way down on any one person for what color skin they have , BUT, I have had my problems with black guys! So much so that I may seriously consider not seeing them if they sound black. I hate that , but I've had too many problems with them, and I've never had these things happen with non-black dudes. Hate me if you wish, I didnt do it. They did!
Like what? I was trying to figure out what black guys are doing that triggers this response. What I am saying wouldnt proper vetting prevent these occurences? Why would you see someone without references?
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