Today seems a good day to ask  as  we seem to be clearing up many topics  thanks to all the posters we now have here.....A few years ago Eros started a catagory called mature  and I was surprised how many young  gals listed there  so when you ask or are looking for a mature provider what age  do you consider mature ? I thought at the time it would be over 40 but maybe everyone  has their own ideas  on what is considered mature

Most of the providers on Backpage, etc. who are over 30 describe themselves as "mature".  Not very many over 40 and I wish there were more...

I would agree with the idea of a "chronologically" mature provider is 40 or over.  In general I have found that the age posted on an add is that says 35+ is more likely over 40.

I tend to agree it's funny I use to think a guy was young  when he in his 20's  then even 30 seemed too young  as we get older  we tend to raise the bar on age now a young guy can be 40  a mature guy for myself would be over 45  both have their good points  but lately have been leaning toward a more mature man

Excellent post Victoria.  It's a question I've debated with others (providers and hobbyists) often.  I would have to go with over 40.

Luscious Lynne

are mature in their early 20's while others aren't at 55.

I've had some of my best dates with young ladies in their mid-to-late twenties, and some of my less memorable ones with ladies in their 40's, but the opposite applies as well.  I've had some incredible dates with ladies in their 40's and less memorable ones with ladies in their mid-twenties.

That's why, in my post I said "age is not critical, but maturity is..."  Spare me a 20-ish who's umbilically connected to her iPhone with its glow lighting up her face 24-7, as well as the 40's lady whose conversation is limited to discussing others in the hobby, and how skinny this lady is, vs how fat the other lady is, etc.  And yes, it's happened.

I should point out that obviously, the male counterpart of this problem is alive & well too, so I'm not just picking on the ladies here.

funny story a young guy calls in his mid twentys  and says I love older woman  so I said  how old  is the  woman  you saw  he said 35  LOL so it does depend on the age of client and his perception of mature on the reverse a man  might call and say  you might be too young for me  and he might be  in his 70's the good news here is  "what  we use to do all  night , now takes us all night to do , but we get it right!!"

There is a provider in the Chicago area who I once saw back in 2008 who was an amazingly sexy woman ALMOST 70 YEARS OLD.  She definitely counts as mature, but she says the majority of the hobbyists she sees are in their late 20s or early 30s.  I was one of the older men she saw and I'm in my 40s.  To a 19 year old man, 30 might be mature.  To a 45 year old man, a woman in her 50s isn't "mature", she's more like the same age.  So to answer Victoria's original question, it's all relative...