To eat, and, or to play?

Westin Kierland. Greenway and Scottsdale Rd.
Marriott's Desert Ridge. Tatum, north of the 101.
And, if I had extra $$$, Gainey Ranch Resort.

Agreed ... would add the Phoenician and Royal Palms as far as places to stay.  
To eat ... Mastros is my favorite by far (I prefer City Hall over the other two in town), Roka Akor, Talbots, T.Cooks and J&G Steakhouse.        

1. Oasis one bedroom suite @ Four Seasons Troon North
2. Spa Suite @ the Sanctuary on Camelback  
3. Tasting menu @ Binkley's Restaurant  
4. Bone in Filet @ Ocean Club Mastro's  
5. Chilean Sea Bass @ Elements. Chef Beau Macmillan
6. Maine lobster pot pie or wagyu beef @ Bourbon Steak - Chef Michael Mina's restaurant. He owns his signatures restaurant in SF and has Multiple restaurants in Vegas (Michael Mina in Bellagio, American Fish in Aria, Strip Steak in Mandalay Bay)
7. J & G Steakhouse. Chef Jean-Georges Vongerichten. Decent, although not as good as his place in Vegas (Prime Steakhouse in Bellagio) or in NY (Jean Georges in Trump)

I agree.  I have used the Legacy a couple of times.  Book the one bedroom, cook dinner for your lovely companion and have some adult fun after.  You will have her cumming before you hit the sheets!  LOL!

If you can afford it the Royal Palm is an unbeatable location for drinks, dinner and/or whatever

And where is my invite sexy?