..but if anyone knows what is and is not real...it was a discussion centered around the lack of kindness that has been going on. And to drive a point. Full of it?! Heck yes. Glad it got under your emotional side. Now take that negative energy (i'll give you some more here) and do something positive.

People do have feelings. You do. I do. Everyone does. The people are real. The biz side - nah. But this is the most personal biz in the world. Sometimes it does get blurry and people do think they can talk to others like meat in a market - without total respect. Sometimes the biz goes personal where two people connect.

Like I told you before, I hate rudeness. And will always fire away when I see it happening.

The ladies can't always do that - bad for business - for them, they MUST create the fantasy illusion of what the masses want. Is that easy? no. Especially when shots are fired constantly at them. Do I agree with everything on both sides? no. I am egotistacal at times? yes. I am FAR from perfect.

Imagine though - a rating system where the men were evaluate on a scale of 1-10 for looks, and 1-10 for performance. What would you like to see posted about yourself. And if you posted a Happy Birthday - or Was nice to meet you - and got SLAMMED, how would you feel - knowing it is difficult to respond and not piss people off - should it bother them - nope. But we are humans. Look at what my post did to you. Set your trigger high enough to start a new thread. Why? Because you are human. And me responding to you? What a waste of my time. So later...